KiandPhoenix
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Let me preface this by saying that Phoenix and I are Dom/Switch, Poly, Swinger people. She has never been given to another Dom for use though.
We are also friends first, then partners, then Dom/Sub for our relationship.
Recently Phoenix has been craving something a little more harsh in her life, and because she knows that we will always fall back on our other relationships. She does not want to ruin our current dynamic, because she cherishes our friendship and partnership as lovers. As such we have decided to find someone for her to be given to for a 24 hour period so that she can experience a different style of dom. If she enjoys it, then we can make the adjustment in our own relationship dynamic. In this case it is a tool of exploration, and when she is given, it will be to someone who we are both very comfortable with, and have talked with extensively.
On the other hand. Until this point in our relationship it was not going to happen. first we needed to solidify our roles with each other, and get so used to them that it is more of a routine than anything else. Being given to other dom's/domme's was on her hard no list when she filled out the BDSM checklist. Until it was right for her, and I was comfortable, it was not right for us.
Recently we met a girl who wants to be owned by one master and traded like a commodity. She thinks the idea is hot, and for her, it was always right.
In the end, you have to decide what is OK with you and your partner. Unless you BOTH agree, you should not do it. The same applies for any activity.
~Ki
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