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Aynne88 -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/14/2009 5:02:53 PM)
beth how things change. I would have said no not that long ago not understanding what this meant. For me to "just" obey is lovely, but the extra things to make him happy are what make him love me and want to keep me. This is a good question for today, I disobeyed, to me minor infactions but I am not the one to decide that, so my punishment was not only something he has never made me do, it was humiliating and to me degrading. Am I harmed by it? No. But I was fucking angry, and I did not want to do it. And yes, it made me cry. Will I ever ever ever repeat the transgression? No. And I thank him and love him for giving me the chance to make amends and be assured the punishment was not one of those ones the even borders on hot. Not even close. So yes, I have a different mindset and I am willing to do anything he asks of me to make him happy. If I wouldn't, what does that say for me? quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth yes. His happiness is paramount and this slave will do whatever he requires of her...even if it means shedding a few tears of angst while doing it.

BitaTruble -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/14/2009 5:05:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand Anything it takes to keep your master happy.... Be honest. Such a simple seeming question. Right off the bat I can think of an instance in which Himself gives me a command and it makes him happy for me to obey that command.. so I do it, and it turns out that he did not like the result of that command so was unhappy so it would have been better for me not to obey that command because he would have been happy without that result, except then he would not have been happy because I didn't obey. See how circular it gets? Catch-22 .. it's not possible for me to 'do anything it takes' to make him happy. Ultimately, he must be responsible for his own happiness. The best I can do is obey, how he reacts to my obedience is up to him, not to me.

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/14/2009 5:36:29 PM)
Daddy wouldn't ask things of me that are "wrong" either, but he did mention one time if I'd be willing to move back to Petaluma, and I said not only no but hell no. I flat out refuse to move and up root my schooling, and go from a steady and secure environment, where having a place to live is guaranteed unless we make asses of ourself, to an iffy inviroment, where keeping your home depends on if you can afford rent or not this month* and no he wouldn't be able to afford rent most months on the salary he's being payed.* There's also many other things I'd refuse to do, because I don't wish to. Of course Daddy and I do not have a typical relationship, we;re not D/s and I am free to refuse anything I want to refuse, and he has no problem with that. quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP My Dom? Yes, because he won't ask things that are wrong. In abstract? Hell no, way too many nuts out there.

Anastasia25 -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/31/2009 9:29:24 AM)
I agree Surata. How can you serve someone if you cannot care for yourself?

julietsierra -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/31/2009 11:35:30 AM)
a) I agree with others who say that his happiness doesn't reside with what I do. It resides within him. Sometimes what I do contributes to that happiness, but I can't say that I'm the cause of it. That's a whole lot of power I don't want. b) Unlike a lot of people who have already posted, I don't think I can claim with any sort of assurance that he'd ALWAYS do things that I was ok with. His interests are varied and I'm sure that there will come a time when he'll suggest something that I will find so out of bounds that I'll have to say no - but I haven't hit that spot yet. c) However, I can state in all honesty and with absolute assurance that I'd be willing to try to do whatever he wanted me to do. I'm not sure how successful I'd be and as with all that I do, I am very aware that I may have to take some time to reconcile what I'm doing with how I think, but I'd be willing to try. Beyond that, his happiness would be up to him. juliet

T1981 -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/31/2009 11:47:14 AM)
My husband and I are not in a 24/7, so the question is a little difficult to answer. Would I do anything to make him happy? Sure, as long as it didn't mean jail time or otherwise damaging my own soul (great words, as another poster used!). Does this mean I always listen or do everything he wants? Nope. Some days, I feel like telling him to get up and get his own glass of water and I do exactly that. I can say that I am much more willing to do many more things than I used to, both vanilla and sexually, be before we ventured into the BDSM world, simply for his sake, simply because he likes it. But that's not the same as anything.

servantheart -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (1/31/2009 1:42:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterinDemand Anything it takes to keep your master happy.... Be honest. No. Everyone (who's honest) has limits.

agirl -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 2:25:26 PM)
I do things to make ME happy. If it makes ME happy to do nice things I can't exactly pretend it was FOR him.....lol HE does things to make him happy. Life is so much easier that way. agirl

slutslave4u -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 2:31:03 PM)
Yes

slvemike4u -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 2:43:09 PM)
Simple answer(excluding the usual... children,animals and legal) when I find HER(or rather she finds me) YES...

oceanwynds -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 4:09:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RedMagic1 quote: ORIGINAL: mikierotten Sure i think so, i am willing to suffer if it pleases my owner, i can endure a great deal of suffering, it is like a challenge to me. But what if your owner is more pleased by your not suffering? "I would die for you" is much easier than "I will live for you." I was just reading this thread and came across RedMagic1 post. again It made me smile. This past month everything that could possibly come up to keep Sir and me away from each other happened. I did choose to live for him. Though I was disappointed in not seeing him, I kept going and didn't lose track of serving him by being the best i could be that month. It is harder to live for them and yourself at times, but it is so worth it. Thanks for the reminder RedMagic oceanwynds

AquaticSub -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 4:22:07 PM)
~Fast Reply~ Anything? No. Anything includes derailing trains for the sole purpose of amusement. Anything is not defined by reasonable limits of "my owner wouldn't do that". It's anything.

ThundersCry -> RE: Are you willing to do anything it takes??? (2/1/2009 5:16:26 PM)
Anyone I have ever been with for a period of time...never did I put THAT kind of pressure on them to make me....happy. For me thats not where happiness comes from... What a burden to put on someone...

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