OmegaG
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ORIGINAL: zia3699 For some reason, CM wouldn't let me log in to the message boards with my user name, which is SmartLittleGirl. If you would like to contact me after reading my question, I'd prefer to be contacted there, but I will try to remember to check this temporary profile as well. I have just been accepted for submissiveness training by a male dominant. I have had an interest in spanking for a long time but would now like to explore other forms of submissiveness, and the dominant I mentioned has offered to help me. He lives about three hours away and has a live-in slave, making weekend visits out of the question, I think, so I don't know how often I will have sessions. Don't know any of the details yet, in fact. My question is whether someone else here has begun exploring submissiveness after age 50. As I read the literature, and especially as I watch some of the videos on the sites to which he directed me when I asked for some guidance, I feel quite old. Also, I believe that if I do well with the training, I would be interested in finding a long-term relationship with a dominant man, something the man who has offered to train me says is off the table with him. So I also would be very grateful to hear from anyone who found a committed relationship (in whatever way you define "committed") after age 50 focused on D/s. I'd be very pleased to elaborate if you'll send a note to me by going to my profile, SmartLittleGirl. Many thanks. Not 50 but 40 and I went straight for the relationship. I figure that if he wants me trianed, he'll do it himself as only he knows his preferences. I don't understand why weekend visits are out of the question. I am a live in and if he was engaged with another then I would be more then happy to make it work.
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Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time; it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable. Sydney J. Harris Sex without pain is like food without taste. - de Sade
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