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undergroundsea -> RE: Pro-dommes (1/13/2009 6:28:59 PM)
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
She wont let me go either, Why cant a sub not walk away of his own accord, Does Mistress have the entitlement to fire her sub as well. Must sub stay with Mistress until She decides he can leave
I sense what you mean when you ask the question in boldface type above is whether the domme is the only one who can end the interaction. The answer, of course, is no.
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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery
for me servants are taken for granted misunderstood and exploited by manipulative dommes. dont get me wrong , some servants are silly and allow themselves to be exploited , they consent to it , they want it
I am afraid what you attribute to other subs is now becoming applicable to you aside from the difference that you do not seek it as some others might. Other than this difference, you are consenting to it. Your description of the domme does bring to question her ethics. However, you are participating in the situation by remaining a participant.
Each you and she are just citizens. It seems she has some type of psychological hold on you, which you need to break. I think support from people here, or a friend whom you can trust might help break this hold. Has she threatened you with, or are you concerned about any hostile action if you stop communicating with her?
If I ask you for money, you will say no. If I continue to ask you for it, you will eventually begin to ignore me. The same approach will work with her. She can continue to take money from you only if you consent to it. Is there a reason why you feel you cannot use this approach with her?
My suggestion is to write a firm and polite email letting her know you wish to no longer interact with her and that you ask she not contact you again--something along the lines of the following.
"I wish to thank you for the time you have given me thus far. I am unable to further continue our interaction. I am not willing to reconsider this position and request that you cease to contact me. I hope you honor this request for no other possibility exists."
After that, you are free to ignore her, block her, mention legal recourse, whatever.
Incidentally, even if she backs off from her demand of tribute, I think you should still walk away. Based on what you have written, I don't think you can give her your trust again. I think you should save your energy and submission for someone who is a better person.
Cheers,
Sea
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