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Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/12/2009 2:03:33 PM   
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Folks....

My girlfriend has small breasts.  She is thin, and has medium sized nipples.  She likes me to squeeze her nipples very hard when we are having sex.  I mean really, really hard.  I am 6 feet 2 inches tall, 240 lbs and I am strong.  She likes me to squeeze them as hard as I can.  I have never had any woman that liked that so much and so hard.  I thought I would get her some nipple clamps for play time.  I have spent the last two days googling "nipple clamps".  I am totally confused.  Little is written on how hard the bite is.  I am not sure what to buy and I need some suggestions....

I think I would like some type of ratchet assemble (like in a medical clamp type of thing).   If it were not tight enough, I could squeeze it another notch to make it tighter..  But I dono.  I have read about the butterfly (clover) clamp.  That sounds ok.  I read on some web site the baby vice type clamps tend to fall off.  I would go for the adjustable alligator clamp, but I want to clamp them on, not fiddle around with them.  But maybe they can be adjusted to just the right bite, then the adjustment is over?

But I have no experience with any nipple clamps so that is why I am asking for some opinions.   The only thing I know for sure, is that using my fingers, I can not squeeze her nipple much tighter.  She really likes the pain. I would rather pay for a good set then some cheep ones.

So if anyone wants to give me some advice, I would sure appreciate it. 

Thanks in advance

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/12/2009 2:39:53 PM   
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I think that the spring clamps (shaped sort of like clothes pins) and the clover clamps are the most common nipple clamps out there.  The clover clamps are extremely intense.  I do recall seeing another sort that seemed more extreme at a store in Baltimore, MD called Chained Desires but I don't recall what they looked like, just the impulse to cover my chest with my hands and back way, lol!  If you were to give them a call, they could tell you about them and probably mail-order them to you. 
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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/12/2009 6:29:11 PM   
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I made my own Alligator Clamps, with a screw and Wing Nut for adjusting. I do loosen them up all the way before I take them off, but I don't see why you can't just squeeze them ope, when you done. I just didn't make the hole for the screw large enough, to squeeze mine to take them off.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/12/2009 7:18:26 PM   
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how about these?
http://wdbrame.com/

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 3:56:51 AM   
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angelikaJ.....

The link you posted is a new on for me.  Thank you. I like the clamps.  I guess I am going to have to buy several and find out what works best with my sweetheart. But I have a question - with nipple clams that use a slider to control tension, what stops the slider from sliding off when the person that has them on moves?  It seems like it would just slip off.  But I guess they don't?

Any other web links would be helpful folks. 
Thanks for all the help.
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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 4:18:11 AM   
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I'll be teaching a course in breast play at the Power Play Academy later this month; however [laugh] that doesn't do any good in the here and now.

Here is the section on clips and clamps from my book The Loving Dominant.  I hope it helps.  However, this is copyrighted material so let's just leave it here and not copy it for publication elsewhere.

                Nipple clips are almost a cliche in bondage films and photography, and clips and clamps are popular tools.  These can be used on almost any portion of the body, but breasts, labia, cocks and balls are natural and obvious targets.  You should always remember that when these are taken off the process is more painful for the submissive than was the initial application
.                 You should test every clip on the skin between your thumb and forefinger.  This does NOT tell you how it feels on a nipple, but it does give you a gauge for comparison.  If one clip felt much stronger than another on your hand, it is reasonable to assume that it would also be more painful on a nipple or elsewhere.  Although it would be unusual to do any kind of permanent damage with a clip, one should not be left on longer than 15 minutes because it does cut off blood circulation to the skin underneath.  The triangular paper clips available at stationery stores should be treated with considerable respect.
                Complex-looking adjustable clips are available at leather stores.  However, many dominants swear by the simple wooden clothespin.  Not only are they cheap and easy to obtain, but you can vary their severity in several ways.  The simplest is to buy several brands.  Different companies have varying degrees of 'zig' in their pins.  Test them on yourself, and color-code each pin with a drop of model airplane paint.  I use red for the strongest down to blue for the weakest.
                You can also weaken individual pins by putting elastic bands around the part where your finger grips the pin.  This is particularly useful when the pins are going to be used on sensitive sections of the body.
                Some people even disassemble the clothespins and readjust the spring tension.  This is done by heating the spring with a blow torch, altering its alignment with a pair of pliers while it is still red hot and then quenching it in a container of oil.                 Before using clothespins on submissives, you should cut or sand off the tips so the pins end in a flat surface.  This will allow them to get a firmer grip on the skin and prevent unintentional pain.
                Initially, you should place a substantial fold of skin between the tips.  The larger the amount of skin which is gripped, the weaker is the stimulation felt by the submissive.  As you become familiar with both the strength of the pins and the tolerance of the submissive, you learn just how large the fold should be to produce a given amount of stimulation.  Avoid putting the clip so where pieces of bone or cartilage would be caught inside.  These bruise more easily than soft tissue.
                Alligator clips are not generally used in stimulation because their serrated teeth can easily break the skin.  However, you can cover the teeth by taking a piece of shrink-wrap tubing, putting it over the jaw of the clip and then heating the tubing.  It may take several layers of tubing before you have a thick enough covering on the teeth.                 Mouse and rat traps are fun to play with.  They look infinitely more painful than they are because the spring's clamping action is distributed along a relatively wide striking wire.  However, before you use them, I recommend that you take off the release arm and the trigger.  Not only are these unaesthetic, but the gripper for the cheese can tear the submissive's skin.
                To use them to maximum effect, hold the trap about a foot in front of the submissive's shocked eyes and let the striking wire snap on to the wood.  Then, take it and insert the breast or cock and lower the striking wire on to the skin.
                The degree of stimulation from a clip can be increased by several orders of magnitude by attaching weights to it.  To hang things from clothespins, run a cord through the spring coil.  Alligator clips come with a handy screw that is convenient for attaching cords or small chains.  Some versions of adjustable clips in leather stores are designed to clamp harder when weights are suspended from them.  Always add weight slowly.
                Another approach is to pull on the string or, an even more erotic approach, put the string in your submissive's mouth and have him or her pull on it for you.  This can also be done when you have two clips attached by a string or chain, a common technique when clamping nipples.
                A variation on these dangling weights can be obtained by attaching the weights by heavy elastics or light springs.  Any movement will set the weights bobbling, and it will take a while even when the submissive is standing stock still for the weights to stop bobbing.
                If a clamp causes a minor cut, you should treat it with antiseptic; however torn skin requires a doctor's care to prevent permanent disfigurement.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 7:39:59 AM   
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Once they are tensioned they should not slip off...if you notice he also sells nifty looking weights to go with them.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 7:41:48 AM   
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Well...from the perspective of not knowing my pain threshold as compared to others...I've found something as simple as this to be unbearable.  But I could be a pussy in the pain department (yup, most likely I am). At least it's a cheap investment. 

