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Daddysbaby87 -> What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 7:37:26 AM)

What scene really gets you going?




LaTigresse -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:01:33 AM)

What really turns me on is not a scene at all.

It is the submission. Not the scene related sort, but someone really, submitting their whole being, openly, without a long list of conditions. Just that "here I am, I am yours, do whatever you want."

Now THAT is hot!




Badguylol -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:03:07 AM)

You gotta start the thread off right by telling what gets you going 

A basic hands behind the back tie, maybe a little chest harness, maybe elbows tied together, on their knees, and some forced oral. That's an all around good time lol. A tight ballgag will always get me going too




Badguylol -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:07:41 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

It is the submission. Not the scene related sort, but someone really, submitting their whole being, openly, without a long list of conditions. Just that "here I am, I am yours, do whatever you want."

Co-sign. Forgot about that haha. Hawtness




chezzy71 -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:31:05 AM)

Talking to Mistress turns me on..that is all that is needed.I am not intellectually as smart as she is,but i make her laugh and that makes both of us happy.




feydeplume -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:55:55 AM)

Ya know what really gets me going? Writing wank material for strangers.

Anyone else think I *might* need to stop substituting caffeine for sleep?




CatdeMedici -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 10:41:47 AM)

The one where Horatio, Grissom and Dr Jacob Hood all say " yes Mistress"--ok seriously, for Me it isn't the scene, its the day to day life dynamic
 
and chezz's nightly IM tuck ins.[8D]




kallisto -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 3:04:00 PM)

It isn't the scene.  It's the He's in my head.  It's the everyday submission. 




vagabonddom -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 3:18:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Daddysbaby87

What scene really gets you going?


Sorry, scenes don't turn either of us on sexually. 




DavanKael -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 3:59:03 PM)

Intimacy. 
  Davan




MidMichCowboy -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 4:09:55 PM)

It's when her smell wakes me up at night, as she is curled in my arms. It's When she walks into a room where I am talking with friends and she kneels beside my chair and sighs as I put my hand on her. It's when we are talking, deeply involved and her eyes look at mine, and I see the spirit, the fire and the love.

Davan (lovely lady that she is) said it right, intimacy.




Huntertn -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 4:14:48 PM)

Not sure about scenes..but her face as she comes to me..hhmm




pinkwind -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 5:40:25 PM)

As others have said, intimacy in all it's facets, but more especially the likes of feeling a hand touching the back of my neck and then slowly moving around and turning from a touch to a tightening grip, or my head pulled back by a hand grabbing a handful of hair, "What are you..." almost growled in my ear.

What scenes? Some with a blindfold, knives after wax or just one their own, or a good and desperately yearned for flogging session when i know that he just wants to open his shoulders and go for it. But then any scene can drive me to distraction if the minds meet in the right place.







Maxwell67 -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 6:36:12 PM)

*FR*
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of the women.  [;)]

hehe..   Actually it varies from scene to scene.  What turns me on is "the moment."  That instant when you are both there.. I mean really THERE and not half thinking about what has happened or what is going to happen next but sharing that experience right now, together.  It can be subtle or spectacular.  It does not matter, as long as it is 100% commitment to the moment that you are in.  Complete involvement of mind, body and soul of all participants, connected together through the expereince.  Once you have had "the moment" it becomes the holy grail of scening.. the thing to be strived for.




lovingpet -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 6:42:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

It's when her smell wakes me up at night, as she is curled in my arms. It's When she walks into a room where I am talking with friends and she kneels beside my chair and sighs as I put my hand on her. It's when we are talking, deeply involved and her eyes look at mine, and I see the spirit, the fire and the love.

Davan (lovely lady that she is) said it right, intimacy.



*fans self*  Why, oh why, do you have to live so far away???

I agree.  It is connection.  It is that trust and deep respect.  Vulerability and risk.  It has little to do with the actions taking place or where.  It all has to do with whom it is occurring and what it means to each of us.

lovingpet




DavanKael -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 6:48:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

It's when her smell wakes me up at night, as she is curled in my arms. It's When she walks into a room where I am talking with friends and she kneels beside my chair and sighs as I put my hand on her. It's when we are talking, deeply involved and her eyes look at mine, and I see the spirit, the fire and the love.

Davan (lovely lady that she is) said it right, intimacy.



Eloquent, as always, MidMichCowboy.  And, thank you.  :> 
  Davan




DavanKael -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 6:49:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Maxwell67

*FR*
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of the women.  [;)] 



Conan rocks!!!  :> 
  Davan




SunNMoon -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:43:22 PM)

The follow through, not just the words but the actions.




MusicalMaster -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 8:50:53 PM)

after the very first response you got, what more does this thread need?  But i also enjoy a girl with the right attitude.  I can't say for sure what that attitude is, because it always catches me by surprise, and it's almost instantaneous everytime.  It's spontaneous, it's mysterious, and I wouldn't have it any other way!




Amaros -> RE: What turns you on the most??? (2/16/2009 9:16:18 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: DavanKael

quote:

ORIGINAL: Maxwell67

*FR*
To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentations of the women.  [;)] 



Conan rocks!!!  :> 
Davan
I think that's actually copped from Genghis Khan, they just left off the last part.




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