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Sir Daddy -> Brats (3/15/2009 6:56:44 PM)

I know when my princess gets bratty, that's just her way of asking for a spankin'. 
Do any of you use this technique to let your Dom/me know you need some special attention?



rouletteslave -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 7:14:37 PM)

Sure. Actually asking for a beating kills the mood. I know one submissive woman who, when she feels the man isn't being the man, will resort to slapping him to get him out of it.



Roselaure -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 7:16:45 PM)

If I want a spanking I ask him politely for it and he is usually tickled to give it to me.  Bratty behavior in our dynamic would not be rewarded in any way that I would like. My Dom is not fond of brats and I'm not one, so it works out well for us.[;)]



catize -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 7:25:55 PM)

 
Whether it is pain play or a hug, all I have to do is ask. 



DomM&SubK -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 8:17:26 PM)

[:D]I have been known to be a "Brat" as master calls it. BUt that is not doing as i am told being mouthy is one of the things master loves about my becuse i can carry my own. And OMG if i ever hit Sir i do not know what would happen but i know i will be in a corner and he will walk out. He has and never will hit a woman we besides my BUTT



SirMIkeSD -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 9:42:13 PM)

Being a brat to get your is not acceptable in my household. My boy is allowed to ask to have his needs meet and knows that trying to manipulate me to it is not acceptable or going to work.

Mike



YourhandMyAss -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 9:51:08 PM)

I am expected to use my words , and tell him what is going on, not to brat or act out.

I also know I can just say Daddy I want......... and it's important, and he'll try to fill that. there's no need to be bratty or act out.

When i am being bratty or cranky it's from an emotionally over wealmed point, not a I want play and this is how I am asking for it point.
quote:

ORIGINAL: Sir Daddy

I know when my princess gets bratty, that's just her way of asking for a spankin'. 
Do any of you use this technique to let your Dom/me know you need some special attention?



kuriouswitch -> RE: Brats (3/15/2009 9:54:32 PM)

I try not to, sometimes it ends up with me pushing the limits too far and ends up with me in "bad" trouble, and it's never anything small either lol. Usually it happens when i'm sick or overtired and don't want to lay down and then i get contrary (and clingy at the same time lol)  and it starts to go downhill from there especially when i ignore his warning tone.

If i need a spanking usually i just tell him or hint at it. If i don't want to tell him out right because that's going to spoil the "surprise" of it i'll write my need in my journal and wait until he reads it. then it's up to him to decide how and when i get the spanking. We've also discussed other ways for me to tell my need by just coming in and handing him the paddle or flogger or nothing (if i need an open handed spanking) and laying across his lap in the position and waiting until he is ready.



sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 4:10:35 AM)

i could be a brat with Daddy but i don't do it.

i simply tell Him i need attention.



OrionTheWolf -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 5:44:34 AM)

Had a slave once that did that, and she was bound and confined for a few hours to think about trying such manipulation on me again. Had another that did it, and she got welts out on her ass, legs and backs so that she would think twice about trying such manipulation again. My slaves beg for what they want, and I will determine if they get it or not.


quote:

ORIGINAL: Sir Daddy

I know when my princess gets bratty, that's just her way of asking for a spankin'. 
Do any of you use this technique to let your Dom/me know you need some special attention?



feydeplume -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 8:31:09 AM)

 I NEED special attention when something really serious happens like a letter from the IRS or a possible mass in a mammogram or the stove is on fire. If i WANT special attention, that is something totally different. Do i just need to be near him? Do I want to interact and have cuddles? Do i want sex of some sort? What kind of want am I having, see? Depending on the want, I can go sit near him, ask if he has time to talk with me or do me or whatever.

He likes to try to make me brat sometimes because he thinks it funny to watch me go blank and try to figure out HOW to be bratty.



InTonguesslave -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 9:11:40 AM)

each to their own.  if bratty is rewarded by giving her what she wants then clearly its something you enjoy and she gets what shes after and so everyone is happy.  nothing wrong with that.

being playful and provocative is different though to acting up and behaving badly. 

i can be playful and provocative, not because im after being spanked but just because thats how i am and it makes Sir laugh but it would be his choice what happens, if anything happens, i dont get to choose or manipulate him.  if i act up and behave badly then i get way more attention than i can comfortably take - and ive learnt not to go there.

what you guys are enjoying is funishment [:D] which is just one way to get youre jollies met.



OrionTheWolf -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 9:14:27 AM)

This is an excellent point, and one worth more discussion. There is a large difference between acting out to get attention, and being playful.


quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

being playful and provoking is different though to acting up and behaving badly. 




Mercnbeth -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 10:27:08 AM)

quote:

Do any of you use this technique to let your Dom/me know you need some special attention?


no.  Master isn't into "bratty", so this slave strives not to be.
 
if, on the other hand, He found it amusing or pleasing, then this slave would learn and utilize the technique.



DavanKael -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 12:40:03 PM)

I'd have serious reservations about rewarding truly bratty behavior. 
  Davan



whiteslavebitch -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 3:17:32 PM)

Um........no. I hate negative attention, I want spankings to be fun, not for punishment. Besides I hate bratty behaviors in general.



OsideGirl -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 4:06:23 PM)

If you find the dynamic entertaining, go for it.

However, if I acted bratty I'd get punished, not spanked.



DesFIP -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 4:06:52 PM)

Ah yes, funishment. Behaving in an acceptably bratty way to get a play punishment.

It works for some, not for others. For me, I only brat when I'm feeling confident. If I feel less than loved, or upset at all, then no matter how much I might need a spanking, I couldn't brat to get it.



Sir Daddy -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 4:57:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: InTonguesslave

being playful and provocative is different though to acting up and behaving badly. 



Thank you.  I naturally default to the less offensive interpretation of what I read.  Several who commented in this thread obviously default to the negative - choosing to interpret "bratty" in the worst possible way.  By my context, I thought I was pretty clearly referring to the type of playfully provocative behavior that would result in FUNishment.

If nothing else, I've learned a bit about some of my fellow posters.

Happy spanking, everyone.  =)



greeneyedreamer -> RE: Brats (3/16/2009 5:04:32 PM)

I would tease not be bratty. Although, what is teasing to one, is bratty to another. So I suppose it's individual preference. Daddy wouldn't spank me anyway for teasing,it's a reward not a punishment. We have fun no matter what and laugh a lot. I make him laugh and he loves that.



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