RE: Instadommes

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: Instadommes

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> General BDSM Discussion >> RE: Instadommes

Page: << < prev 1 [2] 3 4 5 next > >>

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:13:08 AM

BondageBarbieX

Posts: 495
Joined: 4/1/2008
Status: offline

There are just as many lifestyle Domme's as Pro on here so you do not necessarily have to choose a Pro...and if I were you I would also join FetLife to meet people.

(in reply to slavemick63)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:21:40 AM

colouredin

Posts: 4279
Joined: 2/2/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

You dommed me after you paid me tribute?

How wonderfully obtuse you are

_____________________________

Resident Lime(y) Tart
There would be no gossip without secrets
I don't want to be anything other than what I've been trying to be lately

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELvfMJoKDAk

(in reply to RedMagic1)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:34:41 AM

AppliedRestraint

Posts: 8
Joined: 10/17/2008
Status: offline

I personally think Pros should be barred and banned from this site. I belive the vast majority of people using this site are not here to seeking Pro's. If you're a true Pro you should be willing to PAY for advertisements. Pro Domming is a business and all businesses have expenses, advertising is one of them.. I believe there's a clause in the TOS (terms of service) on this site about usinig at as a business. Pro Domming is indeed a business (anytime money or anything of monetary value is exchanged you're engaging in business) and regardless if it's the Pro's main source of income or not.... it is ineed conducting business. I think the vast majority would agree..... it would be nice to be able to come here and not have to sort out the Pro's.

< Message edited by AppliedRestraint -- 1/5/2009 6:36:24 AM >

(in reply to RedMagic1)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:39:37 AM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

AR.. it's a free site.. you get what you pay for.

The pros have just as much right to make use of this site as anybody else.

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to AppliedRestraint)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:44:36 AM

Aileen1968

Posts: 6062
Joined: 12/12/2007
From: I miss Shore, New Jersey
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

But I like my InstaDom. I just got him in the mail yesterday and boy is he fun.
Hint...if you sprinkle water on him he grows bigger and bigger...

And if you water him by putting him in your mouth it works even better.

I have no clue what you're talking about.

_____________________________

The Red

(in reply to DarkSteven)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:44:49 AM

OmegaG

Posts: 1474
Joined: 10/23/2007
Status: offline

There are those that believe financial servatude is part of the Domme/sub dynamic.

M'Lord does not ask for tribute from me, but when we were exploring my dominance of men, he, at the least, wanted me to strongly encourage gifts. It was one of our differing philosopies-- I think that gifts should be freely given, not asked for. I guess had I gone along with his whims I'd not be a pro domme, heh.

_____________________________

Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable. Sydney J. Harris

Sex without pain is like food without taste.
- de Sade

(in reply to GreedyTop)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:46:07 AM

AppliedRestraint

Posts: 8
Joined: 10/17/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

AR.. it's a free site.. you get what you pay for.

The pros have just as much right to make use of this site as anybody else.

Perhaps you should read the terms of the site we all agree to when joining it.

(in reply to GreedyTop)

Profile

Post #: 27

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:46:32 AM

MsFlutter

Posts: 1305
Joined: 11/12/2008
From: East Coast
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: PanthersMom

you have a weird idea of what submission is my friend, it's not about giving tribute. it's about being the submissive partner in a relationship, serving your dominant as the two of you have negotiated, doing whatever you've agreed to do. i've been a dominant for many years and never once asked for tribute. does that mean i'm not a Domme? did i violate the Domme Union?
PM

PM beat me to it - I had a similar response in mind.

PM - if you violated the Domme Union, you're not alone as I have apparently violated it also :)

_____________________________

'Dont torture yourself, Gomez darling. That's my job' Morticia Addams

"The right data, filtered through an idiot, can yield a bad answer." einstien5201

(in reply to PanthersMom)

Profile

Post #: 28

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:48:49 AM

chamberqueen

Posts: 1597
Joined: 10/25/2007
From: Kalamazoo, MI
Status: offline

I think that part of the problem is that you are looking for a goddess and there are only people here. Perhaps your expectations in that area are too high.

_____________________________

(in reply to OmegaG)

Profile

Post #: 29

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:50:18 AM

colouredin

Posts: 4279
Joined: 2/2/2007
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: AppliedRestraint

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

AR.. it's a free site.. you get what you pay for.