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 8:17:52 AM   
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Clover clamps are really nasty.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 8:19:26 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I've found something as simple as this to be unbearable. 


Oh man.  Figgitaboutit.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 11:48:36 AM   
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While in Staples (a stationary store in the US), I found a box of small binder clips. They are black.  A box of 40 cost less then $2.00.  They are about 3/4 of a inch wide (19mm).  When I clamp it on the skin between my thumb and forefinger, it was kinda tight.   It is probably not tight enough for my girlfriend. But she might like one on her clit. They are tight enough to feel a pinch.  I don't know about other peoples nipples, but it might work for someone.  You can see them on line at the link below.  Note that the arms of the binder clip flold up and out.  So they are really easy to put on and off.  The photo below shows how them come folded up:

http://www.staples.com/office/supplies/p1_Staples-Black-Metal-Binder-Clips_19365_Business_Supplies_10051_SEARCH

I see on line that Staples has the very same binder clip in colors, and in a form called "soft grip"  $3.00 for a pack of 18:

http://www.staples.com/office/supplies/p1_Staples-Metallic-Soft-Grip-Binder-Clips_197878_Business_Supplies_10051_SEARCH

The price is right if you want to buy a box and share them with your friends....  If they do not work, you are not out very much money.  I am in a Marriott hotel room now.  And in the closet, they have hangers for slacks.  You know, the hanger with the two clips on them to clamp to the pants and let them hang from the hanger....Well, I took one of the hanger and clamped the clip between my thumb and forefinger, and I must say, it was very very weak.  Well, weak for my application.

I am still looking around.....

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 12:01:20 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: marie2

Clover clamps are really nasty.


Aren't they just?!  Sigh...

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 12:03:47 PM   
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many dominants swear by the simple wooden clothespin.  Not only are they cheap and easy to obtain, but you can vary their severity in several ways.  The simplest is to buy several brands.  Different companies have varying degrees of 'zig' in their pins.                 

Some people even disassemble the clothespins and readjust the spring tension.  This is done by heating the spring with a blow torch, altering its alignment with a pair of pliers while it is still red hot and then quenching it in a container of oil.                

Before using clothespins on submissives, you should cut or sand off the tips so the pins end in a flat surface.  This will allow them to get a firmer grip on the skin and prevent unintentional pain.
              

John....

Thank you for the very useful information.  I think I am going to head to the store for some wooden clothespins.  Your ideas about modifying them are great.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 5:31:33 PM   
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hell..she loves them tight go for the clovers..add 1/2 oz. weights to each clamp..in fact go to the fishing section and buy 6" steel leads  and put the weights on them...snickers..the bite is terrific....

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/13/2009 5:44:45 PM   
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Even though I ran a kink shop, I've always had a fondness for "pervertables."  Sometimes it's easy (who can look at a Sawsall and not get evil thoughts) but sometimes it takes a bit of creativity (cheerleader pompoms and violet wands?).




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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/19/2009 10:47:51 AM   
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I can heartily suggest the cloverleaf type.  Many a fine nipple has enjoyed being trapped in those jaws.

However, if you try those and the pain still is not what she needs, you can make some homemade clamps that will bring the pressure to a few select points.  Buy some heavy duty conventional wooden clothespins and dismantle them.  Drill several tiny starter holes through the clamping part (a Dremmel tool is great for this), and then insert a few brads into the holes.  Glue the brads in place, and file down the sharp points until just a small amount of the brad protrudes through the wood.  Reassemble the clothespins and adjust the spring for an appropriate level of tension. 

The guidance above about testing it out on one of your favorite body parts is spot on.  Since all the pressure will be highly concentrated in a few places, you want to get the tension right or else you are going to puncture the skin.  When in doubt, use less force for starters.

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RE: Advice needed: Nipple Clamps - 1/19/2009 5:16:40 PM   
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i can tell you  my sub prefers the clover clamps attached to her collar while she is whipped she lifts her head and they bite in

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