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RE: Dr. Phil - 8/30/2006 2:14:19 PM

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I swear Dr. Phil could nearly turn me straight gosh I LOVE THE GUY!

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RE: Dr. Phil - 9/15/2006 8:10:00 PM

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I watched it. Basically the man wanted his wife and lover to accept what he wanted. His wife wasn't happy with it. His mistress thought he should choose. Only the man thought it was a solution.

Dr Phil told him that since his wife and mistress werent ready to fall in, that he had a choice.
One, work on it with his wife and put the other woman aside.
Or, not give up the other woman. To which Dr Phil advised the wife she was the one who should choose whether or not to stick.

I didn't view it as a poly wanting man. I saw it as a man only thinking of how HE could be happy, never mind the two women and children in his life.

Seemed kinda selfish to me.
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ORIGINAL: LadyCompassion

I was watching Dr. Phil today and the episode was on a man who was interested in Poly fidelity but his wife was not.

Did anyone happen to see this and what are your opinions on Dr. Phil's response to it.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 9/16/2006 4:45:40 AM

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I saw it and the husband at first for years was going behind the wifes back and lying to her about it. Not good. The husband then told the wife when she found out that either she dealt with it or left. Nice guy. Seemed like he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. not really a poly thing just a skeezer. He made poly people look bad, Dr. Phil told him to get a grip. Dont think the wife is able to deal with it and do this.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 9/27/2006 9:37:24 AM

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It' simple: both must agree to make anything work in a marriage..that is why i'm never getting married again

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RE: Dr. Phil - 9/29/2006 9:55:31 AM

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Let's be honest..... Dr. Phil would not be on in the middle of the afternoon for all to see if he was not mainstream... and therefore he has to saty somewhat on a moral code for most of America... I however have watched Dr. Phil from day 1 of his show and he has addressed several different issues. I seem to recall the gal that called in and asked if her liking to be spanked was normal. Dr. Phil turned several shades of red and basically told her if that is what you like.

He does however have a problem when chilren are involoved he feels a higher code is dealt with then.

The show is question... Well that guy was just an a$$ and wanted a young play thing and did not care about anyones thoughts and feelings but his very own. And the poly couple that followed ..come on do you tell your children to masterbate when they are stressed. or make them walk around the house naked in front of everyone. I don't and never intend to. This was a rediculous poly relationship that was just out in the deviant rim of this life style.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 10/5/2006 6:21:14 AM

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He basically said poly-fidelity was cheating. Which is not necessarily true. In this case, his partner was not consenting for this, so it obviously WAS cheating. What Dr. Phil doesn't realize is that a lot of people practice this (consensually) as a form of BDSM.

Exactly what I would expect from a straight laced vanilla, although I disagree with the man cheating. I never saw that particular show.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 10/20/2006 8:15:08 AM

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Did'nt Phil have trouble with his own marriage a while back.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 10/20/2006 2:02:21 PM

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As much as I have agreed with Dr. Phil on some of the issues that he has had on his show .... sometimes he really does pick the wrong guests to represent the issues. When this happens there are millions of people that watch and think "oh my God, people into BDSM, Poly, Swapping ... (whatever) are really deranged and perverted. Well we can pick the worst of any group and shine the light on them as if they are the group when ... they are only wannabee's!
Dr. Phil sometimes should really do a lot more research before he takes on issues that he knows nothing about!

Duh. Don't you think they pick these dysfunctional freakazoids for a reason? Normal, balanced and well-adjusted people do not make for interesting afternoon television! How else would you compete with Oprah and Jerry Springer?

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RE: Dr. Phil - 10/20/2006 2:03:25 PM

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Shows like this don't really exist to enlighten but rather to shock and provide their "hosts" with an opportunity to pontificate. I think the best illustration of this was when Janet Hardy and I were asked to take part in one such show but later dropped because the producer said we "looked too normal."

Yep, Montel ditched a few pro doms years ago when we were too intelligent and normal for what they wanted to do.

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RE: Dr. Phil - 10/22/2006 2:47:25 PM

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This thread seems to be going on for quite some time. Funny how I would find it when I am going through the same thing. Sir has been totally honest with his wife regarding his desire to live this lifestyle and his desire with me. She and I have talked both on the phone and online. She is asking a lot of questions and trying to understand but she can't. She is a hard core christian and can not come close to understanding a poly relationship. Sir continues to work with her and try to get her to understand but just like one of the post here stated, we feel she is only trying to cope with things to keep from losing him. I tried to explain to her that she would lose nothing. Everything would remain the same for her except that there would be an addition to the family and that Sir would be loved by us both. I know she is trying and so does Sir but we both also know that she will never be able to handle this. She is not one of us. He has some difficult decisions to make and all I can do is serve him to the best of my ability until he makes that decision. She is aware of his time with me and at times she is ready to meet me but quickly changes her mind when the time comes. I am being patient and will see where this road takes us.

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