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Proprietrix -> RE: Your thoughts please !! (1/23/2006 9:49:37 AM)
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ORIGINAL: dave1212
I have recently tried watersports and also public humiliation i enjoyed both activities very much..
The question i would like to ask is :
Could you please tell me what you as Mistresses get out of this or what if anything it signifies to you !!
Many thanks..
[:)]
I'm responding to public humiliation, not watersports.
I absolutely *adore* public humiliation of My subs. In part, because it simply amuses Me. I always tell My subs "If I'm smiling, rest assured you're doing something right." I make it clear to them that it's very important to Me that I smile, laugh, and enjoy life. When I publicly humiliate them, I'm amused, and I laugh (out loud). That they stand there and take it, shows Me that they are willing to do what it takes to meet the goal of making Me smile and laugh, even if it comes at their own expense.
It's a bit of a power trip and a good way to keep My subs attentive. Through humiliating, I have the power to control My subs' emotions, stance, poise, and facial expressions, even when in a room full of people, and without even touching. I can hang the threat of humiliation over their head and keep them on their toes. It keeps them in line and quick to My needs if I hint at publicly humiliating. If I've told My boy to fetch Me a drink and he fails to comply within a matter of seconds, I can whisper in his ear "Or maybe when you stand up to fetch My drink, you prefer I tell all of these people about [such-and-such]." Chances are, he'll be more attentive to Me the rest of the evening for the fear of My revealing his embarrassing secret that he and I share.
It's also a form of bonding with Me. I humiliate in a very condescending manner. Others around us see it as demeaning and cold. At the time, My submissive is very embarassed and humiliated. After the fact though, I positively reinforce for the exact subject I was humiliating for and turn the same remark from condescending to coddling. My sub walks away knowing that I accept them for the subject at hand and that I find them special. They end up feeling like they are loved, accepted, protected, and nurtured by Me. They usually understand too, that only *I* have the power to do that to them, for if anyone else dared talk to My subs in a demeaning and disrespectful manner, I'd be quick to take up for them.
And I probably shouldn't leave out that I'm fond of attention. That combined with the public "shock factor", brings a sense of enjoyment when I see the reactions of others around us. (In an appropriate environment of course.)
Those are a few of the things I personally get out of it.
~Miss P.
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