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LaMalinche -> Favorite part (1/22/2006 4:47:12 PM)

So, what is everyone's favorite part of being a switch?

LaMalinche

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I am so afraid of people's words.
They describe so distinctly everything:
And this they call dog and that they call house,
here the start and there the end.

I worry about their mockery with words,
they know everything, what will be, what was;
no mountain is still miraculous;
and their house and yard lead right up to God.

I want to warn and object: Let the things be!
I enjoy listening to the sound they are making.
But you always touch: and they hush and stand still.
That's how you kill.



BitaTruble -> RE: Favorite part (1/22/2006 4:58:02 PM)

Being allowed to serve Himself as he truly desires I should AND being allowed to quell all those evil, sadistic, twisted, demented feelings that lay within my soul.

Life is good. :)

Celeste



Slipstreme -> RE: Favorite part (1/22/2006 6:39:23 PM)

Simple: I don't have to live my life based on a set of rules that tell me who I have to be and when. I get to choose when, where and how long. How it happens I have no control over.

I'm not greedy, as they would say. I just don't like picking sides: I prefer to walk my own line.

Yes, I am mostly dominant, but also a budding masochist and that is not something I want to give up. The sadist hasn't gotten much action, alas, but time patience, experience and know how will bring that side of me out. I have yet to figure out how I switch to submissive, just that it happens randomly and lasts for a couple hours at best.

So I guess you can say, I like it all.



MistressAlexaS -> RE: Favorite part (1/22/2006 8:36:02 PM)

Because I can do what I want when I want. I am almost always Dominant but for those few subby times I can let loose and play. I'm lucky to be in a relationship with a switch because we get all our needs met and since he's pretty much gone sub there's never any argument about who gets to play what.

~Alexa



Evanesce -> RE: Favorite part (1/22/2006 8:36:59 PM)

quote:

So, what is everyone's favorite part of being a switch?


I get to live under the rules and structure I need and crave; and when I'm good, I get to make big men scream and cry. It doesn't get much better than that. :)



MistressAlexaS -> RE: Favorite part (1/23/2006 5:14:55 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Evanesce

quote:

So, what is everyone's favorite part of being a switch?


I get to live under the rules and structure I need and crave; and when I'm good, I get to make big men scream and cry. It doesn't get much better than that. :)


Haha well said!

~Alexa



GeorgeOTJ -> RE: Favorite part (1/23/2006 7:31:09 AM)

I've always believed that a good part of one's happiness as the years go by is the ability to reinvent oneself. Being a switch allows me to do that. As influences and circumstances in my life change, I'm able to enjoy whichever side of BDSM suits those conditions.

Being a switch allows a complex person to grow along with their complexity. Switching with another switch allows that same complex person to be appreciated and understood in a world of people who tend to be on one side of the fence or the other.

Greedy? Sure, to some extent. Likely more giving as well as you know both sides of the story.



fergus -> RE: Favorite part (1/23/2006 9:14:37 PM)

I don't think I could've said it better than George.

I guess I like the balance it brings to me.

fergus



RubberWitch -> RE: Favorite part (1/24/2006 6:06:50 AM)

Feeling like my own bodyguard when I'm being sub. It lets me relax more when I submit.

A little trill voice in the back of my head calling "she'll make you pay for that later" when I'm topping. It adds to the frisson of wrongness




LadyCompassion -> RE: Favorite part (1/25/2006 3:20:51 PM)

For me, my favorite part of being a switch is the fact that I can experience both sides of the spectrum. If I am in a mood where I am feeling submissive (rare) I can express that, and if I am in a mood where I feel dominant ( most times), I can express that. I love that I can experience a multitude of things through being a switch.



shiminess -> RE: Favorite part (1/28/2006 10:51:40 AM)

I absolutely love the freedom to do what I want when I want with who I want and where I want. I like having choices. I've always hated being forced into one choice and one choice only. Having options is so much more fun. If I'm not enjoying myself, then what's the point?



DaddyTime -> RE: Favorite part (1/28/2006 12:01:13 PM)

That's easy indeed!: having ALL of the control. Hahahaa Being able to take it from both sides and understanding each in extreme depth. A trait that someone whom does not switch rarely has.



CaptivusCruor -> RE: Favorite part (1/28/2006 10:43:51 PM)

fav part? wrestling matches... i'm stronger so i get to choose when to let them win! sometime the mood just takes me and i'm content to lie at their feet and have their wish be my comand...at others, pin them down and take them hard and fast!



SirandMistress -> RE: Favorite part (3/5/2006 7:23:50 AM)

I am not really sure which part of being a switch i enjoy most. I crave orders and punishment but i crave to GIVE these too. But i know that i am good at both. I have lived the lifestyle for 8 years now and feel i am at a point in my life that i love. I have a Sir to serve and worship and two wonderful subs to take care of Me!!
Celest



SimplyV -> RE: Favorite part (3/5/2006 1:43:19 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaMalinche

So, what is everyone's favorite part of being a switch?



Options.. baby.. Options!

I hate.. hate being pigeon-holed. Tell me I can't do something.. I WANNA.. and you can bet I'm gunna.

The more I explore Domme, the more I discover about myself and accept myself for being the complex person that I am. Any other title just wouldn't fit.

quote:

ORIGINAL: GeorgeOTJ
I've always believed that a good part of one's happiness as the years go by is the ability to reinvent oneself. Being a switch allows me to do that. As influences and circumstances in my life change, I'm able to enjoy whichever side of BDSM suits those conditions.

Being a switch allows a complex person to grow along with their complexity. Switching with another switch allows that same complex person to be appreciated and understood in a world of people who tend to be on one side of the fence or the other.

Greedy? Sure, to some extent. Likely more giving as well as you know both sides of the story.


I am always changing and evolving. I like the freedom that Switching offers.

[:D]


V



ShadeDiva -> RE: Favorite part (3/5/2006 7:05:37 PM)

My favorite part would have to be the awareness that I see both sides of myself and am not in denial of either to myself any longer.

I have a long way to go before I gain that balance I seek with my duality, but really, I've come so far already!



artglfr -> RE: Favorite part (3/8/2006 7:53:32 PM)

It is fulfilling. I am so naturally dominant and getting the occaisional sub space just tweaks all my buttons in so many good ways.



fastlane -> RE: Favorite part (3/9/2006 5:08:53 PM)

My favorite part of a switch, is I always get them at the bottom..and try to raise them to a new level of appreciating the bottom.

Hey, what you all do on your own time? Fastlane, shrugs shoulders and walks away!



theRose4U -> RE: Favorite part (3/9/2006 9:20:56 PM)

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I get to make big men scream and cry. It doesn't get much better than that. :)


He he that's what I do for my job...being kinky is my bonus.



Laura -> RE: Favorite part (3/13/2006 2:25:25 PM)

Whether I'm subbing or Domming I am doing it my way. I may try it 'your' way but if that works out I will just call your way my way and continue on doing everything my way. :)



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