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sinthia999 -> puinsmhent (1/21/2009 8:37:14 PM)

srry dislexic

myh bf ,,, doms me an di get punshid he tide me to a char adn md me wartch 2 hrs LV IT TO BEEWVER the old tv show

how do uj get punshised?





AquaticSub -> RE: puinsmhent (1/21/2009 8:51:10 PM)

I understand you are dsylexic but you may want to try writing your posts in Mircosoft Word (or similiar program) and then copying and pasting here. Normally I try to not bring attention to this sort of thing but I had a very difficult time understanding your post and there will be people who don't understand your condition.

As for me, my punishments vary. Sometimes a quick swat to the bottom, sometimes standing in the corner.



DiurnalVampire -> RE: puinsmhent (1/21/2009 8:52:26 PM)

I have mild dyslexia too... and you dont even seem to be trying to fix the spelling.
Punishment varies depending on the crime committed.



DavanKael -> RE: puinsmhent (1/21/2009 9:18:49 PM)

Gotta say I'm a bit skeptical on the dyslexia assertion having been with 1 person who was dyslexic for 17 years and another for 1 1/2 years.  If you wish to get help, contact a local adult education program and ask for assistance. 
Anyway, I will answer hypothetically.  One of the best punishments, for me personally, would be to be deprived of my partner's attention.  I would despise that.  Of course, that's one of those sort of things best wielded with extreme gentleness. 
  Davan



jen182 -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 5:49:52 AM)

well for me it depends who im with (not currently owned) and what i did (or didnt do) .



DesFIP -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 11:07:02 AM)

I don't. If I forgot something he will remind me to write it down on my to-do list or write it down on a note for me himself. If I didn't understand him, we will talk it out so I do understand what he wanted, and if I don't know how to do it, he will take the time necessary to teach me how.

If I am so angry with him that I deliberately disobeyed, then me not buying him fudge ripple ice cream at the grocery store is the least of our problems. We talk about what's going on, and we solve the problem.

Punishment is easy to do, communication and working things out to arrive at a win/win situation is much harder. Even if the dom can't strut around afterwards saying that he put the little woman in her place. My place is with him in a relationship that makes us both happy. I don't see how watching old tv shows solves the problem.



littleone35 -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 11:14:26 AM)

If i earn a punishment first i have to tell him why i think i am being punished.  Then what works for me is usually corporal punishment.  Have only beem punished once in  almost 3 years and don't want to dsplease him again.

Matt's littleone



feydeplume -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 11:18:32 AM)

Maybe he was trying to show her what a 1950's fantasy housewife was like? 



sirsholly -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 11:20:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: feydeplume

Maybe he was trying to show her what a 1950's fantasy housewife was like? 

or making himself look good compared to Eddie Haskel or Lumpy?



feydeplume -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 11:23:08 AM)

*snort* Damn! THAT WAS GOOD HOT CHOCOLATE!!!

No seriously, I can see the point in a punishment/discipline/training scenario where the s is shown what is expected of them with movies, books, or other media. As far as i understand it, that is a requirement for Goreans.



oceanwynds -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 1:21:35 PM)

Sir seldom punishes me, but the few times he has has been with him telling me why, and then me having to tell him why i am being punished. Sir uses corporal punishment.



ISOHOH49 -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 1:49:49 PM)

I understand that you are dsylexic, so am I. It is alway best to use words and than copy and paste. Some time it takes me reading  what I wrote over and over again just to correct all the error. Even than I sometime don't find all the mistakes, it just depend on how much I have to say. but I try.

A punishment can be anything that the Master/Dom want it to be. I feel that it should be something that will teach the sub and cause her/him to improve. It should be something that help correct the problem. Knowing why one is being punished is important as well as  working to understand the cause of the problem.



BalletBob -> RE: puinsmhent (1/22/2009 9:06:46 PM)

I usually get puniched by not being able to play or do/use/wear anything fun, but the worst punishment was having to stand in the corner.

Good Little Sub, BalletBob



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