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Lashra -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 7:32:45 PM)
This is ask a Mistress so yeah, your going to get Domme's answering your question. Perhaps this would have been better posted in one of the casual banter forums. I'm not the girl next door, nor am I afraid to speak up. Keep him locked up? Yes if it pleases me to do so. I've done it in the past and I will do it in the future, again, when it pleases me to do so. ~Lashra

thishereboi -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 8:01:58 PM)
I wouldn't bother. If I tell him not to touch it, he better not. If I have to lock it up, what is the point?

MsDDom -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 8:11:40 PM)
lol at girl next door...does that mean she is innocent?? b/c some girls next door have dormant dominant thoughts of things they'd like to do to men...

LadyHibiscus -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 8:13:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi I wouldn't bother. If I tell him not to touch it, he better not. If I have to lock it up, what is the point? OMG!! You are a dom after all and you have been HIDING it from us!! [sm=cute.gif]

Nikitaa -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 8:45:02 PM)
quote: ORIGIONAL: Madame4a adore you huge grin and yes, you're a freak, but in the best way ever quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Okay, Nikitaa is my new favourite poster! And I have no interest in male chastity. I want full access to the goods at all times. Now stop. Now I feel every post I write must excel or I disappoint. I am mean dominatrix do not think I am nice. *STOMPS FEET! CLINCHES FIST!* I am not cute. I am fierce dominatrix. You will fear me! grrrrrrrrrrrrr! Open freezer door. Removes ice try. Grins menacingly

dreamerdreaming -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 9:41:39 PM)
The "girl next door" forum is next door. This is the "Ask a Mistress" forum, dear boy. So I'm going to act as if you'd asked me: Keeping my property in chastity is yummy and sweet... Very deeply gratifying. Any slaveboy of mine will be kept in strict metal chastity when not in use.

FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/30/2009 10:26:09 PM)
I actually believe many women would take you up on this offer, because they've probably been cheated on, and if there were a way to ensure that you couldn't play with the penis outside of her presence, she might just take you up on the offer. So, unlike what the other ladies have said, I think you should ask your girl how she would feel about controlling when you have access, she might just take you up on it. My personal position is that I'm not into chastity. My ideal submissive/slave, would not touch it if I asked him not to, and would not need to be locked, in order to remember I removed that authority from him. If I happened to be with an awesome sub who needs to feel his penis inside of a device because it makes him hot, I might consider it for those times he's not going to be with me. Otherwise, I will not interfere with the functioning of a perfectly good penis, even though I hear it's safe, by using a device. M

LadyofGrace -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 3:49:07 PM)
I do agree that asking mistresses for the "girl next door thoughts" is off base and virtually impossible for us to answer anything but from our own view. My reply is the girl next door would freak out if you mentioned it. There can be a time and place for chastity depending on the individual mistress and pet involved. I would never want one who did not behave well whether in or out of chastity.

thishereboi -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 3:52:19 PM)
I have many skills [sm=alien.gif]

YoursMistress -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 6:28:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nikitaa Open freezer door. Removes ice try. Grins menacingly ..pulls pants up, cinches belt tightly with padlock to prevent removal... (and don't ask why pants were down in the first place, call it poetic license) yours

dreamerdreaming -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 6:33:22 PM)
quote: ...pulls pants up, cinches belt tightly with padlock to prevent removal... hurries away to go get bolt cutters...

YoursMistress -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 8:11:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ...pulls pants up, cinches belt tightly with padlock to prevent removal... hurries away to go get bolt cutters... ..pretends to reach for the "Block Profile" button.. hears from the audience "Get a thread you two!"...

thishereboi -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (1/31/2009 8:15:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YoursMistress quote: ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming quote: ...pulls pants up, cinches belt tightly with padlock to prevent removal... hurries away to go get bolt cutters... ..pretends to reach for the "Block Profile" button.. hears from the audience "Get a thread you two!"... I never said get a thread, I'm staying to watch the fun. [sm=popcorn.gif]

thetammyjo -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/1/2009 6:53:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: 21165m I'm looking for the average woman's point of view..Not the Domme, but maybe the girl next doors point of view on having her man under key. I'd guess some of the women would be afraid to post , however what gets your brain going, to have him locked or not? Is a web community for kinky people the best place to learn what "the average woman" think?

crazione -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/9/2009 11:04:17 AM)
quote: I actually believe many women would take you up on this offer, because they've probably been cheated on, and if there were a way to ensure that you couldn't play with the penis outside of her presence, she might just take you up on the offer. So, unlike what the other ladies have said, I think you should ask your girl how she would feel about controlling when you have access, she might just take you up on it. I totally agree with this answer. I think many women would love the opportunity to KNOW that their man was being faithful after they have been cheated on in the past. Although, I think it might also open up the door to other things getting added in... She may not know she likes control, until she has some...

Lockit -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/9/2009 11:10:09 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: crazione quote: I actually believe many women would take you up on this offer, because they've probably been cheated on, and if there were a way to ensure that you couldn't play with the penis outside of her presence, she might just take you up on the offer. So, unlike what the other ladies have said, I think you should ask your girl how she would feel about controlling when you have access, she might just take you up on it. I totally agree with this answer. I think many women would love the opportunity to KNOW that their man was being faithful after they have been cheated on in the past. Although, I think it might also open up the door to other things getting added in... She may not know she likes control, until she has some... Not understanding submission and taking on a dominant role in this type of situation... with a vanilla... could also mean's she thinks you are a weak ass man and goes and finds herself a real man. If she started liking it and followed that with educating herself into the new feelings she had and so forth... okay you might have a new domina, but if not... she just might go the route of... can't trust him unless he is locked up... I need a new man.

QueenIsis -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/10/2009 12:33:03 PM)
lol I'm not vanilla, but *before* I discovered the world of BDSM, I did think about putting my men in chastity, to make damn sure they weren't cheating!...of course, I don't know that that's anything to go on, as I must obviously have had some latent Dominant tendencies, as I am now a Domme. But then again, even when I was a sub under my previous Master, I wanted him to wear a chastity device - not that He ever knew it! lol - because I was new to this world and quite afraid that He'd cheat; I wondered if He had a secret desire for polyamory, which is something that seemed to keep popping up when I was just learning about this lifestyle. shrugs

CatdeMedici -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/10/2009 12:57:00 PM)
I knew a girl next door once who kept her man under lock and key, they found him in the summer when the lime ran out. Seriously I don't get this whole lock and key thing---he's a grown man, just because it hangs there doesn't mean he has to take it out and diddle every chance he gets--My boobs hang and you don't see Me whip them out and massage them to a frenzy every chance I get-- If he did happen to play with out permission, I'd have him put it on the counter and hit it with a butter paddle, I can assure you when the swelling goes down he would think twice before ever doing that again.

Lockit -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/10/2009 2:14:09 PM)
hehe Cat! Hey I wouldn't say Bobbit was domina... Even vanilla's can have a wicked thought or two! I guess one doesn't need a chastity if it is...er... shall we say... trimmed...

21165m -> RE: A females view on chastity for their male partner (2/13/2009 5:17:01 AM)
Thank you too all that have replied so far, I appreciate all of the different views, and hope that others might put there two cents in as well!

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