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Marc2b -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/1/2009 7:42:53 PM)
quote: I guess i am on journey To find where I belong in the world And you always will be. That is the beauty of it. People use labels like gay, straight, dom, sub (liberal, conservative, black, white, etc, etc, etc.) because we need labels in order to communicate. It is a limitation of language. But labels need not define you in anything but the most general sense. On my profile I label myself a dom because that’s where ninety percent of my fantasies/feelings/sexual urges/or whatever you want to call them, take me. The truth however is that I do have the occasional submissive fantasy/mood/whatever come over me. I simply accept it with without shame or self judgment. Whilst you shouldn’t be afraid to experiment with other (consensual, of course) people (and approached with all due prudence as well) I’m with Domiguy – why put away the porn? I have a good sex life but like most men (and women too from what I’ve seen) enjoy a good whack off session. The inside of your head is the one place where there truly are no limits so why not enjoy? I’m also with SlyvereAplenan (Damn, woman, but that’s hard to spell – in my next whack off fantasy, you’re getting twenty lashes!) in doing research. I’ve no books to recommend but I do recommend reading anything and everything you can about what interests you. Then simply go where you feel most comfortable, where you feel like the most you. That’s the beauty of being human: ultimately we each get to define – and redefine - who we are. Good luck on your journey.

Vanityfull -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/1/2009 8:06:26 PM)
maybe your transgendered?? [;)] seriously dont worry about lables, whatch whatever porn you want and call yourself w/e you want. bicurious is a good safe word to identify yourself if your questioning your sexuality, you dont need to pick a lable unless you want to, my main critisim of this site is its 4 slot choice of sexuality, i hate lables personaly, i have identified as straight and gay but found both to restraining in the long run, the process of figuring out your sexuality is lifelong what you call yourself today isnt writen in stone, you can change what you call your sexuality at anytime if it feels uncomfortable, w/e you are figuring out go as slow or as quickly as you need to. and everyone loves shemale porn regardless of sexuality, gender or orienation.[;)]

chiaThePet -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/1/2009 8:34:36 PM)
Ever since I watched that episode where Ruth quizzes Lassie, "What is it girl? "What?" "Timmy's stuck in a hole?" Then there was Rin Tin Tin, which set off my German Military Soldier fetish. But don't you worry the cockles of your sweet little heart none. There'll still be plenty o' Straight Dominants pervin your preciousness. chia* (the pet)

aravain -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/1/2009 10:45:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Vanityfull and everyone loves shemale porn regardless of sexuality, gender or orienation.[;)] Um... not me? [8D]

BKSir -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/1/2009 11:00:15 PM)
A good term I've found for those curious and experimenting, "Sexual". States it pretty clear and plain. Labels are silly anyway I think, but, whatever.

Vanityfull -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/2/2009 1:02:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: aravain quote: ORIGINAL: Vanityfull and everyone loves shemale porn regardless of sexuality, gender or orienation.[;)] Um... not me? [8D] i think your just in a phase then,[;)]

AngelGeena -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/2/2009 1:07:43 AM)
Just be who you are and don't worry about what you call it

aravain -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/2/2009 2:38:29 PM)
Either that or I'm being contrary for contrary's sake :P

Vanityfull -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/2/2009 9:43:48 PM)
everyone likes a rebel XD

fetishisttista -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/29/2009 4:51:11 PM)
I have found that I am defintely kinky, thats all I know, hehe. But I do apparantly lead towards bi-sexuality.

LadyPact -> RE: Personal sexuality (4/30/2009 6:14:33 AM)
Good thread, but I am amazed that you weren't crucified for the use of the term "shemales." There have been posters who have used the term in the past and were immediately raked over the coals for it. Consider yourself lucky. You avoided that trap. Now, avoid another one. That being, don't let other people define you. I wouldn't especially suggest letting the porn define you, either, but that's something else. For now, it seems that is where you are getting the material that is stemming your association with these desires. You don't really honestly know if it's something you're going to enjoy in the real world until you try it. If it were Me, I'd shut it off just to go out and try the real thing. (Safely, of course.) FangsNFeet, you must be the only person on this site that watches as much Comedy Central as I do.

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