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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/1/2009 12:59:39 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I think it would necessarily be consensual. The person wanting it, can only have it if she is having her period. The woman of course would know that she's having her period and if she's not up to it, wouldn't have shown up to begin with.

All of the women I've been with where I've been the submissive on the receiving end have been highly excited by the activity. So I doubt that someone who won't be interested would even be involved to begin with. If you really know the woman, you'd know these things.

As I had mentioned earlier, I can smell when she's about to have her period about 2 days before it happens.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/1/2009 1:02:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are people who can smell those changes occuring yup, I wonder then if you can smell a body that has been chemically altered so they do not menstruate any more? My birthcontrol Depo pervera stopped my periods immediatly after starting it, which is what I had hoped it would do as a side affect of taking it.


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As I had mentioned earlier, I can smell when she's about to have her period about 2 days before it happens.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/1/2009 1:07:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		Certain drugs do change body odor and if I were familiar with the odors I'd notice. But, no, I don't think I'd notice chemical alteration to stop a menstrual cycle. I haven't met anyone on that medication yet, so I'm not sure.


Has anyone else noticed any change in body scent?

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/1/2009 2:06:22 PM   
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Certain drugs do change body odor and if I were familiar with the odors I'd notice. But, no, I don't think I'd notice chemical alteration to stop a menstrual cycle. I haven't met anyone on that medication yet, so I'm not sure.


Has anyone else noticed any change in body scent?

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 2:15:33 PM   
BigRich57


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Status: offline 		It does depend on the woman.  My third subby was horny when she was bleeding and was insistant about sex while bleeding.  She would do all the prep of getting towels, etc and the cleanup afterward of the towels, herself and myself.  No too wild about the vampire idea myself.
Think of it, she's already lubed.
Some Masters do not allow their slavegirls to use sanitary supplies when in their presence during menstration so they are always available to him 24/7.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 2:49:38 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		Yes it is quite slippery. It was also quite a turn-on for me seeing all of that blood all over me. I prefer her on top during her period.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 3:00:30 PM   
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The "bottoming from the top" was a comment a Mistress had made to me when I had mentioned dominating a submissive I was interested in. She said that my wanting to dominate because that was what would please the submissive was itself a submissive act.

I understand what you are saying. I should center what I want over what would please her. Any submissive attitude is going to come across if the thought that my dominating is a submissive act.

It's like when I was studying acting. There is an energy that comes across when you immerse yourself in a role. Even if you just stand there, not moving, the character's energy comes across to the audience. The emotional energy will be there.


I suggest you ask the Mistress in question a question and see how she answers...

- Her beating a masochist will please the masochist (if she knows what she's doing), does that make her a submissive with a whip?

I know no dominant (m or f) who's worth his salt who will completely disregard the pleasure (satisfaction would possibly be a better word) of his or her submissives or slaves, because if the sub is not getting anything out of it, said sub would leave and dominant would be left without anybody to dominate. Nobody wears shackles or is forced to stay.

Take into consideration that in this life-style what is "pleasure" is significantly different from vanilla, displeasure, discomfort and pain can and are pleasurable for some. Would you be willing to forgo your own pleasure as a top because the bottom might also get pleasure out of it?

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 3:10:43 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I think the difference is that a dominant beats the sub not only for the pleasure of the sub but also for the pleasure of the dominant.

Someone who is a sub who is beating another sub, but doesn't get pleasure from the act of domination over the sub is still performing a submissive act. I think that's the difference.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 3:27:40 PM   
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Status: offline 		Why would one sub beat another sub unless ordered to do so by a dominant?

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 3:51:39 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		This is something I'm familiar with and I'll try to answer as best I can. When one sub falls in love with another sub, sometimes one will dominate the other because that is what she wants. His domination is done for her pleasure, not his. His only pleasure is making her happy by giving her what she wants.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 4:01:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		the film Anatomy of Hell has mentrual scenes in it you might like


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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 4:15:20 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		Is this the one that's in french? I'll check it out if I can find it.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/12/2009 5:17:34 PM   
SirNsPride


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Status: offline 		if the relationship is a close bond, it is an intense gift. Marking Master makes me feel neither Domme or submissive, rather, makes me feel like a Goddess. Read some of the tantra literature about giving of oneself. Good luck

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/13/2009 3:00:03 AM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I'll do that. Some of the poly groups I'm involved with have Tantric classes. I'll ask around for some books on the subject.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/13/2009 3:35:48 AM   
ranja


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Status: offline 		yes french, english subtitles, lots of people found it pretentious clap trap (my Husband included) but to me it was weird but good. A woman paying a gay man to show him what is means to be a woman to her...

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/13/2009 3:47:50 AM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I like independent art films, avant garde art and music; so I might like this too.

Next time I'm in Hollywood, I'll check out some places and see if I can find it.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/13/2009 7:43:20 PM   
porcelaine


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Status: offline 		it really does depend on the person and their conditioning as well. some are vehemently opposed to it for cultural or religious reasons. be aware of this in advance and understand it isn't everyone's cup of tea. personally i'm not bothered at all and have had it done on many occasions. but then again i like blood play as well. good luck.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/13/2009 9:30:17 PM   
Tslaveboy


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Status: offline 		I have met people in the past who have cultural and spiritual reservations when it comes to menstruation. I've also met others who've been very excited by it. I usually play it according to the situation.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/15/2009 3:35:43 PM   
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She said that my wanting to dominate because that was what would please the submissive was itself a submissive act.

I understand what you are saying. I should center what I want over what would please her. Any submissive attitude is going to come across if the thought that my dominating is a submissive act.


Not necessarily. The Man's desires are compatible with mine. Beyond that, he doesn't get any fun if I'm not actively involved. If I was unhappy with what was happening, not trying to please him, just curling up into a ball and trying to endure it, he wouldn't get any pleasure.

He says that it's an energy exchange, that if my energy level is low then I won't be feeding it to him. But if I'm happy and excited by what's going on, then he feeds off that and gets even more into it himself.

Dominants, like submissives, like people of all kind, don't come in just one form.
Basically a dominant is someone who prefers to lead and is good at it, and a submissive is one who prefers to be led by someone who enjoys leading and makes good decisions.

But topping/bottoming require negotiation when you're just meeting people. If they don't enjoy it, don't expect them to come back for more. I'm a great believer in the first few times being filled with stuff that both people like a lot so that it is a positive experience, not a negative. Not to mention that if you don't know them sufficiently well, just doing what you want and expecting them to take it no matter what can well cause them to red, leaving both of you unhappy and disappointed.

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RE: Domination & menstruation - 5/19/2009 11:35:07 AM   
mediana


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Status: offline 		I have found my Master liked controlling me during my monthly bleed. He decided whether i used a tampon or pad. If i was seeing him he would make sure i used a pad so that there was a good deal of blood on show when he used me. We both found this so erotic,,,  he enjoyed the taste of my blood and loved to kiss me when he had that taste in his mouth.

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