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sailorfrank -> Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 7:55:23 AM)
This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons? So hoping to get some answers here as I imagine there must be quite a few with everyone here. And have a nice week everyone!

sirsholly -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 7:57:05 AM)
quote: Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons? i did not "get into it" at all. I just followed my heart [:)]

peppermint -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 8:18:37 AM)
It answered the questions I'd been asking myself.

Mercnbeth -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 8:44:34 AM)
quote: ...Why did you become a Sub/Slave?... in the context of an intimate relationship? because pretending to be dominant made this slave physically/mentally ill...so she gave in to what came naturally, instead of trying to fight it and attempt to pretend to enjoy a vanilla relationship.

SteelofUtah -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 8:57:44 AM)
Oh Quit lying beth you know you did it so you could say "This slave IS the stripper Pole" A Line like that require many well placed decisions........ And Shrink Wrap. Missing you Guys!!! Steel Edited because Fat Fingers aned Keyboards make for interesting Typos

agirl -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 8:59:37 AM)
Because someone came along who made it an attractive and beneficial prospect on many fronts. agirl

ExKat -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:02:58 AM)
Because that's how I'm wired, and living in a time when women are not expected to be subservient naturally made it so I had to go out and find a kinky relationship. Oh, and I like the spanking!

Mercnbeth -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:15:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah Oh Quit lying beth you know you did it so you could say "This slave IS the stripper Pole" A Line like that require many well placed decisions........ And Shrink Wrap. Missing you Guys!!! Steel Edited because Fat Fingers aned Keyboards make for interesting Typos HAR!!!!! indeed, moments like that are like icing on cake!!! (actually BEING a stripper pole is a fabulous experience...this slave highly recommends it!) missing You & Your andi as well!!!

CalifChick -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:19:40 AM)
I didn't "become" it any more than people become heterosexual, or become homosexual, or become any other orientation. It just "is". Cali

VelvetCruelty -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:22:31 AM)
oops, wrong post :)

crazyredhead1957 -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:27:32 AM)
i didn't become one, i've always been an "s" type in my heart. It's just that in the vanilla world i always got flack because of it, but now i can be myself.

Missokyst -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:27:40 AM)
Life brought me here. quote: ORIGINAL: sailorfrank Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons?

Caillin -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:31:27 AM)
It was something I had explored a little in many otherwise vanilla relationships. And then my Dom came along and offered me a whole new level. For me, it is a part of me, but not the whole of me. I'm still finding the balance that works for me.

akisha -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 9:47:04 AM)
Like many others have said. I did not choose to be a sumbissive. I chose to accept that side of me instead of being miserable fighting it. I am what I am because I have no choice but to follow the path my heart and mind demand.

WestBaySlave -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:02:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sailorfrank This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons? A slow, gradual acceptance of myself culminating with the realization that not only do I need to be dominated in a relationship, I can't get enough of it! [:)]

subtlebutterfly -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:04:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sailorfrank This has been brought up before I am sure. But will still, ask it again. Why did you become a Sub/Slave? Was there any single reason you got into it, or were there several reasons? So hoping to get some answers here as I imagine there must be quite a few with everyone here. And have a nice week everyone! Because I felt like it.

Juliannadelion -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:09:14 AM)
Because it is the song my heart sings to me. Because being the Big Bossy Bitch all the time was making me sad and crazy. Because I cannot imagine NOT being his slave. Because sitting at his feet and seeing him smile is all the reward I ever need. Because this is what I was born to, this is what makes me happiest, most content, most secure. Because I crave his control, more than I desire freedom. Because he is my Master and I am his slave and there is nothing in this lifetime that can keep me from that.

SassySarijane -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:16:50 AM)
It wasn't so much becomming one as accepting that I am one. It is part of what makes me me.

ThatDamnedPanda -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:37:51 AM)
Someone asked me once how I became a buddhist. I said, I don't think anyone becomes a buddhist. You just wake up one day and realize you are one.

InTonguesslut -> RE: Why Sub or Slave? (3/17/2009 10:38:59 AM)
I was plain and simply born this way [:D]

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