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My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 12:31:31 PM

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A friend mentioned CollarMe in passing one day, so I decided to check it out...

Within a day or two, I found a Dom that would be my Mentor. I'll call him S. He was a blast from my past; we knew each other when he was in college and I was in high school. He was in a vanilla mentor role then, now he would be my D/s mentor.

After some light play, we decided to get a room this past Friday. Neither of us has a living arrangement that allowed for private play at home, so this was the first time we would be able to truly explore our relationship.

Sex has always been a problem for me. I have never been in a relationship where the physical side of it was phenomenal; I always relied on the emotionally and mentally fulfilling aspects of it. Orgasms were rare when with a partner. I could give them to myself, but they were nothing special.

S took deep pride in his abilities. He was hell bent on finding out what it was that got me off. Despite being sexually active for over a decade, I couldn't answer that question myself. So he explored...

He had me tied down and hooded, and was going after my g-spot with a vibrator like a madman. It felt more amazing and wonderful than anything I had ever experienced. After just a few minutes, I had one of the best, most intense, most earth-shattering orgasms I had ever felt. And I squirted.

Afterwards, I couldn't move. Everything felt heavy, I just wanted to curl up and drift. He wiped me off, untied me, took the hood off, and just held me. Just stroking my hair, his arms and legs wrapped around me, he brought me back to him. Over the course of 12 hours, this was repeated two more times.

Now I have an idea of what can get me off. Part of the problem with my marriage is that my husband and I are frustrated in the bedroom. While he doesn't want to be a part of my D/s play, he is fully understanding about my need to explore and experience. And now I have something to bring home to him, something he can do to alleviate his frustrations about not being able to give me pleasure.

I couldn't be happier with the way this D/s relationship has turned out. And now I want to know, and experience, more.

RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 1:56:21 PM

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Since when is an orgasm without squirting not a "real" orgasm??? I think you need some anatomy lessons.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 2:42:27 PM

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I don't think the OP meant that if you don't squirt it's not real. Just that it happened... and it was stronger and better then any of her other orgasms. That's what I took from it anyway.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 3:22:54 PM

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The suject was titled my first "real" orgasm.Howelse would we interpret that?
The expectation of squirting can make those who dont feel inadequate. there are even men out there seeking squirters.

I say orgasm however you orgasm and be joyful about that.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 4:49:19 PM

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While orgasms involving ejaculation and extreme intensity are wonderful, I wouldn't diminish the other orgasms I have had by calling them not 'real'. Now, if you're describing a particular connection and ensuing physical response, I understand that moreso.
Either way, I am glad for you having had the pleasurable experience. :>
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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 7:15:57 PM

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quote:

The suject was titled my first "real" orgasm.Howelse would we interpret that?
The expectation of squirting can make those who dont feel inadequate. there are even men out there seeking squirters.

I say orgasm however you orgasm and be joyful about that.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 3/15/2009 6:24:57 PM >

Yeah I know but i am attributing that to a gspot orgasm not the squirting.... Call me naive! LOL

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/15/2009 7:50:33 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: greeneyedreamer

quote:

The suject was titled my first "real" orgasm.Howelse would we interpret that?
The expectation of squirting can make those who dont feel inadequate. there are even men out there seeking squirters.

I say orgasm however you orgasm and be joyful about that.

< Message edited by lusciouslips19 -- 3/15/2009 6:24:57 PM >

Yeah I know but i am attributing that to a gspot orgasm not the squirting.... Call me naive! LOL

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 7:25:03 AM

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i agree with Lushy, squirting orgasms are not the only "real" orgasms. over the course of 40 years being active sexually, i have taught myself both squirting and non-squirting orgasms. i wouldn't call my non- squirting orgasms unreal.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 7:33:54 AM

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I have had a few squirting orgasms. They were no different than non squirting except wetter

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 8:07:07 AM

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Well, MY orgasms are all of the squirting kind.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 8:10:41 AM

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i bet you stand up when you pee, too.
warm smiles LaM.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 8:22:30 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

I have had a few squirting orgasms. They were no different than non squirting except wetter

when i squirt, the orgasm seems more intense. i do enjoy the Rorshach blots-like spillage. Sir and i have a lot of fun putting names to the blots.
my very first one i will always remember. it looked like the tourist pics for Cabo San Lucas with a bird in flight above the rock formation.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 5:02:21 PM

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Makes me think of my first enjoyable sexual experience.
The first three (okay, be honest, two) were quick and messy and with girls I didn't really know but thought were hot, and/or easy.
Then I had an amazing night with a girl who was a friend.
I fell off the monkey bars and landed on my head.
She gave me a blowjob and we did it, I was drunk enough not to get nervous, but sober enough so that I could feel everything.
We'd skipped the foreplay, usually I'm all about making her cum as many times as I can so she appreciates me.
But she was there for me, and for the first time I felt there was more to sex than just impressing her.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 5:08:45 PM

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Well We should HOPE SO! LOL :: shakes her head laughing::

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/16/2009 5:31:58 PM

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quote:

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Since when is an orgasm without squirting not a "real" orgasm??? I think you need some anatomy lessons.

Hey!!! Momma's happy...I'm good with that!

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/17/2009 7:15:44 AM

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when i read the thread i thought she referred to "real" orgasm as one that she experienced at the hand or toy or whatever of another....she said she could have them on her own.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/17/2009 8:37:19 AM

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Wow, I posted in the "positive experiences" just to mention the fact that something positive and wonderful came out of CM, just like the posting guidelines said. Didn't think I would be accused of needing "some anatomy lessons." I thought that in a forum like this, the whole point was to share good things, not to string someone up for a semantic issue.

Greeneyedreamer is right. I called it a "real" orgasm because it was the first pleasurable one that came from a partner. I called it a "real" orgasm because it was the first one I experienced after finding out this side of me.

I don't need an anatomy lesson, I'm not insinuating that squirting orgasms are the only "real" ones, and I would never criticize someone's experiences as harshly as some of you did. Thank you for taking what I thought would be another aspect of the joy of CM and turning it on its head.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/17/2009 2:38:05 PM

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Words like "real" insinuate that all those that dont experience "real" are not real. It comes off exclusionary. Sorry you found me so harsh. We all have things that irk us and we are all allowed to post. I am glad you had a good experience. Perhaps next time you should clarify. Having an orgasm with a partner is not what the biological response is about hence the anatomy reference. That is an emotional manifestation and perhaps psychological . I dont read the forum heading when the roll is going by. I just give my opinion and impressions.

Be prepared for any post to be turned on its head.Thats the nature of threads.

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/17/2009 5:09:13 PM

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Seriously?????!!!!!! i'd settle for any kind of orgasm...Squirting....Gushing...Flowing....Running.....Hell i really couldn't care less what form it would take.

Kali

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RE: My first *real* orgasm... - 3/17/2009 5:10:54 PM

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OP~ Good for you that you've had such a wonderful experience. I'm with greeneyedreamer's interpretation of your post. There are different orgasms and the fact that you've had a new one is very cool!

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