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BoiJen -> "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 6:00:24 PM)

I'm posting this here because the guys read this forum and I think the Ladies will get a little kick out of it.

"I'm sincere." seems to be the line these days. Women want sincere individuals in their lives and so it seems suddenly that if a male propositioning a woman uses this word in reference to themselves that they must mean it.

Ladies...obviously you know it doesn't work this way. Can you speculate why s-type men of a less than credible nature (not all of you) are saying these things?

Guys...you credible ones there...why are your less than adequate counterparts doing this? Seriously...is there a formula on being able to predict this type thing? What advice would you lend to the guys who just want to get their jollies off and aren't "sincere" about a damned thing?

boi 



LadyHibiscus -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 6:04:22 PM)

Wow, I haven't gotten this line yet!  Now I will watch for it...



OneMoreWaste -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 6:09:55 PM)

We've been convinced that Dommes aren't Santa Claus, so we're trying the Great Pumpkin approach? [:-]



CatdeMedici -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 6:31:44 PM)

they think its a differentiator like "has a big cock all for your desires" or "i'm here to serve as your oral slave"---and we are all supposed to throw on our stilettos, grab the whip, trip the light fantastic across the floor and say "awwwww johnny".
 
 
9 times out of 10 the ones who say that..aren't.



GreeneGoddess -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 7:04:36 PM)

Who would claim that they were NOT sincere?

Let your sincerity be shown in your actions, not in your words.



Lockit -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 7:09:57 PM)

Wow... LH, I can't believe you haven't gotten that one yet!  It seems to come along with.. not like those other guys... real or not fake... I hear that sincere one often.  Of course... most were so sincere... they couldn't read my profile and of course I wouldn't respond to their sincere ass.

They think it gives them an edge over the fakes out there...

My suggestion for the jolly fellow's... super glue...



mummyman321 -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 7:13:34 PM)

I cannot give any such advice to my "less than adequate conterparts". I do not know why they do what they do. At this point I am not sure if I am one of the adequate ones LOL! I could fill up pages and pages with exuses why people do things. But the only person who truly knows is the one writing the email.




hairslave -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 7:23:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: BoiJen

I'm posting this here because the guys read this forum and I think the Ladies will get a little kick out of it.

"I'm sincere." seems to be the line these days. Women want sincere individuals in their lives and so it seems suddenly that if a male propositioning a woman uses this word in reference to themselves that they must mean it.

Ladies...obviously you know it doesn't work this way. Can you speculate why s-type men of a less than credible nature (not all of you) are saying these things?

Guys...you credible ones there...why are your less than adequate counterparts doing this? Seriously...is there a formula on being able to predict this type thing? What advice would you lend to the guys who just want to get their jollies off and aren't "sincere" about a damned thing?

boi 




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Most men think with the head between their legs, rather then using the one on their shoulders for something other then a hat rake. Women need to take things slow and be able to have the time to get to know the guy. You also need to put Your safety ahead of goals, would you put your most cherished possessions out for a man you don't know? Then way put You out there in a venerable way?
Must men are only living for the moment and are only interest in finding the next jolly. Not all men operate this way but,...You have to weed them out from among the rest. the good ones are out there . You need to look beyond face value and look into what they truly have to offer from the inside. Take a good look at what You think You see and then think again, before You leap. We are out there.
When You find us,... You and Your man will have a wealthy relationship that others will envy.

Ladies, Stay Safe. hairslave






sodsta -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 7:47:25 PM)

quote:

Guys...you credible ones there...why are your less than adequate counterparts doing this?


Because women have expressed a desire for it. If the majority of women started saying "I want a man who is into taking baths in custard" then they would be bombarded with messages from men saying "I like to take baths in custard".



E2Sweet -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:04:44 PM)

GreenGoddess said it... and its true. Actions indeed do speak louder than words. It may be an old cliche, but its a old cliche for a reason... [;)]



OttersSwim -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:04:49 PM)

"Sincere" is the super-secret code word for "You can trust me."  I am sure that the majority of the males who are "on the make" as we say here in the U.S. trot out "sincere" to try to take a Lady off her guard. 

