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Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:21:28 PM

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An age old question,but does cock size really matter in bdsm?

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:22:57 PM

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Depends on what you wish to use it for.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:26:31 PM

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The question is age-old for a reason - there's no right answer...

For me, if he knows what to do with it, I don't care what size it is. :)

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:27:39 PM

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Cock size matters to me in ANY situation. :)

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:31:37 PM

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yes and no

It might matter if one is a size queen.

It might not matter if one can't orgasm from penetration alone.

It might not matter if one has no interest at all in the cock.

It might matter if I want to do a ladder with 12 rungs and can't fit 6 between the top and bottom...

It will matter to someone who is looking for a cock.

It will not matter to someone who is looking for a person.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 7:31:40 PM

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size, not really. I mean, there is such thing as too tiny. I hate feeling like I'm looking at a toddler *ICK*, but then again, one of my friends has something around the tune of 11 inches. I feel sorry for him. Not many places he can put that... hell, not many people will actually let him NEAR them with it. But anything from about 5-10 inches, yeah, fine by me. Doesn't really matter, as I'm a top from the word go, but still... I do like to play with them, and find that 7-9 is usually optimal for manual fun. Just feels right in my hand, and gives something for this massive meathooks to latch onto and use as a built in leash. ;)

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:05:53 PM

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Size matters if you want to leave cock prints on them from smackin'em with it.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:13:43 PM

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I agree with the "depends on what you're using it for" line.

If you're looking to humiliate and emasculate a guy then you might want a needle dicked lil shit so you can step on it and laugh at his face how useless his cock is to any real woman, etc etc.

If you want CBT, cock bondage, etc then you might need a bigger one to have more room to tie up and play.

And if you want hot fucking then it's all up to each person what they like inside them. I, personally, think 7-9 inches is the perfect size range for me. But everyone is different so you'll always get different answers no matter how many people you ask and no matter how many times you ask. There is a cock out there for everyone!

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:16:18 PM

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Size matters if you're into nasal penetration.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:19:25 PM

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Size matters if size is important to the partner. Doesn't matter if it's a BDSM or vanilla relationship.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:21:41 PM

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Size matters if like you aural sex (ear canal).

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:24:12 PM

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Size matters if you want to leave cock prints on them from smackin'em with it.

HAHAHAHAHAHA! I'll NEVER forget the look on my pets face the first time I bopped him one! God, to go back in time with a camera for that one!

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 8:26:17 PM

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Size (length) matters if you like deep throat oral sex.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 9:25:49 PM

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Matters??? Hell, I had a friend in High School that was 16" laying down...He told me most chicks could only take less than half of what he had.
when he found one that could take it all,snickers..he married her..and had one kid....
but the point was to him....he said no one would run from my little 6" er..LOLOLOLOL

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 9:52:44 PM

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As long as it isn't extremely small, no, it doesn't matter to me. Decent size is preferable, though. Extremely large is not.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 9:57:24 PM

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Matters??? Hell, I had a friend in High School that was 16" laying down...He told me most chicks could only take less than half of what he had.
when he found one that could take it all,snickers..he married her..and had one kid....
but the point was to him....he said no one would run from my little 6" er..LOLOLOLOL

Holy crap... you could club a seal with that thing!

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 10:45:38 PM

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Yes size does matter. What matters much more than size, is the man the penis is attached to, but, that wasn't your question. M

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 10:54:20 PM

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quote:

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Matters??? Hell, I had a friend in High School that was 16" laying down...He told me most chicks could only take less than half of what he had.
when he found one that could take it all,snickers..he married her..and had one kid....
but the point was to him....he said no one would run from my little 6" er..LOLOLOLOL

Holy crap... you could club a seal with that thing!

Sweet jeebus! That's like... as long as my microwave is wide! How the hell does he even buy clothes from the waist down? Duct tape and kilts!? O.O Poor S.O.B.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/11/2009 11:11:04 PM

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Yup, size matters to a certain degree. If it's too small, well....it's just not any fun when you can't gag on it.

So, that's my only stipulation, big enough/thick enough for me to gag on.

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RE: Does size matter? - 1/12/2009 12:06:03 AM

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At the risk of sounding impertinent, I have a large cock (magnum XL ... not just regular-sized Magnums for example) and it really does not matter to women all that much in my humble opinion. Why not? Well, by the time a woman gazes at my cock, I'm already there and other skills (like my cunning lingus repertoire for example) take precedent. Sure, I get the "wow, you supaman" four-fisted OMG measur-up from the Asians, but, hell, they're used to teeny tiny frankfurters so you can write that off as a novelty to them. Likewise, when I used to frequent the sex clubs, I'd have to sling my cock straight up outt'a my pants way past my navel and women would ask "what's that?" (I'm serious ... I guess they're not used to a long-lasting hard on sticking up thru a shirt that way), and I'd just smile, but, note, it didn't get me any more laid than anything else did.

For example, I've seen the gasps from women who tell me there's no way that's going up the anal alley (which it can do but only after great exertions and lube), so, in a way, it's a detriment in the backsides. Of course, it also bottoms out on almost every caucasian woman (the Asians I'll exclude because they fling their hands up and scream in pain all the time so who knows when they're actually meaning it), so, most caucasian women tell me to please take it slowly (multiple times as that's a message that gets lost in the translation).

And, as yet another detriment, extremely few women can get my cock all the way down like Linda Lovelace seems to have, so, I'm forced to live with the head teasers. I'm not complaining (don't get me wrong), I'm just saying it's isn't all its cracked up to be to be in the magnum XL crowd, that's all.

My fundamental summary of the big-cock situation is that by the time a woman sees your cock, you've already gotten to the point where size no longer matters. I wish, I really do, that cock size was like breast size, where anytime I wanted attention from the opposite sex I'd just wear v-shaped pants and everyone would be turning their head to look at me, but, sigh, alas, women aren't men so my natural codpiece doesn't get the glory (I wish) it could. Sigh.

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