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New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 8:46:39 AM   
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As the New Owner of an Adult Novelty Store I am looking for men and women to tell me what they would most likely purchase because there are so many items to choose from.
I am interested in learning which lubes, condoms, accessories, specific toys etc.would be most needed versus those that might be purchased once in a while or just on a whim.
I need to make these informed choices so I can make this business work.
Thanks in advance for your serious input.
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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 12:47:56 PM   
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I hate weeding past all of the novelties when looking for toys for sites. Keep that crap separate or don't have it. Go for quality, floggers that balance nice not the ones with pretty chrome hangers etc.

Mike

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 4:12:15 PM   
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ID Lube is my favorite brand.

Cockringscockringscockrings. I don't wear them myself, but have many types (from stretchy but tight, to leather, to metal) because that's the first place I send friends if they're having trouble maintaining a 'rock-hard' appendage while preparing for sex (or have a tendency to lose a little hardness when they finally get the condom on). This is for *all* men (gay, straight, or bi) and I'm currently the reason that five friends have at least one.

Like SirMIkeSD said, keep everything separated so that it makes sense. Novelties in one room/area, BDSM stuff (if you're stocking it) in another (and well organized, too, please!), insertion toys and stimulation toys in another. Any porn should be completely seperate. There's nothing that I hate more than having to go through the entire store when I'm looking for a specific item because they're all over, willy nilly. It may not be as nice an 'aesthetic' choice as you might otherwise have, but it would make me keep coming back.

Another idea is to have displays... you know, toys *out* of the box here or there, even if they're still behind glass or otherwise secured, just so that it's easier to get a visual.

Good luck :3 You have one of my dream jobs.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 4:14:58 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirMIkeSD

I hate weeding past all of the novelties when looking for toys for sites. Keep that crap separate or don't have it. Go for quality, floggers that balance nice not the ones with pretty chrome hangers etc.

Mike


Agreed. A nice selection of vibrators (insertable and otherwise) also always makes for a nice toy shop. My husband and I prefer WETT for our lube.

Are you catering specifically to the BDSM crowd or more of a general store? That may make a big difference in what you stock.




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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 4:39:42 PM   
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A nice selection of GAGS would be amust for my shpping Pleasure. Ring Gags, ( I haven't tried yet), Ball gags, Bit Gags )Not tried yet either), Penis Gags (Which MADAM also LOVED LOL). Just a god selection of Gags I guess.

Maybe different types of Nipple Clamps too, and Leather Wrist and Ankle Cuffs. Handcuffs.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 4:46:56 PM   
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I prefer the ID brand for lube as well, and NOT the water based one as that just gets real sticky real quick! 

A good selection of butt plugs is always a good idea I think. 

And have some really nice, good quality leather products - not the cheap, wimpy shit - for a good price!  It might be helpful if you find someone local who can work with you to have supplies for your customers. 

And a great selection of Fetish outfits for both men and women is always appreciated!!!!  But keep an eye on your customers and get things in their sizes.  The shop I go to has a fantastic selection for women my size and therefore they are verrry busy selling great outfits.  They make sure to consider their customers' body shapes and sizes, and strive cater to a variety of women's figures.  Consequently, they actually provide outfits that really flatter our figures, no matter what our size and shape may be.  

Finally, having a selection of good quality collars is always a definite plus.

Hope you and your business flourish.  Cheers.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 6:09:25 PM   
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My personal preference is
1) Informed employees!  To me, that is the most important thing about a shop.  They need to know the products they are selling.  I frequent a shop in LA that has employee recommendations, and reviews of products right where they are being sold.
2) Organization - Others have already stated this, but keep your stuff in logical locations.
3) Competitive prices - If I know I can go online and get the same item $20 cheaper, guess where I'm going to buy it?  I'm willing to pay a certain markup for being able to see the product in person, possibly take it out of the packaging, and talk to knowledgeable employees, but not a lot.
4) This isn't a make or break thing, but I really like it when stores stock plus sized clothing as well.  I'm fine getting toys and one place and clothes at another, but if you have both, I'll never shop anywhere else.

As far as toys go, that's really going to be individual preference, and a lot of that stuff *shouldn't* be replaced once it's bought - at least not for some time.  You might want similar but different items for different occasions, though.  For instance, you might only buy one deer skin 18" flogger ever, but also buy ones in rubber, chain, different lengths, etc.  I would see DVDs, magazines, and anything 'consumable' as more frequent sellers.

