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SylvereApLeanan -> RE: What makes you stay here? (1/25/2009 11:46:43 AM)
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ORIGINAL: UPSG
Walking around in a bar with my dick in my hand my evoke some reactions (perhaps physical) that I wouldn't want.
So does wanker email. In my case, it usually gets the message reported. Enough of those and your account will get frozen. Not exactly conducive to finding a prospective partner, is it?
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If a woman walks around naked in a bar - even though we are often told touch a woman naked in front of you is not a right - might potentially lead to her rape.
Not sure what your local ordinances are like, but where I live it's more likely to get her arrested for public indencency. However, the pub's security is obligated to make sure none of the other patrons break the law --including sexually assaulting her. So, your presumption that a naked woman in a bar is more likely to be raped is falacious. It's also a straw man argument. A dominant woman's profile is not the equivalent of walking into a pub in the nude. It's closer to the equivalent of sitting at the bar, having a cocktail, and checking out the other patrons to see who strikes her fancy. Hence my comparison. As I said before, there is no logical reason to expect a dominant woman to be more receptive of licentious email than it is to expect any other woman to react positively to said email.
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In a perfect world, I suppose that wouldn't happen.
I hardly think the world need take on utopian qualities to expect a submissive man to approach me with common courtesy. At what point did creating a profile on a DATING site (not a sex site) become the equivalent of handing out carte blanche to innundate me with requests to be the faceless drone to satisfy his fetish whims to every kinky man on the planet? Apparently, I missed the memo.
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However, I'm just stating I understand how males think, and it would be reasonable to presume many would do exactly what some of you don't like.
I disagree. In the real world, as opposed to online, no man would come at me the way men do here. If he did, he would find himself in handcuffs wielded by the local authorities. However, something about "teh internetz" seems to rob some individuals of all logic and good manners. It's well documented and oft lamented.
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And yes, there is a logical reason to presume PMing women on BDSM sites will go over better, especially if you're into sissy fetish and the like, than looking for that in other social atmospheres where fetishes like that are extremely looked down upon.
Only if the woman in question *likes* that sort of thing. Many do not and have said so time and again. I have stated that sissies are a Hard Limit both in the list of interests provided by CM and in the body of my profile. It's so clearly stated that anyone with a basic grasp of the English language can understand it. And yet, I still get sissies sending me email. This defies logic and I challenge you to find a logical basis for it. The ONLY reason I get such mail is because the men sending it either have not bothered to read my profile or simply do not care. In either case, the result is the same and neither has any basis in sound reasoning. Rather, the basis is entirely in selfishness and boorishness that is not excused by location.
Edited for typos
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