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anal sex - 12/30/2008 8:41:55 PM   
LittleMissModern


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to tell you the truth, i'd be more fond of it if it didn't screw up my insides for 3+ days after. 

i have issues in the bathroom for a while after this kind of play.  i'd love to be able to do it more, but i find myself not willing to have voluntary diarrhea all that often...

when i asked my boyfriend how often he'd do it if he had the choice, he suggested once a week. if we did that, i'd poop like normal only two days out of every week, if i was lucky. 

i kindof think of it as a blender... you just kinda smush everything up in there, right?

so, i wondered if anyone had any idea to avoid icky bathroom stuff after this-- or if you just play and deal with it...

help?

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RE: anal sex - 12/30/2008 10:50:57 PM   
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Hmmmm...well, sometimes it does temporarily disrupt things but I'm unclear why it would cause the effects you're describing for several days.  No, I don't view it as a blender; even the largest phallus can't get in there and 'stir up' the kindof material you seem to be describing.  Perhaps your system is reacting poorly to his ejaculate?  Are you sure you don't have any gastro-intestinal issues that could be a factor while you're correlating the difficulties to anal?  Could you be emotionally upset about it and does your stomach get upset in that fashion when you're upset? 
Are you doing some sort of pre-prep that could be aggravating your insides? 
I know I've asked a lot of questions in answer to your questions but I can't say that I understand why what's going on is going on and more information might help. 
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P.S.--Some short-term out-of-the-ordinary bathroom stuff is sometimes present for a day.  The only time I can recall, in my experience to date, things being askew for days on end was the first time I was with a very large individual and I was rather certain that the orifice in question would never work for its primary purpose again but that was a soreness thing that went away. 

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RE: anal sex - 12/30/2008 11:17:35 PM   
LittleMissModern


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well, i was fine the first day... and i can tell that i'm starting to get back to normal, but yesterday was day 2, and it was un-fun. 

it's not painful... it's just diarrhea that wasn't there before the play took place...

it's not my FAVORITE thing... (but goodness knows we do things sometimes that aren't our favorite for the people we care about)... but i don't hate it. 

pre-prep is astroglide and an orgasm




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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 6:16:25 AM   
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If you've only done it once it could be coincidence.  Many use an enema before anal play to get rid of whatever is in the colon.  That might help you.  There are times when the walls become a bit aggravated and make you feel more sensitive which makes defecation more uncomfortable, but with practice that should go away. 

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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 9:06:17 AM   
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Change Lube!

You are most likely having a Reaction to your Body trying to break down the lube. It is Common. I use ID Glide and Astroglide. Anything that is labled Water Soluable should be gentle enough and may even stop your runny messes.

To address your idea of the Blender. No that is not how your Anal Cavity or your intestines work. You are most likely either having a reaction to the Lube or to the Sex itself and your body is compensating by losening your stool.

You may want to try Pepto Tablets the night before you have Anal Sex as well as it will help to solidify your STool just becareful you may be robbing peter to pay paul on that one as you may find after sex you are constipated for a couple days.

Either way don't look at this as an Anal Sex thing, look at it as a know your body thing.

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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 9:24:09 AM   
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I might suggest also switching lubes to one that does not contain glycerin... glycerin is used as a laxitive.

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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 12:09:07 PM   
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DavanKael mentioned this also, and it was the first thing that came to my mind. If your boyfriend is ejaculating inside you when you play, that might be the culprit, too. One of my best friends loves anal, but won't let her hubby finish in her rear because of this exact same problem.

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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 6:47:56 PM   
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cumming in a womans ass is precious indeed  without that why bother ? love watching it drip out ..very much a turn on indeed try the enema first to clean you out ..then theres nothing left ..my mistress fucks and fists my ass at least once a week and yes i do enemas first to make sure im clean for her inside as well as outside  24 hours later im back to normal ...have fun mal

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RE: anal sex - 12/31/2008 6:58:54 PM   
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your boyfriend might carry infections [meaning, he doesn't have symptoms but you do], so be sure he's been checked for everything and tells his doc he performs anal sex.

