SassyFINAM
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Joined: 7/14/2008 Status: offline
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Thanks, Absentia666, for the post. I am too in a similar situation - although I am pretty new to BSSM as we started out in a vanilla relationship and he introduced me to this - and I found out that it was something that I had been missing ;). I think we are still mostly vanilla, but both enjoy experimenting. He has dominated so far and I tried twice on his request and I want to satisfy him better...and I know it will have to be more of 'acting' or mentally preparing to serve as a top like Nikitaa and DavanKael suggested. It doesn't come naturally or from the 'heart' to me. Thank you for those suggestions - I will try those out. Also thank you, allthatjaz, for words of wisdom. It got me thinking about fulfilling each other totally and honestly. As far as sharing (chainedgirl, E2Sweet, Sensura)...I don't deem myself insecure or untrusting...I just prefer one person at a time. I don't mind watching together or being watched, but other than that sharing is not for me either. Have a great day, everyone.
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