I am sure that they are sincere...about getting what they want - you on cam...wank fodder...or sex...

It is a crazy dance we do and I quail at the thought of ever having to do it.  My Lady and I sort of fell into each other and so I did not have to do the long search that so many worthy guys here are having to go through competing with the "noise" and frustration that all the others that are "on the make" create.  Frustrating for the actual sincere submissive males, frustrating for the Ladies having to wade through the swill to find the very few who are actually genuine...and seeing if they are a match to what they are looking for!

If there was ever a definition of "suck"...that my friends is it.  Cheers to all you genuine peeps living through that search.  [sm=cheering.gif]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:22:46 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Lockit

Wow... LH, I can't believe you haven't gotten that one yet!  It seems to come along with.. not like those other guys... real or not fake... I hear that sincere one often.  Of course... most were so sincere... they couldn't read my profile and of course I wouldn't respond to their sincere ass.



I never get ANY of those!  Just the expressions of desire to submit to my gorgeousness, move into my cage, lick my floors, and polish my feet.  Or something like that... [;)]



Nikitaa -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:40:42 PM)

Lying people always take the words of honest people to use for themselves but does not mean the words are not good still to use.

If the man is sincere and is not pretending what would he say so the lady would know he is sincere?

Only the men telling lies are lying. The sincere men are sincere in truth. The words are still good but the lying people are bad.



Usako -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:42:13 PM)

It's probably all that testosterone. [8|]



Vendaval -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:43:27 PM)

They are on the 9th or 10th beer.



littlesarbonn -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:51:11 PM)

I've come to the conclusion that those who want to "score" or whatever will do whatever they have to do, say whatever they have to say and pretend to be whatever they have to pretend to be. It used to bug me because that meant that I have to be that much more serious, sincere and believable in everything I do. It meant that I had to jump through even more hoops because my brethren made it practically impossible for any normal woman to believe that I might be real. Now, I don't care anymore. I gave up. I can't change these guys. Lord knows, I tried. But the only ones who listen are the ones who are serious in the first place and wouldn't do that sort of thing. We've been outnumbered and screamed out of existence by these people.

I figure the only way anyone is really going to come to believe I'm who and what I believe is by actually being a consistent reader of what I have to write. I can't see any other way to make myself known or any more believable because people will say whatever they can to be believed. And even that is harder these days because the ones we want to attract don't do the work of going through the message boards and conversing for a long time. Instead, they also want to find what they desire to find immediately, so I'm pretty much having to compete with people who know how to say what needs to be said to get immediate reactions. Even in message threads I've noticed this because I'll communicate in a thread and get completely ignored while the "bad boy" gets all sorts of attention, and next thing you know people like me get drowned out by the constant chatter of the bad boy commentary.

I don't even tell people I'm sincere anymore. I think it's on my profile, but only because I made that profile a LONG time ago, back when saying you were sincere was a way to distinguish you from those who were saying all sorts of crap. Now, they've done the smart thing and read the profiles of the people who probably are sincere, and they've emulated that because they realize that might give them yet another step up. And Darwin begone, the women tend to respond to them, so what can I say? I gave up.



welcomerain -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 8:59:11 PM)

I'm confused.

Are people actually sending one-liners with only the words "I'm sincere", or are we talking about cut-and-paste jobs that start out by talking about how sincere the writer is and how the person he's sending it to is one in a million?

Either's pretty funny, but I like to know what I'm laughing at.



Lockit -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 9:08:17 PM)

Mostly cut and paste from what I have seen. lol



chezzy71 -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 10:01:27 PM)

I wonder what would happen if someone said"i haven't been sincere a day in my life"!!Would anyone consider that to be a sincere statement??



YoursMistress -> RE: "I'm sincere" (1/26/2009 10:30:45 PM)

I thought I had been sincere in my profile, but alas, under this intense scrutiny I have to admit that I am not.  Yes, I claim to be a "Beginner" interested in opera, (and an expert on Cartoons), but I haven't actually "begun" to see an opera (unless you count "Kill the Wabbit" and "the Barber of Seville" episodes of Bugs Bunny).  Mea Culpa. 

yours



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