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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/4/2009 6:09:13 PM

Owner4SexSlave

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None of my past partners have kicked the bucket, and that's about all I can humanly say.

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/6/2009 8:49:14 PM

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It happens, in every walk of life....my first died, many moons ago, and I lived on, and have had a great life. If I have any emotional scares, they would come from those ex's that are still breathing.

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/10/2009 9:07:43 PM

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the chances are the same as me finding dozens of slave with the same story. its called bullshit, and people are good at it, especially people in this lifestyle.

i have been looking for another slave for about 5 years now. its been a lot of BS. a lot of game players, a lot of used to be's, even more wanna be's, and then the some day i am gonna be's

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/10/2009 9:36:36 PM

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Link, you are still under moderation, but I thought of you when this thread first came up. As you know, we have this in common. We both know grief.

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/10/2009 10:04:50 PM

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way back in my subbie days one of my dominants had a submissive pass away from lung cancer. he often spoke fondly of her, and that was ok, they'd had a long and rewarding documented relationship. i have seen dominants and in some cases subs use the emotional ploy of a dead partner. some of them go way overboard with the stories and such. trust your gut feelings is all i can say.
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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/11/2009 10:08:36 AM

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although my secondary slave passed away within the last year, i do not feel the need to discuss it with a potential slave. do i miss said slave?sure i do, but that is between me and my own head, and has little if any relevance in finding a new sub/slave.

i have had many potential slaves have a similar story that goes on and on. when that happens i usually dismiss this sub, and move on.

my view on it. if the master/dom sub/slave has to carry on and on about previous losses, they are having expectations of the same situation or similar

i am not going to be a replacement master.

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/11/2009 4:15:28 PM

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could this be a coincidence

There is no way it could be anything else, unless you believe in juju. The question "if some doms are trying to replace a perfect girlfriend" is unanswerable, since you included "some" without quantifying what that means. You'd have to spend a couple of years gathering statistics, and even then the result would be iffy. Possibly, and possibly not. Next question.

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RE: Reliving A Tragic Loss - 3/14/2009 7:19:36 PM

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