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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/18/2004 1:44:55 PM

WayHome

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So the real question is, how do you make these people see the light?

You can't make them see the light, but you can show them the door.

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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/18/2004 7:18:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

So the real question is, how do you make these people see the light?

Step one - tie the goofball securely in a chair
Step two - duct tape the goofballs eyelids open
Step three - turn on lightbulb and place in front of goofballs face

I may be mistaken but i am pretty sure they will see the light then

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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/19/2004 1:41:26 AM

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What honor is there in lying?

< Message edited by RhapsodyInBlue -- 9/19/2004 7:14:42 AM >

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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/19/2004 1:49:11 AM

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ORIGINAL: Chaos

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ORIGINAL: sub4hire

So the real question is, how do you make these people see the light?

I don't think you can. If a person really really really wants something, and do not have self discipline, they will find a way to bend or break any rules/committments they have made. It doesn't matter if they are vanilla, or lifestyle, it is still going to happen.

Sad, but true. imho

I wish I had seen your post earlier. Maybe some, be they Dominants or submissives, are incapable of holding fast to the unwritten rules of honesty in a D/s relationship.

Maybe it is not the fault of the one that is being deceived, but a personal/moral defect of the one that does the lying. Thank you, I'm going to go to bed and reflect on that thought.

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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/19/2004 5:14:57 AM

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Sadly, it doesn't take a chatroom for One to cheat on their own. I ranted here earlier about being deceived, and I do owe my apologies... I have taken every step that I know how to since then in asking indirect questions of Him, hoping for an honest answer. I've not said a word in my journal, but have added some thoughts on the topic of truth along with many other things entries. He said he was proud of me. Why? I am not proud of his behavior. I'm trying to make the relationship work, but he continues to lie. I suppose that I am trying to feel him out, seeing if he will ever be honest with me. The saddest part is this... I don't think he is capable of complete honesty any more. Not to me or himself. Or the other person involved. He's become so wrapped up in an online relationship because of the flattery that being a secret online Master brings to him. The girl is more than half his age, lives in another country. Its doubtful they will ever meet. It's lust, ego, etc.

In the mean time, he continues to plan a life with me. I'm trying to cope without losing it altogether. I don't want to lose him, but I don't know how much longer I can go on pretending that I don't know they are still involve after he said that they were not.

What honor is there in lying?

there is no honor in lying and you have to decide if what you have now is right for you. It hard and will take time, but my personal advise is if it isnt what you want then dont accept it.

Good luck in the choice you are about to make. Let us know how you are!

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RE: A Masters Respect For His chosen One - 9/19/2004 9:37:06 AM

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I can speak from experience... If the respect is not mirrored Master to slave as much as slave to Master.....then there is no relationship. Some Masters and slaves may like the one-way approach but if you dig in a small amount, you will find this Master or slave has issues. Anyone that is "all about Me" is just fine without anyone else. They are stand-alone and should be left as such. Is this not domineering vs dominant?
No.....respect is a mutual thing with any relationship that is not twisted.

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