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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 5:50:10 AM

DomImus

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ORIGINAL: peppermint
As to your question. Yes, it is very unusual for a Dominant or Master to make such a request of you before even meeting with you. That is something one might do for a Dominant one has known for several months and is collared to that Dominant.

In light of the fact that she has been calling this person Master for two months and has not even met him yet it's not all that unusual. That is not to say that you cannot get to know someone and grow close to them through correspondence and telephone but there is a pattern here of rushing.

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 6:16:02 AM

ranja

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well newleaf... happy new year...
i read the whole thread... it was good fun... i am snowed in
i am glad you still have your hair on
is this new master who owns you also cyber?

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 6:47:16 AM

nephandi

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Greetings

I am not a Dom obviously so I am sorry if my reply was not wanted.

It is not uncommon for a Dom or a Master to what to make physical changes to a sub, longer or shorter hair, tattoos, piercings, cloth style or weight and so on, this is quite normal and is not a red flag. The question is, do you trust your new Master enough to do sweeping changes to your appearance before your first meeting? This is only something you yourself can answer. How attached are you to your long hair. I would not have cut my hair to please someone before the first meeting, as I am very attached and proud of my long hair. I would have to really love someone or know I would stay their slave forever for me to cut it off. But you might not be so attached to your hair, or you might know already before you haven even met this man that you will be his forever.

Now as for the other Dom, he sounds to me to be jealous and trying to destroy your relationship with your Master. I would recommend you talking with your Master about these concerns. If you trust him enough to cut of your hair for him, you should trust him enough to talk with him and not let some jealous jerk get between you.

I wish you and your Master the best.

Be Well

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 7:09:13 AM

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Well, it's your head, if you are comfortable cutting it off, then more power to you...dangerous, not as much as a permanent body modification, because hair does grow back, but silly? Retarded? Living in fantasy? Perhaps.
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wow! - now we're talking uber super truely really dedicated subbie!!

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 10:41:55 AM

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I must not be a true submissive since I would never, ever cut my hair even if I was wildly, madly, passionately in love with someone.

Why? Because my hair is very important to me and anyone who I was with would know that and respect it. There are plenty of ways I show submission, but that is not one of them.

And obviously, and I agree with everyone else on the rushing it part; crazy.

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 11:15:35 AM

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ORIGINAL: lally2

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ORIGINAL: monywildcat

Well, it's your head, if you are comfortable cutting it off, then more power to you...dangerous, not as much as a permanent body modification, because hair does grow back, but silly? Retarded? Living in fantasy? Perhaps.
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wow! - now we're talking uber super truely really dedicated subbie!!

just in case anyone actually thought i meant there was something uber about cutting off youre hair -

< Message edited by lally2 -- 1/6/2010 11:16:53 AM >

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 1:49:55 PM

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Hi newleafintx
I am glad you listen to the advise given to you a year ago, and a year later you have a new Dom that you adore.

Best to you

wisdomtogive
aka oceanwynds..one of the original posters

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 5:54:36 PM

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Sometimes I've wondered by the responses if people actually read more than the OP. After reading some of the more recent posts on this one, I think it is safe to say "no." The original post is two years old. The OP was kind enough to come in and give us an update on what has happened in her life since she first asked her question. It would have been nice if some of the people who commented recently had done a read through and seen that. The advice no longer applies.

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 6:19:57 PM

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newleaf, I remember your post and I'm glad that you found a good Master.

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RE: hair - 1/6/2010 7:57:32 PM

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I must not be a true submissive since I would never, ever cut my hair even if I was wildly, madly, passionately in love with someone.

Why? Because my hair is very important to me and anyone who I was with would know that and respect it. There are plenty of ways I show submission, but that is not one of them.

And obviously, and I agree with everyone else on the rushing it part; crazy.

We agree again

. No way would I cut my hair for anyone, not going to happen. I occasionally even wear extensions for that super wild hair look, I love tousled sexy hair and I didn't think I had a lot of limits, but yep, that is one for sure. First of all it makes me feel sexy and feminine, so I can't imagine why a man would want to take that part of me away.

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