pinnipedster -> RE: Relish Fashion Ad (2/21/2009 8:14:57 AM)
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One of the odd dichotomies about BDSM is that, while the community strongly emphasizes consensuality, a lot of the fantasy involves very non-consensual situations. How often have you read a story where a woman is taken into slavery, resists at first but eventually comes to love it, or the man who is forced into servitude and humiliation by a vengeful woman using blackmail or other threats? Such stories can be very hot, as long as they are fiction. Having fantasies about being handcuffed and raped by a handsome, dominant police officer in no way justifies real-world cops behaving in such a manner. I do have some conflict between the part of me that thinks ads like the one linked are wholly inappropriate, and the part of me that wishes that I was the woman on the left in the first picture....
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