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RE: anal sex - 1/1/2009 8:18:19 PM   
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As someone here suggested, an enema to clean out the colon should help you considerably.  If the problem persists I would be very careful about continuing anal sex since you might have an issue specific to your body and you don't want to fool with the colon.  You should check with your gyno and ask her advice, in my opinion. With anal you should be very careful of bacteria in the anus and I would suggest not letting  him go from anal to vaginal sex during intercourse.  It is important to note that HIV, the virus causing AIDS, can be transmitted through anal sex, especially anal intercourse. In fact, the risk of HIV transmission is greater than it is in vaginal intercourse because the lining of the rectum tears more easily than the vagina does.  The following lnk might be helpful..  http://health.discovery.com/centers/sex/sexpedia/analsex.html   Have fun but be careful.

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RE: anal sex - 1/2/2009 1:33:42 AM   
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I have never had diarrhea from anal but I think maybe doing an enema before hand would help and try taking anti diarrheals

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RE: anal sex - 1/3/2009 1:37:18 PM   
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To suggest her BF has STD is so unsavory. To suggest more lube is so likely the lube only helps the ejaculate find its way into her large colon a bit faster. To suggest an enema before hand is also quite unsavory as the fluid in an enema does not all come out immediately and can be absorbed in the large colon and only add to loose stool later.. 

LittleMissModern,  It is the wonderful and marvelous ingredients in his ejaculate that is giving you diarrhea !  Quite simply, he is giving you a healthy enema and your large colon dispells of it as it wishes.     Start by assuming that male ejaculate is roughly equivalent in nutritional composition to raw egg white (a safe assumption). The normal size egg is about 35 cubic centimeters in volume and contains about 14 calories and 3 grams of protein. the normal size ejaculation is about 5 cubic centimeters, or one-seventh the volume of an egg white; figure it, therefore, to contain about one-seventh the nutrients--approximately 2 calories and .1 gram of protein. Of course, you'll have to adjust those figures if you're talking about Jumbo Size (eggs, that is).  Since sperm contain the DNA of the man they pretty much have the same composition as the man. Protein for the most part.  Drugs, such as recreational drugs, and alcohol may find there way to male ejaculate just as it drugs and alcohol cross the blood brain barrier or can find their way to breast milk. I too get loose stool, not diarrhea, from my Sir when he ejaculates in my ass.  I have no idea how much your man ejaculates (as in volume) but if it is too much... why can't he ejaculate on your sweet ass and then spank it.  How much fun!  Then he could fuck your ass more than once a week !!  whooooo yaaaa ! I found this article long ago and saved it !!Is semen nature's Prozac? I want to add before you read this, that I take a large dose of Cymbolta and Sir's ejaculate does a hell of alot more for my seritonin and endorphins brain chemicals than "that" pill.  I say "his ejaculate" because that is the almost always the climax of several hours of high energy fun.The article ~~~~~~~~~~
Most readers will not need an academician to tell them that busting a nut makes you feel good. But a new university study suggests something less obvious: that the recipient of semen gets something, too-- a boost in spirits.
At least if she takes it up the vagina. Psychologist Gordon Gallup and colleagues at State University of New York at Stony Brook queried co-eds about their sexual practices, and correlated their vaginal exposure to semen to their ranking on a supposedly standardized measure of feeling blue. If you score above 17 on the Beck Depression Inventory, you're deemed as "moderately depressed." The young women whose boyfriends never used condoms scored a cheerful 8 on average, those who sometimes used them came in at 10.5, those who usually used them clocked a 15, and those who always used them scored 11.3. Women who weren't having heterosex at all had an average score of 13.5. When they crunched the numbers, Gallup et al. claimed that exposure to semen proved to be the key difference.   Gallup et al., whose research is published in the June, 2002 Archives of Sexual Behavior, claim to have found their way through a thicket of potentially confounding variables-- having statistically adjusted for the effects on depression of, for example, not being in a relationship. One could imagine that partners who didn't use condoms might have closer, more trusting relationships, or were wanting children-- factors that could be correlated with mood.
"Semen does indeed contain a variety of hormone-like substances which could be absorbed by the female reproductive tract and could indeed give a temporary lift to mood," says Richard C. Pillard MD, professor of psychiatry at Boston University School of Medicine, tells The Guide.
Semen is quite a biochemical cocktail-- forgive the pun. Besides sugar, a dollop of protein, and a few trendy micronutrients (such as zinc), the carrier for sperm is a brew of hormones-- testosterone, estrogen, follicle stimulating hormone, luteinizing hormone, among others-- that could be expected to affect mood-- ask any woman having her period, going through menopause, or a man with low testosterone. Moreover, chemical markers from semen are known to make their presence known in a woman's bloodstream within hours of vaginal sex.
Could exposure to semen through oral or anal sex be paths to happiness? Oral contraceptives show that some hormones can survive the digestive tract, and intestinal tissue is famously permeable.
"We would need to see this finding replicated and if it is, we could perhaps identify naturally occurring mood elevators," Pillard adds. "Of course one would also like to see if there is a similar effect in men."
In the meantime, exposing semen to your bloodstream can cause problems, such as HIV infection, liable to depress you and yours. But perhaps ingesting one's own cum could be like having your cake and eating it, too.

