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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:33:50 AM   
kallisto


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ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

A sub is not used to making decisions,



What?


I thought I read that wrong.   Nice to see I'm not the only one that went "what?".  

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:38:06 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		add me to that list, Kallisto...lol



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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:42:35 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I'm on that list too... I was trying to be nice this morning.  Who wants a submissive with rocks in their head?  Oh.. so lost without someone to guide me, tell me what to do and beat me?  Limitless and clueless all for your pleasure.  (shakes head)  Where's the pleasure in that?

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:45:59 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		And back in my day it was 'what Sir'... go figure... time's are a changen on our old ass!

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 8:01:20 AM   
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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 8:05:38 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

A sub is not used to making decisions, but there is one that she has to make;...........


Give me a break!!

That is ONE of the most moronic statements I have read so far today!

Do you think that all submissive/slaves are just hanging out in some weird pod, in limbo, waiting for their perfect master/mistress?!?!?

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 8:05:54 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 8:58:07 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		The thread is being hijacked thanks to someones idiotic thought that subs are not used to making decisions, so I will do a fast reply.
OP. WTF!?
What is this?  I have read a few of your posts, one saying you are above sub frenzy while others clearly point to that being very evident.  Now you have two men who you cannot choose between because YOU allowed the first to give excuses to which you believe.  Can we say easily duped?  Come on!  And you use the familar excuse.. it's not my fault.  YES my dear it is your fault.  Take some responsibility and time to find what you need.  Or what the heck. fuck them both, 2 men down the street, and a passing camel salesman who finds you stranded in a foreign country.  But for pete's sake, you are not a child who cannot be held accountable for your decisions.
Kyst

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 9:04:41 AM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		When she is caged for at least a month in Turkey, the guy that thinks she lies and is over weight won't matter much will he?  Choice's... god how confusing... this one or that one... which shall I pick?  Victim of the month club's went out in the seventies...

One good thing... this does test my memory skills... so thank you op...

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 9:18:54 AM   
subangi


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Status: offline 		First off,  when there is not truth and honesty in a relationship,  then there is no healthy progression.  Disappearing? Excuses?  Not someone I can trust and want to grow with in the lifestyle.  
I wonder if taking a step back from this....doing some soul searching...finding YOURSELF first, before you search for someone else might help in the long run. 
How many hamburgers do you have to eat to satiate your desire for a steak?  Think about it...grasshopper.  

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 9:41:43 AM   
YoursMistress


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Status: offline 		I think that I understand where you are coming from, and first, you have to recognize that it is completely up to you who and when you offer yourself.  You may always withdraw your consent (unless you are physically in a cage in Turkey, for example). You needn't be bullied into submitting to anyone.  It wonderful to have more than one person so interested in you, but you can't string more than one along, no matter how unsure you are about which you prefer and no matter how fearful you are about not having someone in your life.

Now second, in my opinion, choosing the guy from Turkey is probably a bad idea (no offense to Turks everywhere).  Maybe you think that having him further away gives you more control, makes him more mysterious and seductive, who knows for sure.  It just seems to add unnecessary complication to a decision that is already seemingly very difficult.  Good luck.  I wish you the strength to make a decision here and hope that you'll be happy with the path you choose. 

yours


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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 10:30:47 AM   
Aynne88


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quote:

ORIGINAL: kallisto

quote:

ORIGINAL: sweetnurseBBW

quote:

ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

A sub is not used to making decisions,



What?


I thought I read that wrong.   Nice to see I'm not the only one that went "what?".  


Actually I went what the fuck? Then I laughed. Typical.

To the OP, I think your profile was done by Sybil, it has so many conflicting statements on it. You are the only one responsible for this mess. Make the necessary adult changes.

< Message edited by Aynne88 -- 3/8/2009 10:32:05 AM >

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 1:45:20 PM   
WyldHrt


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Actually I went what the fuck? Then I laughed

That was pretty much my reaction, too.
I think VND stepped in it rather badly on that one, lol.

