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Lockit -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/23/2009 9:54:58 AM)

Thank you slavekal... you bring up a very good point that I thought to expand upon, but I do think I will start another thread to discuss some of this as some of it has been on my mind.  Treating someone that comes to help out with more dominance rather than a friend coming to do a favor seems to be a key factor in all of this.  Strings or no strings. lol




slavelash -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/23/2009 2:21:47 PM)

Yes in fact we DO exist! i consider no strings housework to be the ultimate in serving! If there are any takers out there..............




slavekal -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/23/2009 2:56:24 PM)

I kind of took Ms. Mlicious to task about this topic today.  Good naturedly scolding her.  I added that our "arguments" are the best kind two people could have.  I get mad at her because she does not take advantage of all the men who are aching to serve her.  I get pissed because she is not relaxing and luxuriating enough.  She had to admit she liked that kind of scolding.

Anyway, I weaved a few scenarios and ideas that had her turned on all day.  I suggested various rewards and incentives (that would require little or no effort on her part) for the several men who want to serve her, but who have not been given sufficient opportunity.  Guys she knows and likes, but for whatever reasons, she has not been making use of.  She quickly came to her senses.  There will be a crew of willing men, including me doing her yard work this weekend while she relaxes.




slavelash -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/25/2009 3:31:49 PM)

i'm waaaaaaaayyyyyyy into no strings housework and i never left any "jizz" anywhere! lol




Politesub53 -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/25/2009 4:30:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slavelash

Yes in fact we DO exist! i consider no strings housework to be the ultimate in serving! If there are any takers out there..............


Really ?  You started another thread about your wife not being into BDSM. I am sure if no strings housework was your goal, she would be happy with that. ( With no strings of course )




undergroundsea -> RE: No Strings Housework? (4/25/2009 5:44:55 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slavekal
I am not saying that she owes any of us "play time", but if she would just channel her inner Catwoman a bit more, she would be guaranteed future volunteers.  A slave needs to be treated like a slave, not a pal.  Sometimes that can be reward enough for us.


I agree.

The point I will add is that this approach works best for service submissives who provide service primarily as a D/s expression. It might not work as well for someone whose motivation to provide service is different.

In general, it is helpful to understand what brings the desire to provide service.

Cheers,

Sea




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