If you're looking for a store to model yourself after, I'd highly recommend http://www.thepleasurechest.com/ - their LA location is awesome.


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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 9:31:49 PM   
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 As far as how to stock it, my preference is for clean, clean, CLEAN adult stores. There's a kink store local to here that is shady as hell...it's a renovated house, clearly not a commercial space. It has carpeting. The lighting is low and the cleanliness is dubious. They serve food there. Alright, I get that folks must hang out there, but...it skeeves me out. Have a clean, professional, brightly lit store with no dark corners to hide in. To be honest, I prefer stores that simply sell sex gear and toys and BDSM equipment rather than all that stuff and porn. Stores that carry primarily porn have always given me a skeevy vibe. Know your stuff, make sure your staff knows thier stuff, and keep an eye for hiring people who don't seem shady. Sure, your friend Bob needs a job...but he shaves once a month and showers less often. Not a great way to being females into the store. Just saying.

As for what I would buy regularly: probably regular run-of-the-mill vibes, nipple clamps, and the occasional new toy. I use good old astroglide, since in my experience, the novelty type brands of lube are sticky and yucky. If you're catering to the BDSM crew, get good quality local retailers and artists. If you're ordering your stuff from the same websites we all use to order ours...there's not much point in paying mark-up, now is there? Go to fetish fleamarkets or events and get in contact with small, quality manufacturers.

One cool thing is the baskets of little lubes and single-package condoms by the register. They're great impulse buys...who is gonna turn down a glow-in-the-dark condom? As for condoms, our preferred brand is whatever we can get at the supermarket. If I were going to an adult store, I'd probably want to be able to get some of the more exotic types: ribbed, twisted, weird shapes, and what have you.

It might be a good investment to open up an online store. Sure, sure, there are millions of online adult stores. However, I imagine that the start-up and upkeep of the online store would be relatively small, and you could supplement your income in this rough economic time. Good luck!

~Katie, all-too-frequent visitor to adult stores of varying shadiness

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/29/2009 9:57:20 PM   
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If your going to carry BDSM toys, please, please, please, look for quality. I sure I am not alone when I say I am willing to pay a few extra dollars for a nice piece of equipment then get a bargain for a crappy one. 

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/30/2009 4:33:52 AM   
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100% silicone toys please.  Avoid stocking things that say "for novelty use only" on them.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/30/2009 5:47:56 AM   
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100% silicone toys please.  Avoid stocking things that say "for novelty use only" on them.


Yes!
It's hard to find good silicone toys in adult stores.... and since that's all I buy... eh. Try to avoid the porn viewing rooms in the back... those are freaking creepy.


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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/30/2009 5:59:03 AM   
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Hi there, I only have an online store, so my situation is vastly different, but heres a couple of thoughts
Stock plus sizes for males and females... I will walk out of a shop that doesnt go up to a 2-4x(even tho I only need 2x)
There is still a horrible lack of larger sizes by most of the lingerie/fetish suppliers, but to offer them, will get you repeats.
Definitely silicone toys, altho dont just limit yourself.
Having an online presence is important, however it is time extensive, problematic and expensive regarding marketing/advertising if you do it yourself.
As far as the point Spareboyfriend made about "Avoid stocking things that say "for novelty use only" on them."
99%of all adult products are "for novelty  use only" its a legal thing. 99% of all adult websites out there have it as a legal out, cos believe it or not there are some really stupid people out there, especially when it comes to things like BDSM gear, and you cannot be responsible for their idiot genes or hungry litigation.
Some of the adult distributers give out marketing tools, Cal exotics used to have a dvd for retail staff, and yes, an informed staff is  a MUST
I wish you luck
Best wishes
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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/30/2009 6:36:58 AM   
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Up until recently, there was an adult store near me that had, in addition to all sorts of clothes , toys and lubes, an awesome little room full of fetish shooz !  The store was very popular not only with local kinksters but enjoyed a lot of business from the exotic dancers in the area.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/31/2009 3:19:53 AM   
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I agree with what others have said. Forget the novelty nonsense. Functionality and quality are what I spend my money on. I would rather pay more, for a device, a lube, a good book, or movie rather than some sort of "fluff" that is cheap. Good Luck. :)

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/31/2009 9:38:31 AM   
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when staffing don't just hire males, i would rather shop a store with a female behind the counter who can talk to me about the products i'm looking for.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/31/2009 12:22:12 PM   
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Sidestep.

