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RE: Master Attire - 1/31/2009 4:44:24 AM

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Ohhhh Ohhhh Ohhhh

Here's one

OR This One

I LOVE This One

What Master Isn't Complete without This One

Hope this all helps

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OMG, Steel!! Even if I was straight as an arrow and thought the guy was the hunkiest thing walking the planet, if he came at me dressed in one of those costumes the only thing dripping on me would be my eyes.......from laughing so hard.

Trick or Treeeaat! Definitely a trick.

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RE: Master Attire - 1/31/2009 7:00:45 AM

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My implication as you probably well understood, is that the Dominant usually has the control and clothing-choice is a common part of that control.

For some, it isn't about control. The basis of our M/s relationship is authority. He has it and Alandra and I only have the authority that he has delegated to us.

He hates picking out his own clothes, so he has exercised his authority and instructed Alandra and I to pick them out for him. When he is here, his clothes are picked and laid out every morning when he gets in the shower. Yep, we have control over what he wears, but it is his authority that has given us that control and his authority that can take that control away whenever he chooses.

I don't see it as flipping roles at all. As the one with the authority he gets to make the decisions that will make his life easier. Part of that is putting Alandra and I in charge of things that he wants us to take care of. I would find it pretty sad if he structured our relationship in a certain fashion because others do it that way and not because he wants it that way.

Knight's Kyra

This sums it up for mine and Firm's relationship, as well. He has neither the time nor inclination to fool with picking out his clothing, and that task has been delegated to me.

*gasp* Among many other things, he has made me his valet.

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RE: Master Attire - 1/31/2009 1:03:16 PM

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OK...my Master has asked me to search for some 'clothing" I may wish to see him in when we are in "play" mode. Can anyone suggest a good website?? Thank you!!

~ Slave Madison

Hi, Madison

So your Master has given you control of his clothing. Well, that's kinda flipping the rolls to my thinking, but hey, everyone has their own kink.

Nothing in the OP's post suggests she has been given control over his clothing. He's taking suggestions, not commands, for playtime clothing. If she were looking for his entire wardobe, I might be agree that she is in his charge of his wardobe though I still wouldn't call it flipping roles.

If a man realizes he knows nothing of fashion and would leave the house looking like a fool, it's using his resources wisely to put his girl in charge of shopping and clothing selection. Or if he just doesn't feel like it. That is my role after all, to make his life easier. Right?

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RE: Master Attire - 1/31/2009 7:43:08 PM

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I am thinking myself..........if I had terribly horrid taste ( and many people do) and my slave had excellent taste, she would be serving me by choosing my clothes for me. Annnnnnnnnnnnd, she would NOT be serving me if she allowed me to dress poorly.

Orrrrrrrrrr, if I was getting ready to leave the house and not dressed properly for the storm we were going to be having later in the day, which she knew about and I did not.

There are many examples of good reason for a slave to choose their master/mistresses clothing. Even to insist.

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RE: Master Attire - 2/2/2009 9:18:46 AM

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Good idea there! But if she ever picks out a "sailor"/policeman/construction worker outfit and some one asks me to sing YMCA...then her Ass will be glowing!

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RE: Master Attire - 2/2/2009 11:50:13 AM

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ORIGINAL: LarabysLair
My implication as you probably well understood, is that the Dominant usually has the control and clothing-choice is a common part of that control.

For some, it isn't about control. The basis of our M/s relationship is authority. He has it and Alandra and I only have the authority that he has delegated to us.

He hates picking out his own clothes, so he has exercised his authority and instructed Alandra and I to pick them out for him. When he is here, his clothes are picked and laid out every morning when he gets in the shower. Yep, we have control over what he wears, but it is his authority that has given us that control and his authority that can take that control away whenever he chooses.

I don't see it as flipping roles at all. As the one with the authority he gets to make the decisions that will make his life easier. Part of that is putting Alandra and I in charge of things that he wants us to take care of. I would find it pretty sad if he structured our relationship in a certain fashion because others do it that way and not because he wants it that way.

Knight's Kyra

*grins thoughtfully*

Ever been tempted to slip something in like wierd socks or a thong in the pile just to see what he does????

I know I'd be terribly tempted to do something like that.

Mom always said my compulsion to do things just to see what the reaction would be, might get me into trouble

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RE: Master Attire - 2/2/2009 4:33:22 PM

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Curious Master (soft smile), what song/dance would you like to do instead? just wondering that is all *giggle*

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RE: Master Attire - 2/2/2009 5:42:22 PM

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twenty six years ago i had a girlfiend which developed intoa very loose D/s relationship(although neither her nor i knew it as such)
But one day we were going to a party and i selected what i wanted her to wear....well the poor girl came back to see how i felt she looked and a)i could see how unhappy she felt in my selection and b)i could see the fashion disaster i had created.
I walked over to her and gave her a little comfort cuddle whilst whispering in her ear "im not too good at that side of things am i...go get dressed in something your would like to wear2

I ve accepted my achilles heal and certainly a Master of disaster when it comes to fashion

...if a girl wants to select clothes on my behalf its a task ill gladly empower her with because i sure as hell aint any good at it.

Ohh ps......she looked freakin hot at the party that night once she sorted out my fashion train crash

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RE: Master Attire - 2/3/2009 4:40:41 PM

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I totaly agree, no one is good in all things. At the same time, we should not generalize opinions as facts. (refering to AquaticSub's comment) Just because a dom did something kind for his sub, or lets her have control of something does not make him weak or subbie like. The same thing goes for a slave/sub, she is not acting Dominant when she shows initiative and makes him his favorite dessert without being told. It is a hard job to be a Master, and always thinking ahead and making decisions affecting both in the relationship. Besides, no matter what happens, what is important is that both work towards the same goal. Making it work and learning from eachother, growing together as two part of a whole and being happy.

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RE: Master Attire - 2/4/2009 10:58:32 AM

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Well said my slave! And I for one do like a slave that can think for herself and I in no way will be upset over that. Shows good taste and care for me when she does nice things with out being told!

Yummmy my fave dessert.....droollll!!

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RE: Master Attire - 2/4/2009 12:59:08 PM

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Brooks Brothers? Louis Vuitton?

I was thinking the same thing! Thanks, LA

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RE: Master Attire - 2/4/2009 5:04:18 PM

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I wear a black double beasted suit with a black mock.

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RE: Master Attire - 3/10/2009 9:11:08 PM

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jockey, fruit of the loom

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RE: Master Attire - 3/10/2009 10:48:46 PM

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letsee load up the bong, turn up cheech and chong ... grab a stoner t shirt and shades. Ok Im ready now what???

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