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Fetish Fashions - 3/22/2009 1:12:34 PM

IndigoMystry

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As if you couldn't tell from my profile photo, I'm deep in fetish fashion/fashion fetish. I know it's not for everyone (their bodies simply don't work for a lot of styles), but I'm curious as to what others are thinking/feeling about the fashion part of BDSM. Do you use it to make your sub/slave more appealing sometimes? Do you use it yourself as an expressive tool of your mood/style. etc.? I know "we are who and what we are" no matter how we're clothed, but as an outer expression of inner selves, doesn't it give an extra "kick" to dress the role?

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 3/29/2009 4:42:10 PM

DemonKia

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Um, I'm not finding a profile when I click . . . . . So, it's tough to look at your pics & all that . . . . .

I'm all about fashion, I'm notorious for only wanting things (everything) in my color scheme . .. . .

& I refuse to cooperate with the notion that style is only for the skinny, especially in fetish . . . . . I think that the big girls in fetish-wear, with their ample breasts & bellies & butts spilling out, are as sexy or sexier than the skinny girls in vogue elsewhere . .. . . .

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 3/29/2009 4:45:17 PM

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Oddly enough, I've completely missed where "F" for fashion falls in BDSM. Fetish, yes. Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism, no.

Keep in mind, I'm completely the type to tell someone that My the collar on My boy's neck isn't a fashion statement. Kind of gives you My thoughts on the matter.

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 3/29/2009 4:52:40 PM

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My fashion statement is tee shirt and jeans. I dont care for the stereotyped costuming unless it is for our photos.

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 3/30/2009 5:30:58 PM

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I could not find your profile when I clicked so I cannot comment on your style. I myself love to dress for a session. As a Goddess my favorite is a long black dress with black lacey weblike material on the sleeves and around the bottom of the dress. Black fishnet stockings, high stiletto heels and of course a lovely choker necklace make my look complete. I do also love the latex black catsuits, skirts and thigh high boots , meow! It is just my style and what I am into. Whatever floats your boat. Whether someone is comfortable in jeans or whatever is fine with them. I just know that if my boat sinks, I'm goin down in style.

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 4/4/2009 9:14:27 PM

subcdphilly

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I love the fashion part. the problem I have been running into is I dont feel like there are lots of options for men and I cant seen to find anything that quite fits my personality. Anyone else with that problem or any suggestions?

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RE: Fetish Fashions - 4/4/2009 11:07:19 PM

DemonKia

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Well, many dominants think that the most attractive attire for a sub is nudity . .. . .

& there's the idea that it's gonna depend in part on what your dominant wants you to wear . . ... .

I like guys in women's lingerie, for instance; my inner sadist especially likes it if the guy is straight & uncomfortable about it . . . . . lol . . . . A guy in women's undies just rocks my boat; thongs are okay, too . . . . lol . . . . I also tend to like those harness thingies, all leather straps & metal rings . .. . ..

But seriously, you should follow your interests, your desires . . . . . Look at lots of fetish / sexy wear & get a sense of what attracts you, what appeals to you (there are tons of websites online full of fetishwear & sexy bedroom clothing) . . . . . That's the best place to start . .. . .

Hope this helps . . . . . .

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