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RE: Active vs. passive dominance - 1/7/2006 8:11:16 PM

Petruchio

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If you rephrase to include male doms (or post in the appropriate thread), both active and passive are good; both have their place.

'Active' of course implies physically active, but I think 'Passive' also means 'psychologically' active.

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RE: Active vs. passive dominance - 1/7/2006 10:55:03 PM

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Active domination: The femdom is the active participant in domination. She engages in acts that might include bondage, implementing pain, forced sexual situations. The femdom acts, the submissive reacts.

Passive domination: The femdom thrives on proactive submission from her partner. She is catered to, pampered, cared for. She may have protocol that is implemented that sets the framework for the relationship, but the submissive (for the most part) takes initiative to respond to her needs without being commanded, forced or coerced.
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is there a 3rd choice?
seems the first is only about the s/m do-me boys......
the 2nd is more toward serving...
can there be a 3rd for those that may like both?

and no...ya know it aint me..

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RE: Active vs. passive dominance - 1/9/2006 10:36:16 AM

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The third choice is the combination of the two, which is what we do. At the moment, most of our domination is of the 'passive' variety - no time and energy to do much of the 'active' type - mostly because of the number of work schedules that we have to coordinate - the corporal and I work evenings, and Holly and rob work whenever they are scheduled - any time from early morning to late evening ... it makes things complicated.

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RE: Active vs. passive dominance - 1/9/2006 2:21:50 PM

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>Submissives, which style do you prefer, or do you seek a mixture? <

I like a mixture. I like to be told what to do, and I like to be my volitional boyish self as well. If I had to break it down, I suppose I would say I like 20% command structure and 80% organic, relationship flow. Each element enriches and influences the other.

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