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inyouagain -> RE: Ironically - Actually here is what I meant! (3/9/2004 12:33:05 PM)
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...Hesitation usually leads to losing out on the person you may really be interested is what I am referring to. People meet all the time in these chat rooms, from Bondage.com, to here, to Alt.com and Aff.com and other chat programs, but they wait long periods of time to speak up and say they want to meet someone and in the end they lose out.
This really does not make sense, especially with a parallel thread in this same forum. You make yourself appear to be 'sympathetically seducing' CT subs who may feel sorry for your plight as the lonely CT Dom who has 'ALSO' sufferd the losses of missing so many who were hesitant and waited too long?
Your comments make it appear you are well aware of chat rooms, and of the players, fakes, wannabes, 'unsupervised or poorly supervised' government/corporate employees... wiling away the hours... playing on the clock, then home to their vanilla families, etc.
If you are fully aware of all these types lurking in online forums (chat rooms, etc), it woud seem hesitancy would be regarded as a virtue in your eyes, and you would hold a greater appreciation for more thorough screening, or taking the time necessary to ensure you are not being played, duped, etc, etc, etc
It seems that YOU are feeling URGENCY, moreso than those that you have not met (because they are hesitant in opening themselves up to you) are showing hesitancy.
Is this (and parallel threads) merely an attempt to line up prospects here on the message board that can 'relate' to your 'loss' and 'sense of urgency to prevent same'... and realize what a find you indeed are for them?
Are you actually fishing here for those who parallel your own interests, have experienced 'losses due to hesitation', and share your sense of urgent timing... on a message board... where the written text does not scroll away (ie. the hook is in the water longer here)?
Sorry, but that's the impression I'm getting from your message board activity. If you review ALL your posts, seperate them into 'looking for CT subs' and 'other board commentary', I think you will see where your impetus lies... It's becoming very easy to see to me, and likely most others here.
It's not likely any fish will jump out of the water here into your boat... no matter how you try to approach them... but it's becoming obvious that's your interest. Many have suggested you look for local contacts, and others have pointed out you don't even have a personal profile (or ad) here? That further makes no sense... an Urgent Shy Dom may not be what subs find appealing, so other action/plans are in order on your part.
SO, you can't find a CT sub here... ok, now what?
More ploys, twists, turns, and threads about your inabilities or untimely difficulties?
Do you want a sub who feels sorry for your lack of diversity?
A couple more threads may get you an imaginary (or goody, a real) sympathetic sub?
It would appear at this point, that your approach shot needs work.
Sorry but I call it like I see it, and that appears to be what your 3 seperate 'Seeking CT sub' threads (immediately if not sooner), and your 7 total posts have accomplished. I see no further interest here than seeking your CT sub, by hook, crook, or 'urgency'.
Perhaps you could start a new thread (4th thread, 8th post), saying you only have 'xx' number of days to live, and it's urgent you be rescued by a CT sub... yunno, let them have an ultimatim... then if you don't hook a CT sub here, then move on to happier fishing waters, or expand your fishing hole by including neighboring states?
This 'floater' is still being well beaten (with your boat paddle?), despite having long been a dead fish!
Note: We do have a 'sub' on this board who obviously has numerous personalities, acts male, but may in fact be female, but likes themself very very much... perhaps we can hook you up? We could tell this sub to 'be from CT', and I'm sure they will relate same to you... without 'hesitation'!
PS: Don't forget we bragged to other trolls about how you 'saw the light', and are now a contributing board member... not a troll. Were we in fact wrong? Should we have hesitated longer in rendering our decision about your true nature and purpose here?
Inyouagain
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