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Jeptha -> RE: A curious submissive seeks answers (1/26/2009 6:39:06 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Lovemetomorrow
Would you begin steps to enter into a relationship with a Slave/submissive that you knew was in a vanilla relationship?
What steps would you take to pursue someone in said relationship?
How would you pursue said person?
If I happened to be looking and I came across a profile of someone who was also looking, I would contact them and say "hi". If they were local I'd ask them more about what they were looking for and how the search was going. Maybe I'd suggest coffee if there seemed like there might be any possibility of a good match there.
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Would you allow your Slave/submissive to continue on with a vanilla relationship if the relationship was in place before hand or would politely ask her to end the relationship?
I'd absolutely allow them to continue the vanilla relationship. As long as the two relationships could co-exist well side by side.
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And now for the fun question: Why?
I'm comfortable with "known quantities", and I understand wanting more than one partner.
I can do some sort of polyfidelity, where all the parties are known, but I would be uncomfortable with the type of "open" relationship where one or any of the partners can date whomever they want, whenever.
Because that brings in that "unknown" factor, which I tend to not be fond of.
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