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Vinmier -> My experience so far. (1/7/2009 7:12:21 AM)
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My Lady and I met through a game called 'Neverwinter Nights' some time back. We began talking about day to day stuff and quickly became friends, confiding in one another about things that were going on in both of our lives. After a time, our conversations began to steer themselves down the road of D/s, to which I was very new and wishing to explore that side of myself. We decided to start an online D/s relationship, and she gave me some daily chores that she trusted I would accomplish, and I did without any qualms. Such things as daily stretches to help with my recurrent neck and back pain. We have mutual friends which I trust implicitly, and they verified that she was who she said she was, so the journey with her began.
We had intended to meet and get to know one another in real life before making any decisions to move it to a 24/7 D/s relationship, unfortunately, time was not on our side. There were some issues where I was living that made it very unhealthy for me to live there. I would go into detail, but I'll spare you all what I was putting up with. Suffice to say, I needed desprately to move, and she requested I move to her. From Portland, Oregon down to Austin, Texas, I accepted the move and made plans. It was a horrid drive, one that I wouldn't suggest anyone make in the dead of winter. Three days driving on icy mountain roads, pulling a trailer is quite a challenge. The drive itself took 5 days, and was around 2500 miles, every minute of the trip was worth it.
Arriving on the 29th, I've gotten myself moved in and am ecstatic with how things are turning out. As per our talks, we're taking it slow. Developing a relationship beyond the internet that doesn't revolve around sex, but moreso leaning to our individual natures as Dominant and submissive. I'm finding that I like service very much. I make our meals, keep the coffee in the morning hot, clean portions of the house daily, and do minor repairs that need to be done. There is more that I do, but the list would grow and grow. The best way I can describe it, is fulfillment.
Having lived with my Lady for 9 days now, I can honestly say this is the best decision of my life. It was hasty, and I do not recommend it for most people. Our circumstances drove us to this end much quicker than we had wanted. The end result couldn't be better though. Thank you all for reading, and any responses. :)
Vinmier
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