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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:59:17 AM   
DesFIP


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When you come to something you don't understand, google the term.

The other thing is that you can use more than one form of something. Gag for instance; ball gag, penis gag, her panties, duct tape, bondage tape, vet wrap.

Bondage could include; rope, unlined leather cuffs, fleece lined leather cuffs, chain (refrigerating it optional).

Nipple clamps can include all different things also. Floggers can be made of many different materials; and I would think trying one made from rubber straps to be a lot nastier than one made from silk embroidery threads, deerhide is supposed to be a lot less painful than moose.

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 7:01:03 PM   
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There's an all inclusive list floating on the internet somewhere, just gotta do a little work for it darling. As for some of mine and Daddy's suggestions-
*Snowblowing the driveway and sanding it.
*Hosing down the bed of his truck after hunting season-ick!
*Rototilling his garden.

Of course all of these are done with cuffs and collar and 5 inch platforms, Nice huh? ROFL . Good luck!
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 7:47:21 PM   
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Didn't we have a thread like this yesterday? I'm going to give you a variation of the same answer I gave to yesterday's OP:

Tell her you want to restrain her and use her. Because if you hafta come up with the ideas, then you might as well be the Dom.


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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:19:42 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:40:42 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:44:20 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:45:51 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:47:03 PM   
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she wants to do cbt on her Dom?
wow

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:49:29 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/19/2009 8:52:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: redwoodgirl

GT- arent you supposed to be on your honeymoon or sumthin'??


*smooches* hi darlin!

Cant afford the time off... *sigh*

quote:

How about how you can serve your mistress?  The list screams do me.


Yeah, D..  I was thinking that too

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/20/2009 4:28:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		It sounds like he's a total newbie and she doesn't want to have him running for the hills afterwards. The assignment wasn't ten ways to serve your domme, it was ten things to experience. I'm sure he's experienced washing dishes before. And it might even be a pro domme, trying to get a handle on what she can safely do to him when he has zero experience.

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 2:48:28 AM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 4:22:07 AM   
came4U


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Maybe a piece of paper that says 'How about YOU do things that YOU like to me?'

but then again, if I had to write that, I'd be topping someone who doesn't have a clue. F*k that.

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 8:48:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you search online you can find a bdsm checklist.  Generally these checklists are used to understanding a person's desires.  Usually, they ask if a person has tried a given activity, and on a scale how interested they are in that particular activity.  The list will give you lots of ideas as to things that can be done. 

I found one on this site:
http://latches.webslaves.com/checklist.htm

Good luck!

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 9:11:52 AM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 10:48:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

make something up.

or... may I suggest.. eels?



Screaming eels?


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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 12:39:21 PM   
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Off the top of my head
    -   housework -  mine of course.
         sensual - ice cubes, ice rods, rabbit skin, foot rubs, massage
            caning
               kissing - use your imagination.
                 exibitionism
                    washing windows - again, mine

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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/21/2009 1:48:58 PM   
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RE: I need some sugestions - 2/22/2009 1:22:16 PM   
TexasMaam


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Status: offline 		Oh dear. Another 'do me!' list.

All of these are things you want Her to try on you.

blind folds
gags
cbt
tease and denial
strict and prolonged bondage (possibly overnight)
Sensory Deprivation
Wax play

That leaves you three teensy items to think about listing that you want to do FOR HER.

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RE: I need some suggestions - 2/22/2009 2:06:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gillismail

I've been looking through the forums for most of the night but can't seem to find anything that appeals to me.  I'm just mainly looking for guidance as I had said this is my first domme and I'm still quite new in this.

She had said some up with a list but didn't specify how.  I have a few days to do this not sure if there are some other not so published ideas that could be enjoyable aswell.



Of the Dommes that i have spoke to, it is not what "appeals to me" that their interested in. It IS what can you do to serve Her needs that counts on the list. May i suggest that you scratch your list now and start a new one with a different perspective. Advice from one subby to another it is always....... "D"omme not domme and never "I" it is always i.

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