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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:43:05 AM   
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That's incredibly gauche and patronising: your friend was on to nothing but his own inadequacy. Was he particularly badly endowed, that he went and made a statement like that?
Oh Kittin, I don't think self reflection happens much in that circle. M

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:43:16 AM   
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No asking doesnt mean shes being submissive and you 'rewarding her' doesnt make you dominant

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:44:16 AM   
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The old saying used to be.. Big Girls give good head because they have to..

I had a friend back in my Marine days who once told me... you do big girls because they appreciate it. 

I think he was on to something. 



get rid of the "to" and i will agree


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:48:20 AM   
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Thank you rubberpet, that made me crack up laughing out loud.

On to the OP: Weight has absofuckinglutely nothing to do with whether someone gives good head or not. It's talent, preference, practice, desire to please. I can give either personally depending on how into someone I am and they me. Of course anymore I don't give head unless I really really like the guy and he me....they are so much more appreciative and fun to play with then lol. Call me picky....and hey, I am.

And so you should be!  Thanks for the response. 

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:51:37 AM   
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Im wondering something, you say about the sleeping with her as a reward, if she was being submissive to you, and you didnt find her attractive why did you let her go down on you? hell even without the D/s why did you let her?

Ummmm... I'm a man. 

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:52:24 AM   
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wow hell of an excuse, you know men do have the power to say no.

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:52:44 AM   
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No asking doesnt mean shes being submissive and you 'rewarding her' doesnt make you dominant

Ok, no problem. 
Like I said before.  Obviously this offended you and for that I honestly apologize. 

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:53:00 AM   
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Im wondering something, you say about the sleeping with her as a reward, if she was being submissive to you, and you didnt find her attractive why did you let her go down on you? hell even without the D/s why did you let her?

Ummmm... I'm a man. 


i have to tell you, Sweetie...i like your honesty!


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:53:27 AM   
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No it hasnt offended me, but you said yourself you are a newbie, im helping you with the distinctions

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:55:18 AM   
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wow hell of an excuse, you know men do have the power to say no.

Yes, and I have many times, but this time I didn't... that's what it a unique experience and interesting and worth asking a simple question. 

I could have also written... Do some girls give better head than others?  The answer to that is yes.  But when I add the context of the question... it at least makes it interesting.  ;)

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:55:43 AM   
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You should know that's domiNANT, not domiNATE. Dominate is the action, DomiNANT is the person.


It's not the D/s discussion, it's how you worded the whole thing about having sex with her cause after her efforts it would of been rude not to.
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Hey.  Sorry if I come across as cocky or over confident... but it is reality.  I don't consider myself Zeus, but in many aspects, I was out of her league.  I am dominate by nature so I liked that she asked me to do her and while I didn't really plan on it, I decided to reward her.  If D/s discussion is not welcome, then I'll ask the mod to remove my question.  I'm not here to disturb things. 


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:57:01 AM   
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That's incredibly gauche and patronising: your friend was on to nothing but his own inadequacy. Was he particularly badly endowed, that he went and made a statement like that?
Oh Kittin, I don't think self reflection happens much in that circle. M


You are correct. It doesn't. 

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:57:35 AM   
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Size has nothing to do with my oral skills...I got good at oral because I wanted to...point blank end of story...some women are good, some are not...you just got lucky that night

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 11:58:59 AM   
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It's not your "honesty" but rather the way you are expressing said "honesty" that's turning a lot of people off. There are ways to be bluntly honest "trust me on this one lol" without being outright insulting to others and seeming to puff yourself up as better than those you do not prefer.

Point well taken.  Thanks for the input. 

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:00:36 PM   
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I find most of this thread offensive, to be honest. I mean, first of all, what a person looks like has no bearing on how good or bad they will be in bed. Thats just asinine. By the time you've lived enough to be 40 yrs old, you should know these sort of things.

Second of all, yes it is shallow to judge someone's worth based on their appearance but whatever, you knew that before you posted. Not like anyone needs to sit here and tell you that. You make no excuses for how you see the world and I can appreciate your honesty.

For example, even though I'm hot enough that you wouldn't be out of my league, having read this thread lets me know that I'm so far out of yours its not even funny. I am sure that won't bother you though because if you get too hard up, you know of at least one chubby girl who will be "grateful" for the opportunity to give you a little satisfaction.

I was equally offended by the stupid comments that pretty girls make poor girlfriends because we feel entitled to something as well. Not all of us. Sure, there are some girls who get that way just as there are obviously some men but again, judging someone's worth based on how they look is just .... blah. Why would you? What does it matter, really? Though it does explain why I get asked out more often when I put less effort into looking good.


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:03:02 PM   
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"I've never been with a girl over say 130#'s." 



I'm sorry, I am over 130lbs, and have been since starting high school.  In NO WAY do I consider myself a BBW and neither would anybody else who knows me.  I am tall [at 5'9"], athletic, and currently weigh 147lbs.  Most people would say muscle weighs more than fat.

I am certainly not petite but I am also certainly not BBW.  Nor do I have an ounce of... "chub" on me.

There is nothing wrong with a larger, shaplier body type, but perhaps using the actual numeric weight as an indicator is a poor choice.

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:04:13 PM   
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he's probably also never been with a girl over 5'6"

just sayin ...


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:04:21 PM   
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Unfortunately, opposingtwilight, we seem to live in a world anymore where appearance is number one and the major thing people are judged on. I find it very sad, but at the same time it has become an excellent weeding out tool for me over the years as well.

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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:05:02 PM   
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excuse me, my fat had nothing to do with Sir cumming down my throat. this i know as fact..


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RE: Do BBW give better head? - 1/6/2009 12:06:58 PM   
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No, I am saying she was being submissive by asking. 

None-the-less, I have obviously misspoke and offended some here.  
That is not and was not my intention.  As such, I am more than happy to apologize. 


I don't see how she was submissive in her actions.  She asked, you gave.  In essence, you submitted to her whim, not your own, just as she got you to submit to having sex with her.
 
Personally, I don't see the huge issue with your question apart from that by mixing an action up with a orientation or physical make up is a bit of a lack of knowledge of humans as a whole.
 
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