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Bonjour! - 8/12/2004 3:09:53 AM

MadameDahlia

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I am - for all intents and purposes, on this website - Dahlia. Those that feel the need to address me by a title may call me Ma'am, Miss or Madame.

I'm relatively easy going, unless it comes to my submissive of course. I'm pretty new to this realm. I've had the stirrings of a Domme for as long as I can remember, well back into my childhood.

Upon reaching legal age about a year and a half ago, I am now able to explore that which makes me feel on fire. I came out of the BDSM closet to my mom rather recently. She doesn't understand, but she's making an effort.

I'm very pleased to meet so many kindred souls. I look forward to conversing with many of you. Have a wonderful morning.

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/12/2004 10:29:07 AM

Hellseeqer

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Hi and welcome.

I m still in closet for my family sake. My mother was SHOCKED and dismayed by the fact I didnt wait to get married before I have sex.

I dont think they would understand my likings for spanking people and other bad naugthy things.

I sincerely hope the best for you and that all goes well with your family.

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/12/2004 12:11:45 PM

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Greetings MadameDahlia...

Greetings and welcome to collarme and the forums... I hope You find them useful, and look forward to anything you may add...

Joy upon Your path

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/12/2004 1:55:50 PM

afmvdp

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So do you actually have any experiences with BDSM so far or is this your first attempt at finding a genuine sub...cause you might want to mention that on your profile. Speaking from one young Dom to another, if you're still a neophyte in the matter you really may want to go get some hands on training with a local Dom before trying most of what you have listed in your descriptor.

Also, it's often never easy for a family to understand a path that to them is so different from their own. Not because they are intolerant but often cause they only desire for you what is best.

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/12/2004 8:08:27 PM

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Welcome to the site and to the forums MadameDahlia, I hope that you enjoy your stay at this site, and that you find what you are looking for.

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/14/2004 11:26:03 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: afmvdp
So do you actually have any experiences with BDSM so far or is this your first attempt at finding a genuine sub...cause you might want to mention that on your profile. Speaking from one young Dom to another, if you're still a neophyte in the matter you really may want to go get some hands on training with a local Dom before trying most of what you have listed in your descriptor.

Bonjour chère Dahlia,

I have to agree with Jacean on this one. You have interests in your profile that require a certain amount of skill. You say you are new to the scene... I just wonder how you've acquired such skill.

I remember being 19-20 having all these ideas in my head of things I wanted to do but then I took a deep breath and went out and learned how to do them. I'm still learning... it's wonderful really.

You seem to have wonderful Domme qualities in the way you express yourself. Remember that your journey as a Domme will start with one step at a time.

- Lady Angelika

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/14/2004 12:41:11 PM

LadyBeckett

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Welcome to the collarme message boards, Dahlia. I was very fortunate in that we didn't have any "closets" in my family.

As Angelika said, one step at a time. Enjoy every one of them!

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RE: Bonjour! - 8/16/2004 7:17:25 PM

MadameDahlia

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Thank you all for your kind words and warm welcomes. As for the things I have listed they are "interests" - that which strikes me as particularly intriguing. I would not dare attempt a vast number of things I'm interested until I have been mentored by a Dom/me (for those who are so inclined to include "me"). I list them as things I would be open to exploring.

Most of my family now knows. They are okay with what I want to do, with who I am. They tease me sometimes, but they no longer look at me as though I have grown another head. I'm very grateful that they were able to wrap their minds around the concept.

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