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PeonForHer -> Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 2:24:39 PM)

We've seen a good few threads about 'extreme' things that are turn-ons - 'edge-play', borderline intolerable.  Cuckolding - would you, wouldn't you?  Blood-letting, severe brutality of all kinds . . . .  Great fun and I'm not knocking it.

However, that's one extreme - the other extreme is that of something that's so mild that it's barely noticeable.  So I was thinking, recently, about things that I've seen, heard or felt, that are small and subtle - yet have turned me on out of all proportion to the event.  A certain look, a certain word said; a little order given in a particular tone . . .  (Ok - that's a sub's view - or my sub's view - I'd love to hear from the dominants too.)

One polite request: please can we get past the tiny, tiny penis quips as swiftly as possible?  Thank you in advance.




AAkasha -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:13:36 PM)



The authentic, vulnerable moment when a sub's breath turns into a whimper. It's not a *whimper* per se, but when he breathes, it almost comes out that way.  For a good example, look at what Elijah Wood does almost the entire time through the Lord of the Rings movies, which I watched entirely for the desperate look on his face and that precise sound.

Akasha



sodsta -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:29:32 PM)

A raised eyebrow, lol. I have a thing for eyebrows cocked just so. :P

Edit: Just to add, it doesn't even have to be a Domme doing the eyebrow-raising. Any raised eyebrow makes my skin tingle. Jason Isaacs has got it down pat. *bites lip*



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:39:49 PM)

Hmmmm.  I remember once making that whimpering noise and the domme in question taking the P out of me.  Bah. 

Ah - but when the breath turns into a whimper - that is a good, good time.  Especially when she leans down after doing whatever she's done, you can feel her hair on your shoulder, and her breath, and smell her perfume, and she whispers in your ear, "Did you like that?" in a tone like a purring cat. 




PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:42:39 PM)

For me, Joan Collins always did the eyebrow-raising thing best.  Matchless, IMO.



Tantriqu -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:49:12 PM)

Close:  for me, the tiny and absolutely uncontrollable gasp/intake/catch of breath is the one. 
Also, when I do this to a good man, I love to see the arch of a naked back combined with an almost imperceptible tilt of an ass trying not to be greedy.  It's a gorgeous amalgam of his desiring to be obedient, yet being on the physical edge of endurance coupled with frantic arousal.  Heady!



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 3:55:41 PM)

[:D]

Yes, it tears at you, as a sub.  An ass that's yearning, but not too greedy.  I have experience, as some may have guessed.



Reigna -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 4:36:32 PM)

Goodness, what's wrong with a greedy ass? I encourage greedy asses, myself, and have a pronounced attraction for asses demonstrating their greed.



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 4:44:30 PM)

A bite, when it gets too greedy.  That's pretty good.  When it's really straining  . . .




AAkasha -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 4:51:40 PM)


Also, I have pointed this video out before...but things like the subtle, subtle "blink-wince-shiver" I call it that the lovely Jared P does at :07 seconds in this Supernatural clip.  Ah yes, one of the shows I watch - well, I fast foward on DVR - for the potential bondage scenes. He's a certifyable bondage bon-bon!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZ5PmqURFEg

Akasha



Tantriqu -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 4:55:24 PM)

Lol, thanks, Akasha.  Like his disappointment when his gag is removed!



Sylverdawn -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 5:30:57 PM)

When the muscle/flesh/skin ripple as your fingers just whisper over them.. so senstive that the movement of air created by your finger tips is enough to garner an involuntary reaction.. for me .. done.. finished I am complete...

Or.. when he blushes when they dont mean to when you catch hiseye and he is in the midst of some gone sub fuckme pumps fantasy and your lifting your fork full of chicken ceaser to your well glossed lips or taking a sip of some innocuous white and your bottom lip has just touched the rim and their fixated on the movement and you catch them at it and you know that he knows what you know you know he isthinking and he blushes from their toes up heated and look away.. stripped bare in that moment..

two of the tiny things that make me happiest..SD



ShaktiSama -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/22/2009 6:45:49 PM)

I like the way he bites his lip as he desperately tries to obey my command not to make any noise.






undergroundsea -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 12:16:43 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
A certain look, a certain word said; a little order given in a particular tone


These are the points that I would have said: a look (eyes looking down in particular), choice of words, tone. One other point I will add is body language. I appreciate the image of a woman seated back comfortably, legs crossed, with an air of confidence.

Cheers,

Sea



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 5:00:41 AM)

Also, I have pointed this video out before...but things like the subtle, subtle "blink-wince-shiver" I call it that the lovely Jared P does at :07 seconds in this Supernatural clip.  Ah yes, one of the shows I watch - well, I fast foward on DVR
 
That link to a video you posted some months ago . . .  a Russian one,  man cuffs himself to a chain hanging from the ceiling, woman starts to whip him . . .

At her first lash, he looks down.  That look down I can relate to so much.  That was a split second of "wow".



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 5:08:21 AM)

You've posted quite a few anecdotes in passing that have been little gems for me, Sea.  I recall ones about certain words spoken in a certain way and in certain contexts . . .

I remember once sitting on a train, eyeing up a woman and getting a lovely little buzz with the fantasy of her telling me to take her bag down from the luggage rack.  Not in a barking voice - just saying it as though that was "what I was there for". 

Maybe I should have just gone over and asked her to order me [:D]



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 6:44:05 AM)

I knew you were above talking about tiny penises Peon.   I thought you were talking about diamonds.[8D]

For myself, it was when I happened upon the effect catheterization had on a nervous, but willing boy...  
Or simply spanking a boy to oblivion with my bare hands; elementary I thought, but rev'd us both up beyond anything I imagined/exprienced prior, or since.      M



PeonForHer -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 6:55:50 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1

I knew you were above talking about tiny penises Peon.   I thought you were talking about diamonds.[8D]



*Sigh* I should have seen that one coming  . . .

quote:

ORIGINAL: FullfigRIMAAM1


For myself, it was when I happened upon the effect catheterization had on a nervous, but willing boy...  
Or simply spanking a boy to oblivion with my bare hands; elementary I thought, but rev'd us both up beyond anything I imagined/exprienced prior, or since.      M



Catheterization?  A boy beaten to oblivion?  M, if those are 'tiny, tiny things' for you - I'm alarmed at what would be big things for you!

(and please don't say 'penises') [;)]



MISTRESSKUMA -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 7:13:21 AM)

That's hawt. I don't know about everyone else, but many times, the foreplay can make or break my session with my subby..and I totally couldn't have sex without foreplay. After she licks me, I like to put on the strap on and do her doggie style with an emphasis on the ass smackin. Hearing her whimper is the ultimate for me.


Or for him, I enjoy wrapping his legs around my back as he's sitting in a chair...That way Im standing penetrating him with full powerful thrusts. Call me a freak...but i love it when he's in pain and whimpers too...and thank god they enjoy the pain...so its cool.



FullfigRIMAAM1 -> RE: Tiny, tiny things that turn you on. (2/23/2009 8:42:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer
Catheterization?  A boy beaten to oblivion?  M, if those are 'tiny, tiny things' for you - I'm alarmed at what would be big things for you!
It's my perspective I guess...   I feel decidedly not hard core enough as a domme because I can't/don't do whips really...   So I consider everything else amauteurish, and mostly soft and loving. [sm=fingers.gif].

quote:

(and please don't say 'penises') [;)]
Ok, but the word peni does put the image of litte tiny ones in my head.   I'm just sayin'...   You want proper English or the wrong visual in my head?   LOL    M



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