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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 10:00:14 AM

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Would I be given permission to finish myself off later? Maybe given a time limit to do so, and if I can't in said time, then I must stop.

On charitable days... and with a certain someone... that question would be okay with me... the answer not always the same.

But in general... asking that would be a red flag to me that you were only doing things that you liked doing... which kind of takes out the dominant factor and hotness of the whole situation. Of course I believe we all must be satisified... but where is the control if there is always a condition? What is hot about being used? The cum? Or the taking, the control and the lack of say in it?

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 10:11:33 AM

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where is the control if there is always a condition?

The answer has to do with the type of condition. If the condition is that you mustn't kill or permanently maim me, or make me do something that I fear for health reasons, where's the harm in that? If the condition is that you must give me a bj after you climax, or you must tie my hands and feet and put nipple clamps on me, or attend to some other particular fetish, that's a different story.

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What is hot about being used? The cum? Or the taking, the control and the lack of say in it?

Definitely the latter, plus the fact that she is sexually excited by it.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 10:14:54 AM

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I agree hardbody! lol

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 10:30:08 AM

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I find the idea hot. Though if you are truely seeking a relationship, both must get something out it. If it is consenual then great. If not I doubt it would last.

Now that being said, if you want to put be in this latex bondage suit for your selfish sex needs. I am game :)

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:07:44 PM

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Would you leave a woman that was sexually selfish in bed, even if she pushed every single one of your submissive buttons?

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I'd find it exciting, the more so the more selfish in bed she were to be. At first, anyway. Yet, if she were that selfish in bed, she'd probably be likewise out of it, too - and that would either break the relationship, or break me.

Hummmm. I guess. I've never been with a woman who's been that selfish in bed (or out of it). Quite difficult for me to imagine.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:11:16 PM

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the condition is that you mustn't kill or permanently maim me

Oh yes, I forgot to mention hard limits. Well reminded, HBS. Yes, I'd prefer not to be maimed or killed, if at all possible. Ideally I'd like my wedding tackle to be in full working order afterwards, too.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:12:37 PM

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LOL... wedding tackle??? I need details! lol

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:16:10 PM

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:21:03 PM

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LOL... wedding tackle??? I need details! lol

I really am going to have to get you a BritEnglish/US English translator's dictionary, aren't I? Meat 'n' two veg, me dear. Plonker and goolies.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:21:30 PM

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I put hooks through worms... then feed them to fish... no worm wants to wiggle around me! hehe

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 12:23:22 PM

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LOL... wedding tackle??? I need details! lol

I really am going to have to get you a BritEnglish/US English translator's dictionary, aren't I? Meat 'n' two veg, me dear. Plonker and goolies.

LOL... Yes! Buy me and send to me a translators dictionary! hehe

Thank you... (smile)

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 5:53:33 PM

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I never felt this sort of thing was "hot", but discovered that sometimes it's just part of being what a submissive is. A previous mistress of mine and I parted company some years back because she moved back home across the country to take care of some things. But every now and then I'd get a call from her, telling me to pick her up at the airport and that she'd be staying with me for a few days. She'd appear, do what she wanted to do, definitely focused on her own satisfaction, and then she'd be gone again. That's how she liked it, and to be honest, I was fine with it. I had no reason to complain. When I was involved with another dominant, she stopped calling, but she always knew when I was single again and the visits would start up again.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 6:11:58 PM

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When I was a Domme I came up with an idea to "tame" subs that thought that they were incredible lovers and were doing me a favor by having sex with me. I would tell them that I would like to have them lay on their backs, cover them with a sheet with a hole cut in it over their genitals, and that they were to lay still under it, face covered. I would use them however I saw fit. They were to make no noise, and were not to reach up and touch me unless I commanded it. (No, this was not a form of necrophilia.) I would remind them during the act that they were nothing to me but a piece of meat for my pleasure, a faceless body for me to use. They had no right to even have eye contact. They would not be pleasuring me, I would be pleasuring myself by using them.

That is hot.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 6:36:26 PM

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I am assuming you mean non-intercourse sex, since I don't see how I could avoid an orgasm in that scenario with a beautiful woman who dominated me. As long as I could go have my own orgasms without her later, I could probably deal with it. I'd have to try it, I like traditional sex by far the best, all the way to orgasm. If a female didn't permit me to have orgasms, like these chastity scenarios, then I'd probably have no interest in her, but I've never tried it. It seems pretty popular, so maybe it's really nice. The idea of giving up the most pleasurable single experience in the world doesn't appeal to me, though.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 8:12:56 PM

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I am extremely turned on by the idea of being used sexually. I don't have to have an orgasm to get extreme satisfaction from the experience. However, I would not be happy with someone who never took my needs into consideration.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/22/2009 8:41:59 PM

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I find the idea to be intensely sexy, and the practice of having my Lady be selfish that way on occasion to be phenomenal. However, if this were her usual practice, every single time we had sex, I would not feel fulfilled. I would of course talk to her about it before stepping out of the relationship, but if it never changed, I would probably walk away.
Fortunately for me, she enjoys being selfish some times, but other times she enjoys bringing me to orgasm as often as she can. Both scenarios push my buttons.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/23/2009 12:51:24 PM

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Subs, if you met a very beautiful woman who seduced you and got you into bed, then continued to use you for sex and sex only, with very little concern for your orgasms - just her own - would you find this rather exciting, or totally one-sided? Would you leave a woman that was sexually selfish in bed, even if she pushed every single one of your submissive buttons?

Akasha

Hmmm...before I met Mistress, yes, that would have been very hot. I'd have loved it and assuming all other things equal in the relationship (by which I mean compatibility), it would have made for a great semi-casual BDSM relationship.

I don't think I could have an actual Mistress/slave relationship with that person, though. Mistress uses me as a sex toy rather frequently, but since she really enjoys my orgasms I get to cum a lot from that.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/23/2009 1:29:14 PM

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Nothing wrong with being a fuck toy for your Dominant

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/23/2009 1:49:47 PM

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Subs, if you met a very beautiful woman who seduced you and got you into bed, then continued to use you for sex and sex only, with very little concern for your orgasms - just her own - would you find this rather exciting, or totally one-sided? Would you leave a woman that was sexually selfish in bed, even if she pushed every single one of your submissive buttons?

The short, unhelpful, answer is that, without giving me orgasms, she wouldn't be pushing every single one of my submissive buttons. Having my sexual pleasure controlled, rather than ignored, is my biggest submissive button.

But saying that deliberately misses the point. There are few things hotter to me than begging Kita for orgasm and telling her how much I want and need it, to have her look at me and say that she doesn't care what I want and that what I need is to be denied. Being used for her pleasure and receiving nothing back in the short term is incredibly hot: just pleasing her is pleasure for me. But I know that, in the longer term, she does care what I want and will give me it, albeit on her terms, when she wants to.

I wouldn't be in a relationship with somebody who wasn't meeting my needs.

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RE: Used as a sex toy: Hot or not - 2/23/2009 8:13:19 PM

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Subs, if you met a very beautiful woman who seduced you and got you into bed, then continued to use you for sex and sex only, with very little concern for your orgasms - just her own - would you find this rather exciting, or totally one-sided? Would you leave a woman that was sexually selfish in bed, even if she pushed every single one of your submissive buttons?

Akasha

I believe I'll echo the thought that I would probably stay for a bit - and how "bit" is defined would depend on what buttons were being pushed. However, the denial of all orgasms would be too much to bear for a significant period of time. I believe I would try and ask if there was some sort of compromise where I might occassionally finish with her at least watching.

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