The pros have just as much right to make use of this site as anybody else.

Perhaps you should read the terms of the site we all agree to when joining it.

And perhaps you should open your mind, financial slavery is a fetish as valid as anything else, using the argument of 'most people' really isnt applicable to an alternative website because if it is, well most people are not activly interested in BDSM so this site shouldnt exsist, right?

_____________________________

Resident Lime(y) Tart
There would be no gossip without secrets
I don't want to be anything other than what I've been trying to be lately

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELvfMJoKDAk

(in reply to AppliedRestraint)

Profile

Post #: 30

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:55:11 AM

Lockit

Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline

I am an instadomme but I haven't been paid in a while. I am an instadomme, no one gets my style! I guess because I am an old instadomme, no one wants to pay and much to my feeble mind's dismay, I'm not getting any gifts either. But if I could be like those instadommes in frat houses and huts all over the world, I would get me a long list of boys to do my will! Yes, I would have cars and furs... fuck peta and I would go out on the town with two surrounding me as body gaurds in case the trolls try to get me.

The better my clients the more they shall pay and they will never get that part of me they want, even if they pay. It will be my way or the highway... but it really doesn't matter because I am just an instadomme who gets no respect... the young bitches get it all I tell you! Life is just not fair!

_____________________________

No matter how old a woman gets, some men will think she was born yesterday! ROFL... I love this place!

(in reply to MsFlutter)

Profile

Post #: 31

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:58:04 AM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

*offers Lockit a tribute of lovely haircombs for her lovely hair*

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to Lockit)

Profile

Post #: 32

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:58:07 AM

Lynnxz

Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

-- PracticingHisArroganceDom

O no you don't! If you turn into a strutting, pompous Captain I'mFuckingAMAZING, I'm going to lock you in the closet with all of the other ones.

_____________________________

HBIC

(in reply to RedMagic1)

Profile

Post #: 33

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 6:59:20 AM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

AR.. perhaps you may want to take a gander at this: http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_40/tt.htm

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to Lynnxz)

Profile

Post #: 34

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:01:15 AM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lynnxz

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

-- PracticingHisArroganceDom

O no you don't! If you turn into a strutting, pompous Captain I'mFuckingAMAZING, I'm going to lock you in the closet with all of the other ones.

Suddenly, this popped into mind

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to Lynnxz)

Profile

Post #: 35

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:02:18 AM

AppliedRestraint

Posts: 8
Joined: 10/17/2008
Status: offline

At the bottom of this page you'll find a link titled Terms Of Service. Click it then scroll down to article 7.3.10 and 7.3.12

(in reply to Lynnxz)

Profile

Post #: 36

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:02:47 AM

Lynnxz

Posts: 4813
Joined: 10/3/2006
From: Atlanta
Status: offline

Hahaha

_____________________________

HBIC

(in reply to GreedyTop)

Profile

Post #: 37

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:02:51 AM

Lockit

Posts: 11292
Joined: 5/7/2007
Status: offline

I can live with hair combs... that link sucks though! hehe Thank you Greedy!

_____________________________

No matter how old a woman gets, some men will think she was born yesterday! ROFL... I love this place!

(in reply to GreedyTop)

Profile

Post #: 38

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:03:26 AM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

what link? the one to the forums, or to Bill?

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to Lockit)

Profile

Post #: 39

RE: Instadommes - 1/5/2009 7:04:06 AM

Bella1965

Posts: 285
Joined: 12/12/2006
From: NYC
Status: offline

G'morning all;

quote:

ORIGINAL: AppliedRestraint
If you're a true Pro you should be willing to PAY for advertisements. Pro Domming is a business and all businesses have expenses, advertising is one of them.. I believe there's a clause in the TOS (terms of service) on this site about using at as a business.

Considering your profile, which reads like an advertisement, this is highly hypocritical. Try cleaning your own house before casting aspersions upon professional dominants. If you wish to seek services from others, there are forum topics/threads dedicated to those. If you have a peeve with the pros here, pass their profiles by.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop
AR.. it's a free site.. you get what you pay for.
The pros have just as much right to make use of this site as anybody else.

Bingo. Buy a clue AR.

Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others...

Bella

_____________________________

Life shouldn't be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in a pretty and well preserved body, but rather to skid in broadside, thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and loudly shouting..."Wow! What a ride!

(in reply to AppliedRestraint)

Profile

Post #: 40