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lally2 -> RE: Just because (4/30/2009 1:46:41 PM)
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He says then it must be me, i must not be a "true submissive". Yet i feel not submissive but more a cheap cleaning service and sex toy.
hey there. picked this out cos this sort of statement is so arrogant, so destructive, so rude, so wrong, so f*%$^^g irresponsible it makes me so damn mad!
youve found the wrong sort for youreself is all, leave and find someone more suited to youre personality type.
this isnt just about kinky sex for alot of people, its about a mindset and a personality trait that you felt strongly enough about to go out there and put youreself on the line for. do not let him undermine youre journey when its only just started. what an arrogant bastard, bugger that!
also - take responsibility for youre choices, this is youre future, youre relationship style, youre health and happyness. go about this like you would for any relationship, find someone you can talk to, feel comfortable with, you can trust and who brings out that 'instinct' in you to submit. you need to trust and respect youre leader, you clearly dont here, his methods dont work for you - they wouldnt work for me either. if someone tried to keep me under the thumb the whole time id rebell too. and ill tell you why, because deep down id question his ability to handle me any other way. so id test him out. id have to, its instinct. youre putting youreself on the line with this guy, you need to know if he has the necessary skills to look after you if things go wrong and you need more than 'spread youre legs while youre cleaning the toilet!' to go by.
its fun you know, when you realise that you are exactly what you are, purely by the instincts that tell you when its right, wrong, great, time to go.
youre cool, just move on.
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