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Tired of money dommes? How about a money male sub? - 1/2/2006 2:23:13 PM

AAkasha

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When subs complain about "money dommes" often they will say "You never hear of a femdom paying a male sub." Well, they do. I certainly have. I've paid a man as part of a fetish of mine (objectifying a man by paying him to submit, yum) and paid as a way to have a "kept man" -- a boytoy on my arm. I paid for his clothes, food, travel, etc. I certainly have no problem paying.

I would have no problem paying a "money sub" on collarme, too. So stop complaining, and show me why you are worth the cash. Certainly the money dommes tell you why they deserve the money or they make some command (you can choose whether or no to send the money), and apparently some men are paying.

I don't see the male subs lining up and offering up their body/mind for cash. Sure, some email me and say they will take my money, but they don't have anything to offer. If you want to be paid, you have to have something to give. You have to look good on cam, you have to have a style, you have to have charisma, charm. You have to have the "it" factor. If you don't -- then work on getting it, and then start making money. You also have to not be demanding of me, my time, or what you get in return. You get cash. No, you don't get to meet me. No, you don't get to eat my pussy. No, you don't get to wear my collar. You get cash for making me wet. I get to know that I can end the relationship and not have harrassment.

Like many customers of pro femdoms, I like the convenience, the 'at my fingertips' aspect and the lack of emotional entanglement that comes with "pay for play." I prefer to send gifts as opposed to cash (you want new clothes? music? toys?) but have done wire transfers (I had a really hot sub in Russia for some time, yum. Helped him pay for university).

I've paid up to $6/minute on sites like "flirt4free". Wanna see my type?
http://flirt4free.com/models/bios/Tyler/&service=guys&mp_code=0000&source_code=default&PHPSESSID=bccd2dd803db025ac0ed3e5dab1369b3

Which brings up the other point. Subs, you know you can submit live on cam for CASH -- you use toys, you get nasty, you play with your nipples, you share fantasies. Granted, you are submitting to gay men -- but it's over the net. You can pretend it's a woman...and look at the money you will make?

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RE: Tired of money dommes? How about a money male sub? - 1/2/2006 3:50:38 PM

dekley

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I have no problem with pro-dommes or pro-subs, although I really don't think there's much of a domme market for pro male subs. I've certainly patronized more than a few pro-dommes in my younger days. As long as everything is up front and both parties get what they're looking for, then everything is hunky-dory IMHO.

I do however have a problem with so called dommes who claim to be something that they're not (not domme, maybe not even female) just to get some poor sap to fork over his money. That seems to be the more common scenario these days, particularly in light of the Internet's popularity. Just seems to me there are plenty of scammers looking for easy fish to bait.

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RE: Tired of money dommes? How about a money male sub? - 1/2/2006 4:18:03 PM

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HEY! Give that "your type" guy some highlights and he looks remarkably like my infamous grocery store carry out boy.

Speaking of which, I suddenly need eggs. :)

I would be willing to pay in the right circumstances, sub or Dom. If a Dom has a particular area of expertise or equipment or something I desire, I have no problem paying for that service. If I needed a boy toy for a specific thing, the same applies. Assuming, of course, I can reasonably afford it at that time. My obligations as a parent and reasonably functional contributing bill-paying member of society come first. It would be an expense of the "extra" nature.

Of course, if I have a comfortable relationship with a person and can get the same thing for free -- I am no dummy.

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RE: Tired of money dommes? How about a money male sub? - 1/3/2006 4:19:46 AM

jamesthehumanrug

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oh my gaud akasha kateland kato
whatever......
hey you are fanstastic!
i always wanted to but
brilliant best friend doms never had the bright idea plan,for me when i asked....
oh my gaud
you got it down !!
i don't know why i did'nt think, of it my self
,now i'm too g. d. jaded,
too f'n old....
oh my gaud
you are my felon-heeero!!!
i don't know, if i can say:
i do all this and ,that,
then not worry ,tho ....
but ,au ma' gaud!!!!
( like the, outta' towners' movie)
i feel you finally did it !
you
got womin doms right?!
or
do you get mostly oversexed ;bilogically can't help it ;
males, as usual??????????????
good job chapo!!!!!
rite on!!!!!!
boy am i stupid....
how wonderful your site is !
so pro. ....
so slick!!
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much sucess ,to you braino!
sincerely ,
musta' had a great manager ,or p.r. person...
luv you idol!!!!!!!

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