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Zechriel -> RE: how long does one wait (4/25/2009 5:41:42 PM)
Good evening! There is much more going on here than you are saying. but you say you "love him" does that mean you will wait? I waited for someone for nearly 10 months, literally sitting in a sun room staring out at the road waiting for them to call or come by-nothing. By the time he finally did make contact, it was too late, my feelings had changed and I was already talking to Daddy. But for Daddy I would wait forever because I love him. Which brings me to my next concern that you toss the word love around but then say you might leave. To me, leaving was never an option BECAUSE I did love my Daddy. Even if he pushed me away, my soul was His, never any doubt about that. Call me old fashioned but maybe you should take "love" more seriously. Or maybe that comes as you get older. then again maybe you are a sub that can love and walk away. I am slave to my feelings and my Master and I cannot even imagine that. Good luck. Love, Zechriel [sm=couple.gif]

agirl -> RE: how long does one wait (4/26/2009 7:02:32 AM)
Without speculating on the type of relationship you have, it would appear that you don't have a master. If he's not there in any way....he's not doing any mastering is he? It appears as though you're slave to an illusion, basically. agirl

untamedshysub -> RE: how long does one wait (4/26/2009 7:31:40 AM)
I do not know where I heard or read this but I like it and try to live by it never make someone your priority while you are still their option. Life is a lot less painful ( in the bad way) when you remain balanced until the feelings are mutal.

lizi -> RE: how long does one wait (4/26/2009 8:27:50 AM)
Look at it this way...would you ever do things in the way that your supposed Master is doing them to you? Even if you were in a hospital or jail wouldn't you find some way to contact him? You would - no matter what condition you were in you'd let him know what the heck was going on in your life and why you hadn't been in contact with him. He obviously doesn't view you in the same manner. As some of the other posters have said you seem to be a side dish to his life that he hasn't had time for or made the time for. I suspect he could find the 10 min he needs to drop you a line via some communication method. Short of being tied up for days at a time anyone could find a spare 10 min to get a message to someone. If you are happy with this scenario where he's not contacting you then try waiting for him although it very well might be that he'll never get in touch again. If you don't want to live this way, move on. Of course that all sounds nice and easy and it's not like that at all and it hurts like hell. It's a shame the guy doesn't realize what he has in you but the fact is that he doesn't. You should probably gather yourself together and move on. Sorry you are going through this....

leadership527 -> RE: how long does one wait (4/26/2009 10:16:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: agirl Without speculating on the type of relationship you have, it would appear that you don't have a master. If he's not there in any way....he's not doing any mastering is he? It appears as though you're slave to an illusion, basically. wild applause God I love you how get ot the heart of a matter agirl.

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