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RE: Toy Bag Dusty - 2/13/2006 9:30:56 PM

willing2serve

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Not using the instruments of BDSM does not cheapen or degrade the sincerity of worship or service.

Very good point!!! My relationship itself is not lacking.....some play is lacking (in my opinion)...but in its place Im learning the peace of worship and service...something I have not had in past relationships. So, I am getting a more balanced relationship this time...because i was all play in past long- term relationships..

I do firmly believe the toy bag is dusty due to life in general, but also, I do believe that Master doesnt want an all play relationship and actually, I dont either.

So, again, Im not complaining....just curious. (AND ready to get the dust buster out! ..LOL)

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RE: Toy Bag Dusty - 2/13/2006 9:43:05 PM

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suddenly one person doesn't want to

I dont know if "suddenly" is a keyword....but this was a progression of dust on the toy bag...not all of a sudden....

In the beginning, much play, less service because that was what I was use to...and with that point being made, Master slowly let me get use to the "rules of submission" for lack of a better term.

He surrounded me with a HUGE circle...I got away with murder in the beginning..lol....I cant believe now some of the stunts i pulled. Then as I relenquished more and more control willingly, the circle got smaller and i was finding my slave's heart.

You have to remember...I was more of a bottom and SAM for over five years before i met my Master.

So, it was more of a progression of more service, more intimacy, more affection, much more of many things..and less play....not all of a sudden cold turkey.

Again, its not our desire that has stopped for play (even though i probably desire it more)...Just as W/we have grown together we've added other things to O/our circle as well.

We've allowed the "busy-ness" in our lives control more of the play, which we are working on. But on the other hand, there's other things that's been added that is so rewarding.

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