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came4U -> Arousal Calendar (1/2/2009 9:46:59 PM)

I've always thought 'geez, I should keep track of my sex drive...' and by doing so find out more about myself by my 'horny schedule'. Kinda like a tracking of period cycle dates but keeping an actual gregorian diary of ups and downs in physical needs.

Has anyone ever kept track officially in this way?  If so, or not, how would one keep track?  Put a 1-10 scale in place: I feel 7 on the horny meter today, or I am an 11, I need to cum or I will explode day??  I am too lazy for a diary, too much upkeep, maybe a color code system? lol do I get stickers?  Happy face for 'masturbated like a she-wench today--had to' or blue dots for 'not in the mood' etc lol.

This question can be for men or women but I would think women would be more apt to have shifts in more dire and obvious ways than men (hormonal and other stresses) and maybe men have the same differencial due to stress or other.

I would really like to know how to go about organizing my 'urges' so I can figure out why I do/go/not do/not go to certain things or situations at any given time and at other times I am drawn towards it.





porcelain26 -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/2/2009 10:25:05 PM)

I'd say organize them in whatever way is easiest for you to keep track of.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 9:24:53 AM)

If I knew an easy discreet way, .....

I wonder if there are calendars online that can be copied so I can easily do a number system thing???

hot firemen on em might mess with the results though.



camille65 -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 9:32:34 AM)

Actually I do keep a sort of 'arousal calendar' in a private journal. I use the 1-10 scale and include if there was something in particular that sparked the need.

Regrettably the calendar has been blank for a couple of years lol, damned anti-depressants really did a number on my libido. I stopped taking them 9/08 but haven't yet (struggling for not so much TMI here) um.. had the need to make an entry. Over 3 months and the libido is still RIP.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 9:36:14 AM)

ouch camille,

I prefer it not be on paper though lol.  I just checked, most online calendars don't have open space to fill in details, so I might be stuck making one on microsoft office or something grr, I wish I had done this long ago. My libido is whak., but never been on meds, it is hormonal no doubt. 



nafakcha -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 10:48:57 AM)

Do you have a PC or Mac? On a Mac you can make entries or notes in iCal quite easily. What about an online community like LJ. You can make notes private only and then they show up on the monthly calendar when you use your login. You could make the notes private and have a generic code for the title of each event. Something that if someone else saw wouldn't immediately tell them what it was. There are plenty of "journal" programs for the computer that do the same thing.

If it was a paper calendar I would say the stickers would be a good idea. I know of at least one paper organizer manufacturer that sells little stickers for their organizers for all sorts of things. I'm sure you could create a system.

Keiko



JustDarkness -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 10:53:18 AM)

In your cellphone might be some kind of agenda.
To keep it private..you just can put a number on a day..as a grade of your arrousal..no one will know what it means



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 11:21:54 AM)

My cell totally died. grr. What is LJ site exactly by name??



isisrose -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 12:50:02 PM)

LJ is Live Journal...(if we are thinking about the same online community) its http://www.livejournal.com/ I actually had to pay attention to my menstral cycle and noticed that i also had an arousal cycle. They are pretty parallel as. 



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 2:35:46 PM)

ah, livejournal, k thank you, will have to check it out.

Curious to know if any dates make any particular sense.  Hope I can upkeep the management of keeping track.



isisrose -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 2:48:39 PM)

Well what i notices is that when I ovulate I start the beginning of my horny cycle. About a week before I'm supposed to start my menses my body is in a continual state of arousal. *If i were a man I'd be half chubbing all the time lol). This state of arousal usually lasts for a couple days after my period has ceased. During my down times i can still be aroused but it does take a little longer to get me to the same points.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 2:53:27 PM)

Yes, I notice that too but it becomes extensively worse at certain other times too.  Sometimes worse during menses, sometimes after too.  I am noticing a pattern just never mapped it out before. It isn't emotional either, since through times of stresses I am equally as aroused, sometimes more so.  I have no current stresses, for many years but often if I allow a little thing to set me off, I find orgasm the only solice of relief...voila, panic over.

I am one that would forget my own birthday if I didn't get a card in the mail to remind me ..doh, so this won't be easy to tabulate.



isisrose -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 3:39:05 PM)

I agree with the stress levels. I have had plenty going on in my life over the last couple of months and it seems as if the arousal periods have been more intense which have made the orgasms more intense. I also know that a lot of the email carries have calendars in them and you should be able to send yourself alarms to remind yourself to check on your cycle.



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 3:44:07 PM)

Probably can, new computer, haven't dug into it much yet, hope I can remind myself to care about the reminders lol.

Stress seems to knock it up a notch yes, makes me wonder if I look for troubles just to 'get off' hehe.

Money does it for me, worrying about money.  Bad news too, and no I am not a sadist., I imply world crisis or other.  Tension in general. I guess some cower in tense situations, some are drawn to it like a moth to a candle then pfffft burned wings. lol




RainydayNE -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 3:59:39 PM)

i know i get more and more "excitable" the closer i get to that OTHER thing i have to keep track of every month.
not a big deal, really =p
that's just general though, sometimes other things spark it haphazardly, but i've never really thought to keep a literal calendar =p
perhaps i can add that to my "chick issues" one =p



DrkJourney -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 4:01:32 PM)

hooo boy does stress have a big effect on me.  Actually, since the end of Nov. I've had a cycle every other week....and since I"m like you guys, the arousal level is pretty high just before and just after....so I"ve been on a real rollercoaster...lol 

This happened to me about a year ago when I had car issues....happened this year because, of ...well the holidays, no money, and knowing I had to go visit my mom....lol

Dr. says it should all go back to normal now that all of that is behind me

I think I'd better git me one them "caleders" too....lol



came4U -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/3/2009 6:05:35 PM)

quote:

I think I'd better git me one them "caleders" too....lol


lol seriously it is a good idea I think. 

I have always been like this but never thought to keep track.  I noticed months ago when I was fretting about stupid things that I don't need to worry about that I found myself in a frenzy to rid of my frustrations so to speak.

Makes me wonder if I was a very calm person to begin with if I would be submissive at all LOL.

Makes me wonder if these 'whoremoanal' issues make me submissive in some instances or just the stress.

Thoughts on money...

if one worries about money and becomes really horny vs not worrying about money and not so horny...does that imply some sort of natural instinct to sniff out the most capable candidate because in the past we were hungry waiting in the cave??? 

when not worrying about money, do we not feel a craving for this gratification, instant or otherwise??

f*ck it, too much thinking..leads to more stupid questions lol...tick tock, time to masturbate. [:-]



unfaithed -> RE: Arousal Calendar (1/11/2009 6:43:52 AM)

Use Google's calendar option. You'll have to create a username, but you can keep the calendar private for just your personal use.  You can color code it by actually making separate calendars to overlay.  So say use blue for the zero or level 1 days, perhaps red for the 10+. At the bottom of each calendar entry is a spot for "Description" like you had requested.

~k



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