http://www.guidemag.com/magcontent/invokemagcontent.cfm?ID=80E0BE0F-ED83-4BD9-AAD41742CCF5826A
 

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RE: anal sex - 2/8/2009 5:25:46 PM   
pventola


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i would suggest a good enema or three to clean you out before and that should help

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RE: anal sex - 2/8/2009 6:08:09 PM   
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um... I've *Never* had any problems with bowel movements.

And I've had lots of anal sex (wait...)

with many different shapes and sizes! (hey...)

No problems like this even with 'spontaneous' anal where I wasn't 'cleaned' before that (ew...)

(Thinking about it, I feel sorta like a slut)

Like has been said before... the lube, and the ejaculate if it's unprotected, could very well cause the, uh, problems you describe. Make sure that you're using a good, water-based anal (specific) lube and you should see a difference. Wrap the pecker up, too, would be my suggestion (but then again I don't enjoy fecal matter most of the time >.>), especially if you still have the problem after a lube-switch. Then he can finish, nice and happy, inside and you don't get gastrointestinal distress! Especially if you're not trying to avoid STIs (though I would URGE you to do so unless you've been monogamous with each other for a long duration) it doesn't have to be a great brand of condoms... just ones that will stop his semen from bursting out!

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RE: anal sex - 2/9/2009 10:45:22 AM   
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Try having him finish off in your mouth.  This way you can clean him and no after effects drip out.  (That requires finding a pleasant lube if one is used at all.)

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RE: anal sex - 2/11/2009 10:11:09 AM   
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I just wanted to pipe in here, most of what I will say has been mentioned, but I will try to be original.
First off, Daddy cums in my ass quite frequently and always has. Generally speaking I will have loose stools for a day or two after, but this is one of the reasons that I like anal. Before you think ewww!, let me say this, I have irritable bowel syndrome and rarely go potty on my own. So, if him cumming in me prevents the need for an enema or laxative, then "keep it cumming!" I think of him as my natural enema.
I too believe that it is the ejaculate that causes this as I don't react this way when he cums elsewhere. I would say to the OP that if the diarhea is a concern, have him pull out, etc. (as has been mentioned before).
 
Helpfully,
BLGirl

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RE: anal sex - 2/11/2009 7:10:14 PM   
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If you use lube it can kind of act as an enema, I believe, in fact I have heard of instead of enema solution bought from the store just use a lube enema , Other than that no idewa, but ass play does upset my tummy too.
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to tell you the truth, i'd be more fond of it if it didn't screw up my insides for 3+ days after. 

i have issues in the bathroom for a while after this kind of play.  i'd love to be able to do it more, but i find myself not willing to have voluntary diarrhea all that often...

when i asked my boyfriend how often he'd do it if he had the choice, he suggested once a week. if we did that, i'd poop like normal only two days out of every week, if i was lucky. 

i kindof think of it as a blender... you just kinda smush everything up in there, right?

so, i wondered if anyone had any idea to avoid icky bathroom stuff after this-- or if you just play and deal with it...

help?

thx




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