If I went into detail it would take all day. The very first thing I would do is look at the nearest competition and see what they have. And then don't get it, at least some of it. Everybody in the fetish world would love to see something real, and real is available out there. For awhile everybody seemed to have Doc Johnson's, but the quality varied, from poor to acceptable depending on what it is. Dildoes and such, I think most places concentrate ont hem too much.

You need to see your shelf space as $$$. Of course alot of things hang up and whatever but you know what I mean. And you must realize that this is not an average grocery store.

What I mean by that is don't homogenize the place, in other wors do not shuffle things around like major retailers do to get the maximum exposure for certain products. For example many groceries will put toys near candy, things like that to increase impulse buying. You need to be concerned with impulse buying, but you create the impulse a different way.

Now even if the showroom area is not partitioned, the front to back rule works well, at least for me, who would be a shopper. You walk in the door and there is the leather lingerie etc., then in the second part it goes into the normal things most sex shops have, but selected for quality of course. Then in the back, yes in the back is where the action is. 

Restraints that really work, if you got the money, have like a St. Andrew's cross. Things like that. Even a very small hardware section, with a couple varieties of chain on rolls, and a pair of bolt cutters to sell it by the foot. By all means get a few things from XR, tack on 20% but watch them shop for other things on which you make more money. Like if you sell chain, XR has these exquisite cuffs, leather lined steel. Hook one up to the wall and let them try it out, just keep the spare key of course. IMO opinion you could esily make 40% on those. They have collars too, but they would have to be special order due to the sizes required. But the cuffs come in three sizes. You could stock all three for maybe $500. (one warning on those, use the D ring, not the lock that locks the cuff for attachment !) But the means all three sizes for both ankles and wrists.

That "back third" of the shop should be more like 50% of the total showroom area. Back there, no lubes a dubes or whatever it is that EVERBODY else has. Have something different. You are not Walmart. Think of how small markets, butcher shops etc. stay in business. They offer things you simply can't get at the Super K. Likewise, you sidestep the bigboys. It's that or get run over.

Now saying not to do exactly what the bigboys do does not mean that you don't do anything that they do. Promotionals are great and can be fun. For example, those cheap handcuffs, even at sex stores they only sell (or used to) for like five bucks. In bulk I doubt they're two. With every thirty dollar or more purchase you could give away a pair of cheap handcuffs. Then put it right out there "Keys to free handcuffs - $3.00". Things like that.

Many possibilities are out there, but the main thing to remember is that is if you have the same thing as everyone else, all you could offer is a better price. Offer more, maybe get more.

That's my advice. I'll be around.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/31/2009 12:44:34 PM   
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Please be wary of those flaccid dildos that smell like chemicals and are sticky to the touch.  They remind one of the little gummy spiders that come in cereal boxes, the ones that walk down the wall when you throw them...only the dildos don't walk, and its terribly disappointing. That sort of thing can't be good to insert into an orifice, although they are comical to flail around to punctuate one's conversation.  Oh, and I like vibrators of the pocket rocket variety.  Affordable and oh so versatile !

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 1/31/2009 1:00:01 PM   
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quote:

1) Informed employees!  To me, that is the most important thing about a shop.  They need to know the products they are selling.  I frequent a shop in LA that has employee recommendations, and reviews of products right where they are being sold.


Double Ditto. This is the most important thing. If I am open enough to ask a quesiton, I don't want to feel guilty for making you blush and stammer when you answer. I don't want to wonder if the kid with the pimples is old enough for me to ask this question to. I don't want him looking at me funny when I ask to see the flogger on the wall behind. I don't want him to laugh at me when He tells me there are furry handcuffs in back if I prefer and I say, 'no, thanks, i prefer the real thing.'
Oh, and btw, I prefer the real thing. Also, handcuff keys can be bought seperatly, - selling those as a stand alone item would make you a very useful shop.

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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 2/12/2009 9:41:32 AM   
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oh yes excellent thread Sir, BDSM equipment, floggers, canes, crops, whips, single tails and not cheap ones either find a good BDSM leather maker to come work on consignment. Hire actual submissives/slaves to work as customer reps for customer feed back. And marketing if you want this store to work take the novelty out of it. And make it huge for our world. A complete fetish store.

good luck on your business venture and stay in touch with us plz.


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RE: New Owner Of An Adult Novelty Store Needs To Know - 2/12/2009 1:00:00 PM   
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Kinklab has some decent but not incredibly expensive BDSM items.
If you're interested in selling any medical/sensory items, I suggest going through a medical supplier NOT a adult supplier.

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