LadyPact
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The previous replies were interesting. Thanks for the thoughts, and the laugh as well. I do have doubts about the intent of the OP. However, since others have been good enough to contribute, I'll answer as well. quote:
ORIGINAL: zero69u2 What would be your top reasons for wanting a slave/submissive in your life ? Because having this life brings joy to Me. Granted, it brings struggles as well. The positive so outweighs the negative. My boy is a service sub over and above all. It's one of his inner drives that I be happy with him. My sub is also a masochist, who is an excellent match for My sadism. My boy craves structure, which is a good fit for My love affair with protocol and ritual. quote:
Is there anything that you find unattractive about owning a slave/submissive (bad habits that you dont want) ? All people can have bad habits, depending on perspective. For example, My boy is a morning person. On the other hand, I am not. When he's here and not deployed somewhere, it's not unusual for Me to wake up with him banging around the kitchen, listening to "The Hamster Dance" (we now have a rule about that song) when I am still attempting to infuse enough caffeine for Me to open My eyes. Potentially, it sounds bad. The truth of it is, he's usually in that kitchen preparing My breakfast. If you're asking whether or not I would change him, the answer would be no. For all that he is, there is no one that I want more on the other side of the kneel. quote:
Can a dominant fall in love with another dominant (Domme) is this common or insane to pursue a D/D relationship ? Is this dangerous and not recommended ? Absolutely they can. Any person can fall in love with any other person, regardless of role. We are, in fact, people first. How common it is, I really couldn't say, because I have no clue of how the percentages work out when comparing the total number of kinky folks in regards to how many D/D relationships are out there. The same can be said of s/s couples. My husband came to his Dominant side later in life through My introduction. I wouldn't want him to be submissive to Me because that is not his personality, nor the person I fell in love with. I can't help but ask, why would this be "dangerous?" Would you hold the theory that two grown people don't know how to manage themselves in relation to each other if they were both D types? I'm sure there could be issues if certain needs/wants couldn't be obtained by other methods. Casual play, poly, and other countless options abound.
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