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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/28/2006 1:50:40 PM

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here is a site with some great chastity idaes for you to start with for the male belt
http://www.leatherpost.com/CTGY/TOY-Chs
also look in to prostat massags. it alous a guy to expeal semen with out getting a hard on

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/28/2006 1:56:12 PM

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OK, not to sound obtuse, but if the lock is so easily cut or jimmied, what exactly is the point of the chastity belt?

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Any lock can be "cut" and doing it without causing any damage to the belt would be trivial for anyone with the most basic mechanical ability. It would be easier, however, to just contact the belt's manufacturer for a replacement key.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/28/2006 3:01:33 PM

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I dont think that she meant to make it sound easy. We were talking about in an EMERGENCY situation if there were no keys available. It isnt "easy" but "doable." And it comes with the risk of damaging a $1500 belt. Not to mention the time it will take to have the lock repaired/replaced if you cant do it on your own. The guy from neosteel is very friendly. . . but repairs are usually a month or more since he lives in Germany.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/28/2006 4:50:51 PM

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OK, not to sound obtuse, but if the lock is so easily cut or jimmied, what exactly is the point of the chastity belt?

It's easily cut, not easily jimmied. Cutting the locking mechanism would be easily detected, making it a pretty strong deterrant to doing so. The conversation about cutting the lock was in regard to what one could do if they lost the key(s), not how to escape from the device undetected in an attempt to deceive the keyholder.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/29/2006 12:38:22 AM

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hehe, theres a video from neosteel or pupett, i forget which, but they have a locksmith who comes over and has to pick the lock. in real life, that cna happen, only a locksmith would be able to get it off. otherwise, you will cut up a belt you paid a lot of money for, and waited time for. plus, your risking injury to yourself as well. i guess you have to have a fetish for chastity to understand it all

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/29/2006 1:32:29 AM

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hehe, theres a video from neosteel or pupett, i forget which, but they have a locksmith who comes over and has to pick the lock. in real life, that cna happen, only a locksmith would be able to get it off.

Here's a little tip for you, what takes place in a porn/fetish video isn't necessarily how things are in real life.

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otherwise, you will cut up a belt you paid a lot of money for, and waited time for. plus, your risking injury to yourself as well.

Maybe if you're using a blowtorch or a 12" chop saw. If you have half a brain, there is no risk of injury at all.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/29/2006 6:20:57 AM

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Another alternative with Neosteel could be to have a key available in emergencies in a sealed package difficult but not impossible to open; and combine this with using the numbered steel seals which also have to be removed (i.e. cut) before the belt can be opened. There are all sorts of options here.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/29/2006 10:51:19 AM

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Cutting the lock is a last resort option for when the keys (including the sealed, kept in a safe place, only to be used in case of emergency key) are lost. I wasn't advocating it for anything else.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/29/2006 11:41:12 AM

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all this talk about keys , once you are used to wearing the belt and wearing ful time you will r ealise just how important the key is , just a small change in its location etc can have a very large impact on you

for example my husband wore the key to my tollyboy around his neck at first i found this exciting in a way and did result in me playing with him at times so as to try and tempt him .. later he changed to keeping the key at home in the safe , in a way i should feel better about that as less risk of lost keys but i realised then who was in control

now when we are out togather i know there is no way to have sex , now way for me to try and control the situation when i have sex is totaly up to him

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/30/2006 12:15:47 PM

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Dear cbjane,

Surely that's the whole point! In his position I'd have done exactly what he has.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/31/2006 4:33:11 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: subnoconas

here is a site with some great chastity idaes for you to start with for the male belt
http://www.leatherpost.com/CTGY/TOY-Chs
also look in to prostat massags. it alous a guy to expeal semen with out getting a hard on

thanks, but what is that prostat massags ? dont find them.

Also nice to read all these reactions of people.
seems like chastity is a pretty common thing under people who practice BDSM.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/31/2006 4:07:05 PM

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thanks, but what is that prostat massags ? dont find them.

