Goddess2002
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ORIGINAL: sophia37 I find Aneirin's post to be pretty compelling. "My belief is that we are drawn to people for a reason, of all the people in the world we are drawn to very few." My experience has been just that. This part is something I need to keep in mind, "Now my understanding is that the people we are drawn to have something for us, they are there to enable us to learn." I think that too, is true. Altho like I said, that's a thought that's hard to keep in mind as we go thru life. But I can say that I have replied to people that what I value in them is that they teach me things just by them being them. This part I think is also true but difficult to read by the way the poster wrote it. I notice myself being different with different people. So, "What one is with that person I believe to be a natural interaction, they may be dom, they may be sub, they may even be somewhere in between, but their interaction with oneself increases their knowledge and you yours." And because of the way that person is, I become a certain way, when I am with that person. I like that really. Its a pleasure to become comfortable within yourself in different roles. Its a relief in lots of ways as well. Since with one person, you may have to dominate more than you like. Or with another you might submit more than is you. When you find someone where you can acheive a blance between both submission and dominance, then that's a relationship you find yourself cultivating for a long long time. So true...there is one person on this planet I feel naturally submissive to...and I feel naturally dominant to everyone else. It's taking awhile to become fully comfortable with that,though....but as I do it's becoming a beautiful thing.
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