To the OP: Really, put on your big girl panties and take some responsibility for your life. Sitting in a corner wailing how this mess isn't your fault, which it really is, isn't going to change anything.


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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 1:57:20 PM   
RealSub58


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Status: offline 		Yes....and you screwed yourself. Stop lingering, whining for answers to your pathetic questions... when all you need to do is take a gram of responsiblity and think like an adult.  These jackassess are only playing upon your vulnerability and you let them.  See? you screwed yourself !! 

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 2:25:14 PM   
DeviantlyD


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Yes it IS your fault. You allowed this whole mess into your life.

In reading the above I had a vision of someone barely legal to be on these boards. When I looked at your profile and saw that you are 37, it just makes me want to slap you upside the head.

Grow up and take responsibility for your life and your shit!


Well, I can't add anything to that!

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 5:12:04 PM   
dreamerdreaming


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Status: offline 		“If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.”
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Mariel, you sure are a drama queen. How's that workin' for ya?
 
I've already given you my best advice on your other threads. Here is a part of it, pasted from my reply to your "ignoring" thread:
 
You choose the kind of submission, and the kind of relationship that you want. Don't settle for less. You only have one life, and you have the right to insist on the kind of relationship that will be fullfilling for you.

Suggest you spend some time getting to know yourself better, and what you really need and want out of a relationship, before you waste any more of yours or others' time. Get a clear idea of what will satisfy and fullfill you, and insist on that, rather than just seeing if you fit other people's needs.
 
So there you go. Take my advice, or leave it. If you choose to just take whatever comes along, YOU have still made a choice.


That's it. I'm out.



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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:39:00 PM   
littlecubsub


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Status: offline 		How are you screwed?  One guy is in Turkey and unless he's planning on a visit any time soon I really wouldn't worry about it.  Sounds like the other one will probably disappear again when his attention wans or he runs out of excuses. Chances are, you don't need to worry about them meeting.

Seriously, you may have feelings for someone who couldn't be bothered to contact you for however long.. Sounds to me though that what you really need to be thinking about is building your self esteem.  You have to take responsibility for your life, chose how you will conduct yourself  and decide what is acceptable treatment from others. 


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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:44:57 PM   
E2Sweet


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ORIGINAL: VeryNastyDom

A sub is not used to making decisions, but there...


This sweeping generalization is incorrect.

Edited to add:  ... and a bit insulting to say the least...


< Message edited by E2Sweet -- 3/8/2009 7:48:33 PM >

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 7:45:27 PM   
lusciouslips19


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

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ORIGINAL: MARIEL

Yes, the other Master, I was talking about, that I did not heard from over so long time, is talking to me now,like nothings happened! He comes up with excuses like hes studying for important examen! problem is also,I still got some feelings for him, but problem is the turkish man actually become better,and well its too early to say,but he sounds sweet,also in phone. and at least we talk good now. I dont know.. the other one thinks he owns me.. the second one thinks im under his concideration.. its a MESS! im squeezed beteween the two,and have no idea where to go next. and it is not my fault. i was so convinced it was over,because i never heard from him the other again.
and im just not prepared for this. i got feelings for both. what am I going to DO! wait and see how it goes? or what?


Yes it IS your fault. You allowed this whole mess into your life.

In reading the above I had a vision of someone barely legal to be on these boards. When I looked at your profile and saw that you are 37, it just makes me want to slap you upside the head.

Grow up and take responsibility for your life and your shit!


I thought the same thing. I was expecting to see 20 as the age.

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RE: Im screwed - 3/8/2009 10:45:50 PM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		I can't wait to see how this unfolds might be better than a soap opera,  especially if this second guy is actually in Turkey..  as he is likely looking for political assylum and Sweden and Denmark are favorite places for them to escape to .. so they play the dom looking for some sucker(slave) to help them with costs and a place to live(hideout),  of course this will only be a temporary thing till he can get refugee status  so as to move somewhere more preferable like the US

and the first one thought he found someone a lot more to his liking , since it did not work out ..he is back for the left over scraps because it will provide some entertainment till someone better comes along again

It should be interesting to see which path gets chosen




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