It's a method using a specially shaped anal probe. It causes ejaculation without orgasm, and is considered healthy for a long term wearer (male). There is no direct stimulation to the penis, and sometimes cold water or ice is applied. I think it's possible even without an erection.

I thought of the word now--- aneros. That's the special anal probe, one of them anyway.

Many recommend milking once a month, but who knows. Some have seen a link between lack of sexual activity and prostrate problems. I believe this is supported only by statistical data, I don't think there's been a clinical study on it.

IMO, a month is long enough, you gotta get out enough so you remember what you are missing. I have a hard time believing those who say they have been locked for years. One time I queried the guy purporting it and he responded, "No, I haven't touched myself in years, I get out and have great sex but my hands are always restrained". I find that a bit more believable. He also added that usually she would get on top, but sometimes his hands would be restrained to his neck so he could do the work.

Have fun, or not. :-)

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 1/31/2006 5:24:10 PM

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A prostate massage is possible without an anal probe, provided that a finger is long enough!

You can 'milk' out the semen without an ejaculation, but it does take a little patience. The subject will feel the sensation of needing to pee, but that is the semen working its way out.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/1/2006 1:37:21 AM

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Oh, ic now.
it is something you have to do to the male person, when he has been wearing a belt for some time.
i tougth the prostat massags was some kind of belt or so for a man.

from what i understand its a prostate massage thats been given with help of a special anal probe and that makes the male peson cumm without getting a hard one ? Rigth ?

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/1/2006 9:34:26 AM

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quote:

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Oh, ic now.
it is something you have to do to the male person, when he has been wearing a belt for some time.
i tougth the prostat massags was some kind of belt or so for a man.

from what i understand its a prostate massage thats been given with help of a special anal probe and that makes the male peson cumm without getting a hard one ? Rigth ?

depending on the individual's anatomy, you might not need a probe. If you can locate the prostate through the rectum, and reach it with fingers, I think that is preferable ESPECIALLY for A) your first time doing it, and B) His first time recieving it. With direct contact, you are more likely to take it easy at first and not damage anything inside.

The person MIGHT get a hard on, or might not. But MOST men release their semen without an orgasm, though most consider it a pleasurable experience.

I suggest doing a search on prostate massage, milking, etc. just to make sure you are getting good clinical advice.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/2/2006 9:20:45 AM

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I wear a CB3000 and have to agree that it works very well and is indeed almost comfortable. It does take time to get the correct combination of settings but it is worthwhile. I have not had any pull out problems but there again I am "playing the game" and not trying too!
My only complaint as such is with the access for cleaning. When caged for some days it is very difficult to fully clean and more importantly to fully dry. Hair dryers work but care is needed.
Milking is essential for any caged male. Prostrate health overrides chastity requirements. Its also sooo frustrating to see all that pre cum and not getting any sexual gratification!!

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/2/2006 9:36:40 AM

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Milking is essential for any caged male.

No, it's not.

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Prostrate health overrides chastity requirements.

Your PROSTATE will be just fine without milking.

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/2/2006 11:02:23 AM

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Milking is beneficial there is no question.

Personally, I have found it to be necessary when in chastity for long periods.

From the medical point of view, there is speculation that a build up of toxins may accumulate in a chaste male. I for one am more than happy to give/instruct a milking on a semi regular basis with this in mind but also to stress the control of causing ejaculation without orgasm.

I'm not a Doctor, each to their own

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/2/2006 11:17:19 AM

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why cant guys just go a long period without masterbaiting or ejaculating? are guys really that desperate that they need to be "milked"?

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RE: Chastity belt questions - 2/2/2006 11:25:08 AM

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why cant guys just go a long period without masterbaiting or ejaculating? are guys really that desperate that they need to be "milked"?

It is not nearly as much about need as it is about health. Studies seem to indicate that regular release for males reduces to incidence of prostate cancer.

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