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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 12:49:44 PM   
Oberonrex


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Status: offline 		No flames here, just thanks from one who has been told he is "too sweet to be a real Dom" Not the way I would have said it, but well said. Bravo!

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 1:23:27 PM   
krikket


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quote:

ORIGINAL: la90066
*Special Note: To you subs/slaves in your 20s & early 30s -- please seek out the subs/slaves in their late 30s and up. They've probably made the same mistakes you're making now. Talk to them and learn that you should be seeking MORE than just being someone's fuck hole. You may not believe this now, but you will later, and by then it will be significantly harder to find that special one. Choose wisely now!!!



While your entire post (and profile) make a great deal of sense, the one thing I'd like to add is that it would be nice for 1) tops past the age of about 40, could perhaps give the subs who are in the same age bracket (or older) a peek. I know that age isn't always a factor (or so I hear), but many times I read a profile and end up feeling like Whistler's Mother...lol. It might also be nice if a male dom in their 20/30's looked a little closer to their own age as well. I really do have a hang-up with seeing someone as my dom when I have children (and socks) older than they are..lol.

Thanks for your post, and Happy New Year to you and yours.

cheers
jimini



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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 2:01:37 PM   
LadyJC


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Status: offline 		I too actually agree...I can't count how many time I've gotten one line emails, or emails saying they live in Denmark when my profile does state that I will not deal with anyone who lives more than 2 hrs away. Since I live in Canada, and Denmark is in a different Continent let alone country...I'm pretty sure that's more than 2 hrs away.
What gets me is when people don't post where they're from, yet will say Won't go with anyone who lives more than...
Happened to me the other day I contacted someone and had to ask where they're from before I even thought of it. I thought possibly we could just be email friends or whatever...but nope never responded to my email.
They all drive me crazy, it's been 3 yrs and I've yet to find someone I'm compatible with. It's very frustrating.
LadyJC

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 2:08:06 PM   
cloudboy


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What I am finding is just when I feel I've got something figured out, just enough surety to go on a rant, its precisely after the rant that things go ambiguous again.

In terms of "the way" or "the wrong way," I would say a key is to be master of one's domain (copywright, Seinfeld inc.) in that you just go out, enjoy life as you are capable, put yourself out there, grow..... and somehow along the way positive things happen. I think it helps to do things that boost trust and pride in one's own self, for this helps ward off discouragment, truly a great foe of the human spirit.

Its all about concentrating on the way, not the destination.

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 2:20:29 PM   
seaturtle50


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Status: offline 		Another Bravo,

(except for the use of one word)

Would like to see what you edited out (unless it was just spelling errors or something ;-)

turtle

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 2:47:53 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		I was re-reading the thread, paying more attention to who said what this time around, and noted one thing in particular. LA is, unfortunately, preaching mostly to the choir, as it were. While we all have different things we like, or do, etc., there's also a common bond that comes out in most of the posts -- common sense and good mannners, I think they're called..lol.

I can't remember when I've enjoyed a thread more.

Thanks and Have fun, y'all...

regards,
jimini


< Message edited by krikket -- 1/6/2006 2:48:26 PM >

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 3:06:30 PM   
Rassitter


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Status: offline 		Hmmm I must say I am a little surprised at all the attention this thread has gotten. I feel like most of it was a rant stating the obvious, and calling 90% of us stupid for not knowing it, with well over 90% of us agreeing with it. If I started a thread against murder would we all feel the need to chime in to agree! *laughs*

Like stated in a previous post, you are preaching to the choir. The people that you need to reach with this message still will not get it. *Sigh*

Then again, maybe I am just in a bad mood.

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 3:36:35 PM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: la90066

... And DICKHEAD Doms!!!


how absolutely stupid 90% of kinksters are -- ...




mmmmmmmmmmmm there is about 15 people posting here..... well that means only one is not stupid and a 50% chance that there is another here that isn't stupid....

mmmmmm since I know I not stupid.... Well, sorry for the rest of you.... but hell there is a 50% chance for one of ya to be in the minority with me.... so dont' give up hope


edit to correction... seems there is almost 20 now... so I guess there is another one that is here to join me in the minority..... so who is?

Ok Edited agains seems like there is alittle more than 30 different people posting here... WOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHOOOOOO a three sum.... so who is the other two? to join me in the minority?

< Message edited by KnightofMists -- 1/6/2006 3:48:22 PM >

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 3:52:45 PM   
miticantenslaved


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Status: offline 		miti is here for comic relief, only....so Someone Else may have my shot at not being stupid...

*skips off singing I'm not Your pedagogue*

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:04:24 PM   
windchymes


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Status: offline 		I thought I'd wear the "Retard" t-shirt.

chymes

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:24:17 PM   
miticantenslaved


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quote:

I thought I'd wear the "Retard" t-shirt.


*pouts*

are there any more?

*blinks in a moronic fashion*

~miti

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:30:17 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

The fact that you actually have a lot of good sense and excellent perspectives to bring up does not excuse condescension and name calling.

But then I think a lot of people think the same about some of my own posts.


It TOTALLY excuses the condescension and name calling. Encore!

He didn't call you or you a name, after all. And it was tongue-in-cheek, not bitter. The names called were all for people who. If someone read that post and took personal offense, well, better just check and see if you left your coffee machine on.

I think some of the post was bullshit by the way but bullshit plainly and unapologetically stated trumps lofty self-deluded meandering and interminable rehashing of opinions that weren't even interesting when the person they were borrowed from said them on some half-assed kink website ten years ago.

So is that a Gibson or an Epiphone? In either case, keep posting, la.




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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:35:07 PM   
AbstractSavant


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Status: offline 		He may have had a point, but the whole thing was just...so...

trite.

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:36:36 PM   
FionaFineass


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quote:

Well, the op was obviously looking for attention with that opening line


Hey! How come the post was titled Stupid subs and Dickhead Doms came second. Why not the other way around geeze and here I thought Doms were always first. LOL

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:37:09 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: miticantenslaved
i always wanted to be one of those!

~miti


miti used a personal pronoun. I think I felt a disturbance in the force.

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:38:04 PM   
DesertRat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Noah

So is that a Gibson or an Epiphone? In either case, keep posting, la.



I was wondering that, too. And, if a Gibson, how old?

Bob

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:39:53 PM   
windchymes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: miticantenslaved

quote:

I thought I'd wear the "Retard" t-shirt.


*pouts*

are there any more?

*blinks in a moronic fashion*

~miti


Plenty! lol

*skips away singing "Dum dum dum dum dum dum dee-doo-bee dum"

chymes

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 4:54:55 PM   
ZenrageTheKeeper


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Status: offline 		I agree with you LA. There is a lot more that could have been said too. I went on a similar rant on ALT and got a lot of positive feedback.

Aces, friend.

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 5:07:03 PM   
Noah


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AbstractSavant

He may have had a point, but the whole thing was just...so...

trite.


Did you or did you not puff a little stream of (imported) cigarette smoke past your slightly squinting left eye during the second ellipsis?

Gosh but then I hope deconstructing the arche-ecriture in terms of meta-textual elements isn't last year's black, too.

Anyway, "dickhead" can't be trite, right? I mean how can "dickhead" be trite?

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RE: STUPID Subs... - 1/6/2006 5:38:08 PM   
Petruchio


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quote:

ORIGINAL: miticantenslaved
quote:

*looks at You sadly....You sound just like Master, Petruchio...but had You read item 6 in my Humour posting, You would know a whip is of no use*

*cackles gleefully and skips off*


Oh, you bad girl. (Although I suspect we're on the same page.)

Where is your humor post?

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