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RE: When You Hear the Word Fantasy - 2/3/2009 6:25:09 AM

SassySarijane

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Hi sassy

I talk openly with S about the things I think up in this kinky little head of mine. My fantasies are not my secrets and I happen to think this is an important part of sharing within a relationship

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I have to agree that they are an important part, especially the sexual/sensual ones. If you can't share those fantasies with your partner, it could easily be a sign that you're in the wrong relationship for you. I wouldn't share such fantasies right off, but as the people get to know each other, they should start opening up and see how the other reacts and discuss it. If your partner can't handle or is disgusted by some of your fantasies then it's another sign that that isn't the right relationship for you. Secrets can really ruin a relationship. They tend not to stay secrets permanently and cause so much pain and anguish when revealed. They can also lead to things being done that hurt the other in the relationship.

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RE: When You Hear the Word Fantasy - 2/3/2009 7:56:57 AM

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never. The folks I know would rather use the word Dream.

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RE: When You Hear the Word Fantasy - 2/3/2009 10:17:53 AM

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never. The folks I know would rather use the word Dream.

Dream could = nightmare because its not a controled thought or did you mean daydream? fantasy could = not reality but basically its the same word as daydream. If your friends dream they fantasize and if my friends fantasize then they daydream.

I sometimes fantasize that the man/woman I dominate is totally under my control. I know in the cold light of day that he/she really has the control to say no but its nice to imagine otherwise when Im doing it.
I also fantasize that the man who is dominating me has me under his total control. Of course he doesn't because the reality is, I have a right to change my mind and end it at any given time but there ya go...

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